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Please who ever sees this message should help with any advice because i have been trying to fund how to post from my page,I am confused presently about my life,My Dad is insisting that i should stay at home until he has money so he can establish me,Just as my elder brother did,But for me i started paying my school fees from 200lvl after he refused to sponsor,He almost made my life tun up side down but for mum whom helped me through the hardship. Now i have a lady whom has given birth for me and she is a christian and i am a Muslim and an hausa guy,My Parent are saying that i cant marry her even if she converts that they had check it and the marriage wont end up well in future,I am seriously confused on what to believe. My Conscience is judging me as i know if i leave the girl i have ruined her because she has given birth and how will the life of my child be,Because my Mum is saying i should leave the child for them and move on with my life which is a very hard task for me. Now my mum is insisting that if i marry the girl she wont welcome me anymore. As for my Dad he sick in the head and doesnt know what he is doing.

I dont know what to do for the girl,I believe every one knows how the hausa culture consist of. Please can someone advice me on what to do........