Yes, you will most likely regret it. I used to think like you too when i was in my 20s and even in my 30s. But it hit me some time in my early 40s.

Humans are social animals by nature...even though I've always been a loner, I still loved some time with close friends and family once in a while. But when those family and friends start building their own family and no longer have time for you, you start having an existential crisis...you start wondering if you're really making the right decision by not getting married and having kids.

There are little joys that comes with being a parent that you can't quantify. And I'm not talking about what some people have been saying above like having someone to send on errands or having someone to take care of you when you're old. That's cool, but there are other little things like seeing a human being that's a part of you, and seeing yourself in him...let me give you an example.

During my late 20s and most part of my 30s, I was away from my family...I hardly came home. So when I started getting closer to my parents again in my 40s, I would some times drive them to church. I look a lot like my dad and his friends are always surprised that he has another son that they never knew, that is doing okay for himself, and looks just like how he looked when he was my age. When they start going on and on about the resemblance and they ask questions about me with him there, I always see that joy in his eyes...that fulfilment. As I said it can't be quantified.

When me and my other siblings visit my parents and they bring their kids, you can't explain the joy they feel. It wasn't easy all through the journey, but right now in their late 70s/early 80s, they're fulfilled. By the way, I'm not married...I'm getting married later this year. I'm 43.

I don't regret not marrying early...I had to learn some lessons in life. I'm just happy I made up my mind before I got to 50.

plaindealer:



This is the most damaging, sad and embarrassing part of the Professor's takedown, Peter Obi's political party and identity is the term obidient, obi is the head and the leader of the obidient mob, so for the Professor to categorically assert that he's unable to relate to something as obedient and the obedient family, the so-called fascist mob says more than a lot about Obi himself and the kind of people he leads.

Sometimes I really do feel sorry for this obi man, as a politician and a presidential candidate in Nigeria, you need a strong support base, but he's so unlucky that his support base is toxic people, intolerant bigots, and utter fascists that he can nor run away from or criticize or even beg to stop attacking, insulting and bullying opponents, the so-called obidient mob are his only base and if I might add, many of them are ipob sympathizers, another reason why Obi till today won't say anything against Igbos and this is another reason why the professor can not relate to the so-called obidient and obi himself, their leader.

The professor is not dumb or clueless to the fact that Obi sat quietly and did not say a word or even caution his fascist mob sto stop attacking, abusing and insulting the professor, he sat back and enjoyed every minute of it, now the coward and circus clown visited the professor as if nothing happened.

[b]Obi is a very dishonest, untrustworthy and manipulating [/b]scum and I'm glad the professor called him out and his fascist obidients.

You have described him perfectly. Listening to that his leaked audio with Oyedepo told me all I need to know about Obi.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Obi is over stressing himself, involving himself in everything and it's telling on him, he used to be a handsome man, he needs to relax, accept defeat and go for vacation. I don't know how some people will still believe he has any mandate to reclaim, same people that believed Buhari is Jubril El Sudan. You people should stop leading him on and let him rest.

It will be hard for him to accept defeat, even though he knows deep down that he lost the elections...He can't accept because he probably got soooo much donation from people, home and abroad, so he has to give his sponsors hope that he can still become the president...but trust me, he knows he didn't win.

SmartyPants:
It's now he knows he doesn't accept those behaviours.

Something you would have denounced emphatically when they were going after people aggressively. Unfortunately, he probably thought it was helping his cause.

and just look at the deceitful statement:



Even lying that those insulting others are not Obidients instead of owning up to the act, forgetting that much earlier he had already endorsed them as his followers when he claimed that Obidients insult because they are angry.

Exactly. I remember when he said that.

Kellie069:
My good friend Alex! He doesn’t smoke or drink. He won’t even sip a drop of alcohol because if e tries it, na straight admission! But guess what? Egbon is a City Boy.. Baba drugs like crazy. He doesn’t hide it, if a girl sees and ask, he go say na supplements way him uncle send from jand.. drugs way that guy de take, I never see 70% of it before. Na google de help me know the names n it effect

lol...this made me laugh.

001Lagos:
As a guy, I can't just imagine a life without drinking but in a responsible way ..

I feel you. I had to give up drinking last year because of health reasons, but damn, life is so boring without drinking once in a while. I'm happy to be alive, but I really miss having that bottle of Legend every once in a while.

1Sharon:
The thing I don't understand Is why must it always be a very old man??

Why not a man in his 40s at least?

Like someone above said, these kinds of arrangements are made by children of old men that don't have time to take care of their father...they find a young bride for him that will play the role of a maid and a companion...and she will be financially rewarded, even after the man passes.

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cassidy1996:
Fake story

Exactly. Too many fake stories making front page these days.

After watching the full interview, I have to say this is the best I have seen Tinunbu in recent times. It's almost like he is a different person here. No blunders...very fluent.

Favvy1:
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GloriousGbola:
History will not smile on David hundeyin for this misguided nonsense.

He had created a smear on abiola that will grow a life of its own and outlive whatever silly game he is playing.

5,10 20 years from now this rubbish will be a so called 'fact'.

Some will even say abiola was imprisoned for drug pushing.

What a fame obsessed child

This is so true. This is one thing I tell people when they wonder why I go hard on Nigerian bloggers that post unconfirmed stories... In the future, people will read these posts and take them as fact.

Endsarspillar:

I love your narrative, maybe it’s a mindset thing.
And what do say about his super mod defending Tinubu, it’s also a mindset game ?

His super mod has a mind of his own... his super mod is not Seun. If Seun was biased, he wouldn't have even allowed that David Hundeyin post alleging that Tinubu is a drug dealer to appear on his forum. But he is unbiased...he lets everything be posted, and you the reader make up your mind on what you want to believe.

Endsarspillar:
Fiam, take it to front page!

But if it’s Peter Obi, then you know the story.
I'll be bold and say that the owner of this playground called Nairaland is determined to tarnish the image of a specific region. His contempt for those people was revealed on Twitter, for which he later apologized.


For his b!voted mods, you can do-your worst

lol. If you follow Seun on Twitter, you'll know he bashes Tinubu...he is not a Tinubu supporter. You just chose to see what you want. There are as much Peter Obi posts on Front Page of Nairaland as they are Tinubu posts.

tunjijones:


Normal normal nairaland is a very toxic place filled with hatred and insane people.

The tribalism, the hatred is so much. There is nobody on nairaland that has not been affected with this toxicity both online and especially offline.

.

That's very true. Nairaland has turned people that weren't tribalists before to tribalists...but I don't like how the guy is making it seem like Nairaland is biased with this...they let all the hate flourish...whether Yoruba bashing Igbos, Igbos bashing Yorubas, etc.

Smithkafors:
This election is between PDP and Labor. Tinubu will come distant 4th.

HAHAHA! I laugh at guys like you that make statements like this. I'm not voting or supporting Tinubu, but if you think the man is not a threat, you're ignorant to how Naija politics works.

GeneralPula:
Izz Ok..

Hungry hoes go copy there names begin search for them on social media..

LadyD22:


Host a talkshow with my imaginary YouTube fans , "so guys as I was saying...."

lol

Thonia69:
Lol, I love this comment!

Cos it is what a lot do but are ashamed to admit.

fk001:
Those complaining the most will not vote Tinubu even if he picks POPE FRANCIS as his running mate

This is very true.

Kkshanana90:
My grandma once said: “If you don’t want to know who your mum dated before she met your father, avoid politics”.

Hahahaha! I swear. Even if someone offers me 30 billion, I can never join politics. NEVER!

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Samskid310:
I wanted to be the first to comment but due to high rate of unemployment, it seems some people sleep here�

LMAO! You made me laugh out loud. I wasn't expecting this comment.

pocohantas:


Where did you see mum? And how is it an abuse? Who then are the girls tripping for Tuface if your sister and gf aren’t one?

So so rude. I used to like you, but I guess you've let your popularity on Nairaland get to your head. SMH.

pocohantas:


I am not your sister or gf. That is not to say I have anything against bald men.

Why bring my sister and mom into this? I didn't even abuse you. Don't worry, I will see you this evening and you can say the same thing to my face.

pocohantas:


I am not your sister or gf. That is not to say I have anything against bald men.

Poco so rude.

pocohantas:


Hahahahahaha @ airport runway.
Then tell us how they age like Sapele wine.

Eweyyyyy!

Tuface and Morris Chestnut are bald, but you girls still trip for them...you can't compare baldness in men with out of shape women.

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Super story...this guy just sat in his room and made up a story.

WhatCanIsay:
Na this kind stupid guy you go sign Non Disclosure Agreement with, tomorrow because of his pothole like mouth, he will vomit everything to win few likes on social media.

Not trustworthy at all.

Exactly