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Thank you all for your positive reply.

Male-LovePeddler!

I'm a south african who's been in & out of a relationship wit this Nigerian man for 5yrs. He went to get hiv tested, was happy with the results then decided to settle down that's how we got back together. Our relationship got more serious than before.

Now I recently found out that he slept wit my sister same day I was telling my sister how we were planning to get married & looking up on her seeking sisterly advise. It broke my heart they both said it was a mistake but my sister later confessed she did it intentionally because she felt she was living under my shadow. All this has passed I got back wit him but part of me still hurting,sometimes I feel that I made a huge mistake by taking him back. things got more serious than ever. We engaged & he talks about starting a family. He is kind & loving & very good wit my son he actually takes him as his own he is even plannin on changing his surname once we get married he asked me to leave my job & manages 1 of his businesses of which I did. Yet deep down I feel that I would have listened to my heart more before I made rational decisions, I still feel hurt by what happened, everynight the memories still haunt me down. I'm not yet healed & I don't know how to pull through this.

Please help.

Confused