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sylvalord:
Do you still love her? can you provide all she needs? do you think she still loves you? think about these and the answers you get shall tell you what to do.

Alright bro

sylvalord:
She simply means: I need money from you, i can't continue in this relationship without it.

And brother,what would u advise?

Lala247:
So u want sex plus her money too ?

Is sex the only thing a girl can offer in a relationship?

Because any other thing they can;she's not offering...

In relation to my previous thread.


my girlfriend has been giving me some attitude lately,and when I asked her what's wrong she asked me a question;

Do you believe that a relationship can stand without money?

And I replied;

No,but it shouldn't be built on money.

Then she started saying things like;
Nothing is free oh! Nothing goes for nothing. I know the type of family I'm from (I don't wanna say they're broke but they ain't rich)

•I need someone to enlighten me on what she meant by the above••



NOTE: we have been dating for few months now, and I have been spending on her but decided to stop to know how she will react. This girl has never spent one naira(#1) on me. All she brings to the table is just SEX.

Just don't deny a good girl what she deserves.

pinkycute:
Is this the first time she's asking you for money

I take care of her hair bills,bought one or two wears for her few times,and I do give little cash to sustain her a little.

ivyT:
If she frequently ask u for favors then shes going for
d money
It doesn't mean she doesn't love/ like u_but u like her,nd its been 8mnths so u shld know if she loves u without d 'favors'.

I guess the favours goes in hand with the feelings.

The words my girlfriend said to me;

I know you're trying your best in providing for me,but it's not just enough.
I asked you to give me money to buy my cream and its oil,shoe and earrings I want to use for an event,yet you have said and done nothing about it.
Then why must you be angry if I have to please other people just to get what I want?


I was speechless because deep down I know I have the money to buy what she asked for,but I want a TRUE relationship that can stand with/without money.

I'm from a wealthy home but she's otherwise(don't mean to brag or insult).


I have been thinking about all she said and now I really need advice on this issue. The relationship is 8months old and I really like this girl.




Thanks in advance for your anticipated advice.