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2BB4CB3E:
you are welcome! yea and about the 2nd kid!
before i forget.... men are very territorial! i dont know the age differences between the kids but i will advice you to allow them to be close!
that way you wont allow the child or your HUSBAND to feel awkward or start having funny tots
its easy take them out together! buy the kids toys that they can play together that isn't COMPETITIVE
the closer the kids are the easier things will be for your husband and you
hope you understand dear

Yes i do. The kids are 10yrs and 2yrs

@rosalieene, @emperorlee and @2bb4cb3e thanks y'all. God bless

papinx:
Let me say that he came back to atone for his misdeed of leaving you in the first place which exposed you to the inhuman treatment of the latter man.

You must be certain with all sincerity that he is back for good and not rush into marriage. I know it's not easy but try not to appear helpless so you are not taken advantage of.

Prayers would help too....

I wish you the best....

Thanks and God bless

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2dice01:
keep calm bae...go ahead and marry him...just make sure he doesnt get to the promiseland..until after you guys tie the nut ...you hear wetin i talk close your legs ..for now

Thanks much, I appreciate

JeffreyJamez:
Well it depends.... If the guy truly loves you and wants to be with you, I believe your having another man's child won't stop him... And I must give you kudos for coming out straight with him about the child... What you need to do now is take things slow with him watch his attitude towards both kids, and towards you too.. Take your time and don't rush things.

Hello nairalanders, i need your candid advice on an issue. I'm in my late twenties, self employed and a single mother of 2. I had my first child when i was in the university, the father and i used to be in touch until he traveled to the UK, he stopped calling so i moved on. After my youth service, i met another guy. I told him about my love child, he said it is not a problem. We did small introduction and fixed 2015 for our wedding. I got pregnant, he was happy about it but later called the pregnancy a bastard and he cut all ties with me. I gave birth to the baby, she is 2years now and i made up my mind not to love or marry again after having 2kids for 2men. Recently the guy who i had my first child for called and pleaded that he wants to marry me. I told him i have another child for another man, he didn't believe me though and asked his sister to talk to me. Now the sister wants me to marry him with another's man child even after telling her everything. Please my good people, can such marriage work?