Thank you everyone for your candied advise and all comments. I'll continue to read more comments. Some of them are very comforting. Thank you again.

@ifyalways your comment hurts but then i figured its the bitter truth. But one day soon in the near future when you're around my age, make sure you have it all stable so you don't have to chew your words. Remember nobody wishes misfortune upon himself or herself.

Hello everyone, I'm looking for a responsible man willing to co-parent with me. I'm a divorcee with one child hoping to have one more before I turn 40 which is around the corner. I haven't been fortunate with love so I'm not really looking to remarry. I'm open to a civil partnership without undue pressure. Otherwise I'm fine with you being in your child's life only and doing the needful. If you're out there hopingto have kids without the pressure or commitment of marriage,do get in touch. Cheers.