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meetmohammed:
give them 2000k each no tell them anything lock-up make wuna dey gist normal gist anyone wey mentions business withe the money hold am na wife material she can bring something to the table buh you see that wan we dey tell you say i went to market bought hand bag,new hair,new cloath, or i borrow my parent out it or sent to my kidbro that in school or not filling fine/swallor spoon or kpomo...... omo i repeat drop her nor matter how she fine ......

make i no just suspect person wey dey shake naysh for truetalk ahbi na tukutalk...
i forget say javis and yuruba boi meet for tukutalk sha ........

Good idea

But I already know who will discuss business and who will ball the money

Lovit:
choose the first one if you want it to end in marriage

if you just want to date and pass later, choose the fair second one

I am married and I can tell what both will be to you in the long run

Please tell me

bjfred:
First, I hear you. Double dating feels like “soft life” at first... until your brain starts doing maths at 2am. You’re not a villain for feeling attracted to two people. You’re just human. The crisis starts when you know _they_ don’t know about each other.

*1. Let’s call the red flags by name*
*Success:* Quiet + you’ve never seen her angry = mystery, not a red flag yet. But “never seen angry” also means “never seen how she handles conflict”. That’s the real test of relationships. Books + no TikTok = deep, but quiet people can also bottle stuff till it explodes.

*Mmasi:* Cheerful giver + big energy = fun, light, easy. But TikTok shaking + 1-word replies at start = she was testing if you’ll chase. Now she’s adding fire because competition came. Question: Is she into _you_, or into _winning you_?

Both have pros/cons. No perfect woman exists. The question is: which “flaw” can you live with for 5 years?

*2. The hard truth about “I want the two”*
Society frowns for a reason: 3 people can’t build 1 relationship. Someone will get hurt. Right now it’s fun because it’s secret + new. But when Success finds out, or Mmasi sees her TikTok duet with another guy, or both demand “where are we going?”... that’s when the crisis becomes a war.

You can’t marry two. You can’t build trust with two. You’ll end up with zero. I’ve seen this movie too many times.

*3. 3 questions to ask yourself tonight, alone:*
1. *If I must introduce one to my family tomorrow, who comes to mind first?* That first name = your gut already chose.
2. *Who do I respect more when I’m stressed, broke, or sick?* Cute face + bunda is 10pm energy. Character is 3am fever energy.
3. *Am I dating them, or dating the idea of “not missing out”?* FOMO makes us collect people like sneakers.

*4. What to do next - 2 options, no middle ground:*

*Option A: Choose and commit*
Spend 2 weeks with just one. Delete the other’s number for 14 days. No “let me keep both as options”. At end of 2 weeks your heart will be clear. Then end things with the other one _kindly but firmly_. “You deserve someone who can give you 100%, and right now I can’t. I respect you too much to lie.” Yes it’ll hurt. But less than a scandal later.

Option B: Stay single for 3 months*
Tell both: “I like you, but I’m not ready to date anyone properly. I need to sort my head.” If they’re real, they’ll wait or move on. If they leave, they were only here for the chase. Either way, you win clarity.

Option C does not exist:* “Manage both secretly”. That’s borrowing trouble with interest.

Bro, “adult life crisis” is just code for “time to grow up”. The man you want to become in 5 years won’t be proud of playing two women. He’ll be proud of choosing with courage.

So tell me honestly: If Success and Mmasi swapped faces/bodies, but kept their character... who would you pick then? Character over packaging.

Why do you write like chatgpt with so much human touch?

Thank you for the options you provided, it gave me a good idea on what to do next

Well if they swap faces, I will still go for the 2

Walz001:
Women are not shoes or cloths
They are human that is tag with change
We talk from experience but you have the reality with you both ladies
So go for what makes yiu happy
Life is a gift so enjoy it while it last
And lastly try to get money or business to support them if tou dont want to see the other aide of weemen

This is an elderly advice

Thank you

Teeneyo:
Las las

Na gen z full dis nairaland..

Bro when you guys use the term "Gen Z" do you guys mean it in a derogatory way or something else?

Please I will love it if you can answer

McLizbae:
Success seem like my type. Well, I cannot even double date. I just cannot fit! I am too busy and careless for that venture.

Bro same here, never planned for it.

If I met success first, I would have been off the market by now.

Just that there's this type of joy mmasi brought to my life.

tritt:
Go hustle abeg no dey worry us, cos wetin we dey face for this regime no be child's play.

Everytime "go hustle, go hustle"

But still the GDP is not improving

We can actually make money and still discuss other aspect of life

Emeskhalifa:
You want the two?

How much is in your bank account if I may ask?

People go use their own hand cause wahala for themselves

Doesn't matter.

They say 2 heads are better than 1

Imagine 3 heads

focus7:
Go for the second, introverts are difficult to predict, it's safer with expressive person who can easily resolve matters with than someone who's capable of killing you but doesn't show it

Bro I nurture that thought daily(I fear people that suppress emotions) , I have intentionally tried to get her upset but to no avail.
In all she's a sweet soul

okoolori:
As an African man, I'll say you should keep the two... If you have the mentality and the courage too.
Married them if you love them both.
Don't look at what the society will say... Just follow your happiness

That's what I want too.

But I don't picture the two wanting to be co-wives

Especially success.

Oracleee:
Go for the two. Along the line, one will let go

Awesome but what if they find out

I will be losing the two

kiddaz:
Keep Success and give me Mmasi ASAP

Badt guy

Beeron:
Put the two to the test to find out which is the most domesticated and democratic. Those two qualities is what you should watch out for to enable you make the best decision. Not riches or booday

More information needed sir

Cause me, I don't know if am democratic or domestic.

I can't figure what I don't know

galantjoe:
Society has seen now that monogamous relationship is not possible. It is not advisable to put all your eggs in a basket

I will advice to keep the both ladies untill when tide changes

Thanks man
Just worried I might lose the two in the long run if they find out.

The society should just normalize polygamy

RealityKings1:
Are you after your own happiness or what society will say?

Let's see your availability to manage 2 teams. It's a test.

Bro, in that aspect, I meant the two will not gree to date me at once.

As for me am down for it

writetopoka:
Go and hustle, because money make bitches

I'm doing that bro, but what is working for money without making money work for you

Hey guys I need advise

I'm going through adult life relationships crisis

For the first time in life I'm double dating

First one - Success insanely cute, chocolate, tall with killer slim fit shape, smart, reads alot of books, does not do tiktok understands my jokes intelligent

Redflag: she's very quiet and I have not seen what's she's like when she's angry.

She's really into me

Second one - Mmasi, very fair with good face card, always smiling, a cheerful giver, (the first day we met, she paid the bill)
Gists alot

She has big bunda ( like that type that makes you turn twice)

Sadly She shakes it on Tiktok 😞(not the seductive type) but still.

At first I wanted to run because she was given me 1 word responses but when she saw I drew back she added fire.

That's the period success came in

Now I'm in the middle of this quagmire

I want the two but unfortunately the society frowns at.

What do I do at these point.

Why does he look fat and unfit

The sky is your starting point bro

Lithiumite:
It's funny how this people who get oppurtuned to leave the shores of this country are always quick to lampoon their country as they revel in the glory and grandeur of their host western country..... their condescending attitude is disgusting mainly because they are apparently ignorantly oblivious of the hideous fact that these countries they are always praising for their development and organisation are in fact the ones responsible fir the underdevelopment and economic mess sub Saharan African countries are going through.......someone messed up your father's house ,you move over to his house which is better and then you start abusing your own house destroyed by your oppressor.

People like you won't go and learn history,
Just open mouth waaaa for public forum

Take responsibility for once

British destroyed U.S house
Japan destroyed China house

Today both of them have not only arranged their home but is now more beautiful and fortified than their previous oppressors

He who the gods wants to run mad, will first be made to dance in the market square.
African proverb

Hey
It's actually good to use your laptop while it's charging
It's health for lithium battery
Do your research

tctrills:
Don't mind these people. They know nothing but are the first to speak. When it comes to business and investment, no country comes close.

Other countries don't understand don't understand the advantage the U. S have
Language
Currency
Positioning

Rome fell but also US have what they didn't - heart of their subjugates

pdata:
and some people will say what are they selling? they are selling almost every services we use .

Especially digital services, they literally own everything.

China have to rival them to sell.

iLegendd:
When the US do survey, they do it as if only the US exists.

No man, the statistics are there for you to confirm.

Most Chinese products have rival Americans own to sell

Difrent:
Know also that you can kpai in a drive by shooting the moment you get there

Bro the rate of foreigners getting murdered to bringing crime to America why they locked their borders.

in my current location there's higher risk than I die faster due to insecurity.

I don't know if this is caused by hunger or nonchalantness of security body.

But robbery and kidnapping is at all-time high

adrian3000:
You should be thanking God you haven't stepped your foot there yet....

Why is that?

Every business is running to America including China.

Yoo, US Economy is so big that they dominate every time

I must visit that country in my life time

Kalulu44:
What's the difference between coke and Pepsi? And actually it was mango and fanta they use to talk about

erniok:
What's the difference between the 2 cola drinks if not branding.

both of you are art students or didn't come to lab during experiment

CO2 and CO have not much difference

But one fit kpai and one dey keep you alive

So Let's work with what OP provide

Coke and mango

Leepeak:
Be calming down I don take am nothing happened
Remember vividly far back in secondary school, I took it mango just enter hux momsi don come back from north na so I drink the Pepsi with biscuits nothing happened

Dem talk mango you say biscuit

Dem talk coke you say Pepsi

Are you on mkpurummili or what?

Hi guys.
I have been a core believer of staying back and growing my wealth here in Nigeria.

That things will get better and hopefully work out someday

but the Economic projection of APC led government after 11years has been nothing but stagnation - Recession - Degradation.

Infact the light at the end of the tunnel have been handed over to Joachim/seyi to brighten their own future.

I need to create my own light!

I have recently developed the Urge to multiply my talent in the greener part of the west.

Please if you have any cohort, cult, group or community that can help me quench my desire.

Please notify me here
Clickrhoad@gmail.com

Muhos gracias.