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enemyofprogress:
"Don't Date If You Can't Afford It!" — Bukky Wright Sparks Heated Debate on Relationships and Money.

Veteran Nollywood actress Bukky Wright has set social media on fire after sharing her opinion on the financial responsibilities of men in relationships.

According to the actress, a man should naturally provide for the woman he is dating without waiting for her to ask.

In her words:

"She doesn't even need to ask you. It's your responsibility as a man to know that your woman needs to dress well and look good. She should be your pride."

Reacting to the term "gold digger," Bukky Wright didn't hold back:

"I hate it when men call women gold diggers. What do you expect her to dig? I won't advise any woman to dig anything less than gold."

When asked if men who cannot afford the financial demands of dating should stay away from relationships, she responded:

"Then don't date if you cannot afford it! Or date according to your level."

Her comments have since divided opinions. While some people agree that a man should be willing to support his partner, others believe that modern relationships should be built on love, partnership, and shared responsibility, rather than placing the financial burden on one person.

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This woman just shattered the decades of respect that many have for her. Very poor take from her.

In her myopic logic, a man should provide for a lady he is not married to, and has no consanguineous relationship with? A random woman that can leave anytime? A woman that might have very little value to offer you (no talking about sex here).

What happened to going for extra courses and certifications for yourself? What happened to purchasing stock and be earning passive income?

If you're feeling too generous and your family are doing well, the man should locate the nearest orphanage or Primary Health Care Center and establish a stream of donation for them. God will bless you tremendously (hopefully including a good lady for a spouse).

No man has any business providing for a lady you're not married to. She's not your wife, mother, daughter, sister, etc. Her parents and family should do the providing. Nobody should fuel anybody's entitlement.

Or Hanty don dey rage-bait in order to earn from X and Facebook? Because this nonsense she vomited is totally reprehensible.

A very dangerous precedent has already been set. Black South Africans are the worst of the bunch. They have the lowest record for anything positive in South Africa- HDI, companies owned, Life expectancy, education etc.

In South Africa it's the whites at the top, every other race in the middle and the black South Africans at the bottom.

If you love the Nat Geo Wild program Snakes in the City, you'll see this disparity on display. The white neighborhoods are always well-kept, then the Indians and the coloreds. But the Black neighborhood, almost always dirty. I mean lacking resources does not automatically translate to being unsanitary.

They're only good at looting maiming, raping, killing, spreading AIDS and bragging about the achievements of the whites. The best governed province in South Africa are run by the whites. Left to these nincompoops, South Africa would be worst than DRC.

Blackarmywizard:
Is there anything going on there

Things dey happen for everywhere my brother. What I feel she wants is the connect to the man in order to secure any possible vacancy via his influence.

@Hajaratu119, if you applied for any of the organizations under CDCDIB, you ought to have pressed for it long before this Medical Stage. At this stage, it's really hard to change things favourably for you. Those DGs are constantly bombarded with requests similar to yours from every corner.

There's no harm in seeking and I hope you get the contact and it favors you.

Gabicon20:
Lolz 😂 He's a newbie with zero experience on the hustle, e no go rest.

Hi, everyone, I'm not a regular here, but reading the latest comments here shows why people with genuine info would be hesitant to release certain info.

First, Gabicon20, you need to calm down. Yes @jemmy2142 might be very excited and overzealous, but his post has a lot of truth to it.

Do you know what has happened from Application Stage to the current medical Stage? Connection levels differ on strength and association.

Some connect works after application where their candidate will skip all stage and are slotted in the medical stage. Those who got to this stage by connect are almost likely to get the job bar any extreme medical issues.

While some other connect after application, they do not bother themselves with the rest of the stages. They are simply waiting for their APL which they will get. These are the two major realities that exist in Nigeria's Public Recruitment System.

In all of these, there's still a window, however small for merit. So, some might still get it on merit. But if you have your connection, it's way more easier for you.

These three reality co-exists side-by-side.

I'm very sure that these are what jemmy2142 was alluding to that those who got here through connect are certain of getting the job. Excuse his overzealousness.

NOTE, I'm not writing for you to believe ANYTHING I'm saying because it does not change the reality. I'm writing to encourage you to calm down and take what's of benefit to you in his post and similar ones and move on. No harm intended bro. Cheers.

While it is undeniable that the governor has good intentions for his subjects; He should have turn this into a major opportunity to boost his State's economy and generate more IGR, rather than commiting ECONOMIC SUICIDE which will crash the state further.

I mean why not invite the Dutch or Italians (or the Boers of South Africans) and partner with them to help you turn the State into the feeding hub of West Africa and a top sub-national exporter of food. Devise short, medium and long term strategies on how to do this.

This shows that the governor barely knows what he's doing economic-wise. If other states instituted the same measure, then the country will definitely collapse.

The problem is not about scarcity of food because there's MORE than excess in the state. The real issue is that there's little economic growth and the people have very low purchasing power. Outside Suleja (which is not a farming hub and heavily mixed tribe-wise), there's hardly any noticeable economic activity.

Since he was elected by Nigerlites, let them enjoy him.

CaveAdullam:
1. Human civilization has gone through many different trends, like genetic traits, some cultures and beliefs were able to survive up to this moment while others were lost.

Men should take over leadership and authority and women as convenient companions making the best use of themselves and time.

Thanks.

Great discourse sir @CaveAdullam, this is priceless!

A little diversion requiring your perspective:

Knowing that bulk of women scary this days and (worthless) sex is everywhere. What advise will you give a young man in his mid-20s whose just starting life and finding his footing trying to secure capital to delve into business (through jobs here and there).

Is it ideal to postpone marriage for a few years (age 29-34). Knowing that the economy is very harsh and one needs to build multiple streams of income.

Is it also sensible to eschew postgraduate education (MSc and MBA) and solely focus on securing getting a better job and looking for other ways to generate capital. (Japa is out of the equation for now—funds ish).

OR can postgraduate be combines with a job, business, (and marriage)?

Thanks sir.
I read posts from the posters below, (Guest/Ghostmode). I'll appreciate your contributions: @Messrs Franchasofficia, Emmaodet, Martinez39s and Tensazangetsu20.

Thanks.

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