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It should be put as a married man who married a liability how are you coping...my wife doesn't disturb me once I buy bag of rice..2 paint bucket of beans..3 paint of yellow garri..1 paint of white garri..5 litres of groundnut oil..5 litres of palm oil, 5 tubers of yam, 1 carton of spaghettini, 2 carton of indomie noodles small size

My wife buys the rest Maggi.. salt...pepper...spices...carton of chicken..some croaker fish, crayfish, vegetables when needed tomatoes to cook a pot of stew stored in the freezer, soup stored in the freezer

We earn almost the same thing..we own our house..I just pay the kids school fees and school needs...
I use the balance to invest in other things after saving for a while..even though I try to stop her from spending her money on food in the house she no go gree as she dey come back she fit buy turkey.or sea food or air frier or one thing wey she see for market wey we go use for house but she no like knacks too much and I don turn womaniser cos of this sotey this habit carry me reach woman wey knack me wetin no good but I like am like that.

My maternal grandparents had this kind of property..enjoyed spending vacation there. Couples fighting, kids doing mama and papa, cooking utensils missing, borrowing pepper, Maggi, salt, watching tv in ur neighbours house. Some small kids getting pregnant.

chidiokay:
it can't be in an eatery, Where if i maybe ask cos 420k is a lot for even kidnappers to spend on seafood

Me sef shock..paid for like 5 ppl 3 gals and 2 guys..one of the guys paid.

Entered medical school at 19yrs..felt old the youngest in my class was 15yrs

Just saw a young man spend 420k on the spot for just tequila and sea foods..just by hanging out.

Timubu just needs to reduce cost of govt and ensure the business environment is friendly.

OKOATA:
That would be impossible, our body has been programmed that way by nature and no matter the research and cutting edge it will be impossible.

Nothing is impossible...no body tot we would be able to go to space talk more of colonising another planet or even being on an airplane for days or underneath the sea for long.

SmartPolician:
I think the next cutting-edge research should focus on prolonging our lifespan. We should be able to live for at least 100 years. If Methuselah did at 969, it won't be bad if we do 100 and above.

Na person wey get money go wan live that long oo..some ppl wish for the day dey would die and leave this world just that dey no fit kill themselves..I have even seen billionaires in their late 90s they don't do anything again just watch TV.. see their great grand children's occasionally, eat, and stay indoors/garden 90 percent of the time..waiting for the day dey die..they often try to get closer to God.

Infoguy666:
https://news360ng.com/just-in-tinubu-cuts-dialysis-cost-in-federal-hospital-to-n12000/

Hope as u dey slash fee u dey buy enough machines and employ enough staff no come overwork some ppl papa and mama ontop peanuts.

uzoka12:
It happened in a secondary school in Anambra State.

The teacher was young, passionate, and deeply in love with Mathematics. He believed discipline could change any student. In his class, assignments were non-negotiable.

But there was one girl who hated Maths. She never did her homework, laughed at those who tried, and flaunted her empty notebook like an achievement.

One morning, she walked into class again without her note… no assignment… no $hame.
The teacher told her to kneel down.
She smirked and asked, “Is it by force to do assignment?”

Trying to uphold discipline, he gave her 3 str0kes of the can3.
She cr!3d — and ran home.

Minutes later, her mother stormed into the school, eyes blazing.
Before anyone could speak, she shouted in front of students and staff:

“You this p00r man!”
“How much is your salary? Maybe 20,000!”
“Look at the non$en$3 trousers you’re wearing!”
“You fl0g my child because of Maths assignment?!”

The teacher stood still.
Her words pierc3d deeper than any sla.p.

What she didn’t know was that his salary was actually 15,000 naira. His trousers were worn, his shoes peeling. But he still showed up every morning — prepared, punctual, and determined to teach.

That day, in the staff room, he br0ke down.
Not for himself… but for every in$ulted teacher.
For every dedicated educator treated like nothing.
For a profession that raises doctors, lawyers, and engineers — yet is paid in $hame.

Teaching in Nigeria is not just a job.
It’s a battl3 without weap0n$ — against p0verty, disrespect, delayed salaries, reb3lliou$ students, and angr¥ parents.

To every teacher out there:
Your value is greater than they see.
One day, even the loudest voices against you will remember the gold you carried in your hands.

Ppl don't respect wat is given freely...this I have seen..if he prepared a 30hrs to 100 course on different topics in mathematics selling them..let the serious ppl purchase his course to get deeper understanding. Or work for e learning platforms where he is paid per hour.

This isn't good..how person wan take remember...deleted my twitter abi na x...my only post are fb...nairaland and occasional comment on Instagram I don't post

Dangote beginning no humble oo..he just add sense to the money wey Don already long..no be wvery pikin wey dem born In wealth dey get gift of sense

U go just see the maan dey form serious face for back of presido while he dey scheme his doings that kind man fit dey pack average of 10k to 100k dollars daily from the villa with bike men same way cbn man been dey run him own..won't be surprised if he has his own 750 duplexes in Abuja or iragbiji.

Rapmoney:
I was just pondering why society should expect faithfulness from young men who toiled so hard to get to a commendable level in life. This same society has made it clear that men are nothing without money. That their value only lies in what they can provide financially and materially. That is why that girl you are dating has many friends with benefits that you are not aware of.

Why do you think you can tame men on both sides? You expect them to stay out of relationships because they cannot provide your material needs, but still want them to be faithful when they have toiled hard to attain success unsupported. That is unrealistic.

The ideology of our modern society: Men should not date when they are not financially buoyant, women can date as many men as possible no matter how broke they are. Men should be faithful in relationship irrespective of finance. What a joke!

Many guys these days do not care about relationships or romance. They are focusing on their success. But make you nor expect faithfulness from them wen their hand touch money, or else you go cry nwii for inside Nnewi.

Faithfulness should depend only on the man since he is nobody without money...he should see reasons why he should remain with a single woman..

paulkit:
Source; https://liveschoolnews.com/if-you-do-these-5-things-first-class-is-yours-in-nigeria/

Every dept in university has a folder that if u follow it well u will finish with first class.

Na hookers dey go church pass and dem no dey miss am.this thing baffles me.

Nahim know wetin him eye see...just as nobody dey hear raekado banks again and many others like him

Easyincome24:
As an intending groom to be, which of these qualities do you meet?

No blabbing, no dribbling, no calling of names.
Which of these qualities do you fulfill?

Excellent in bed and does not womanise shouldn't be in the same list...the lady should be ready to die cos na anytime I go dey ask am oo..no baby I am tired no baby I will wake you up later..no baby after cooking dinner I want to sleep..no baby I have some unfinished business from work I need to complete.

As a alumnus of the CHS I wl never force my son or daughter to study medicine wl rather encourage dem to study, robotics, Machine learning, AI, aeronautical engineering

Putting will never take that deal...he doesn't want nato close to his borders cos na small small nonsense dey take start.

Chai..dem Don edit their age...cos of job seeking in the future..when you want a 22yr old grad with nysc and 4 years experience...this is wat u get

BlackViper:
https://www.thecable.ng/fec-imposes-7-year-ban-on-establishment-of-new-federal-tertiary-institutions/

5 year is too small in the next 30years we don't need new institutions of higher learning just equip the ones on ground now.

MONEY247:
It could be anything
An encouragement
Or how to navigate life

Focus on your studies..but don't study useless course..go for courses that u can set up a good business around by urself or partnership
2) learn soft skills..no skill is useless..any time you are opportune to learn a skill please do it( hair/wig making, manicure, pedicure, organic cream, cooking, pop installation, sewing, baking, interior sleeping, carpentry, plumbing, truck driving, painting, aluminum etc and please learn from the best
3) make friendly with all but keep ur inner circle small
4) be open to going out, travelling site seeing
5dont do drugs
6) don't gamble
7) delay gratification
don't impregnate just any gal and don't get pregnant for just any guy
9) comfort is different from wealth
10) no matter wat you do don't forget to commit ur way to God.
11) learn all you can about crypto, ai, Web 3 and don't miss out on pi.

MarkNsukkaBread:
After spending that type of money to do IVF where do you expect him to get money for baby food

No other solution except he goes for side chick or side hen.. but know dat she fit give u another man pikin..no be one man dey service side chick/hen.

G0odharddick:
That money is more than enough for him to use and get a second wife and have children in peace.

This one even go far..where side chick and hen plenty.

KobeMan:
We married A Year ago. We decided to wait for a year before having kids. We started trying 3 few months but no success. I told both of us needs to get tested. I did Sperm Analysis & the result is good, I'm very fertile.

She did pelvic scan, and in the scan, She has fibroid (Submocousal fibroid 5.5cm). The news broke me and I was very sad, I never imagined I'll be in this kind of situation. We went to the gynecologist and He told us to go for HSG to check her fallopian tube, The result showed that Both Tubes are blocked. Or if the gynaecologist advises otherwise u can get a surrogate.

I've not been myself for the last couple of days. I had to pretend to be strong because She was down & has been crying as well. This are two serious fertility issues and Her chances of conception is very low. Even if The gynecologist tells us to do the IVF(Which I don't even have money for it cause it's vey expensive) They'll still have to remove the fibroid.

This are very expensive procedures that are not even guaranteed that it will work and She will conceive. I'm the only male child in my family, in my early 30's. Pressure will start coming from all directions and also considering my my age, I don't pray to experience delay with child birth. I just decided to pour own my mind here. I'm really down, I don't know what to do.

Start saving for ivf with 2.5 m u can have it done don't waste money jumping from hospital to hospital or going fo this herb or that herb..don't worry ur wife should be able to carry the pregnancy.

Wat is the school teaching its students when simple civic education and other basic instruction on hygiene they don't know

No be everything we go dey celebrate for internet...na why other countries don see us finish.

This gal is definitely a runs gal and was on a paid mission...nothing u wan tell me..I sabi her kind.

nairalandkachy1:
https://www.instagram.com/p/DNMVmKcsDRr/?igsh=ZGJscXNhNXlvMHZx

No legacy here...he must serve his full ban.

The way our efcc work na like fisherman wey dey fish for river..just troway net inside water pack croacker, kore, Titus, crab, shrimp, all all the animals for water then begin separate the different catch into segment..no specific target, no enough Intel, no built up evidence just grab grab like armed robbers shey naso them take catch hushpippy and ponle

Sermwell:
So you think if she worked it or did any of these things you're saying, NYSC will not dig it up? Make una dey get Sense abeg!!

..conscience is the best judge no be grammar..but I know many hear has been seered with hot iron so dem fit lie to even themselves.