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Reference: It depends on how you look at it my friend. There is only one person in the world who has no one richer than him and only one person that has no one poorer than him moreover the bible says it is harder for a rich man to enter the kingdom...but these men are already in the kingdom. They are not seeking to enter. And for goodness sake 150million dollars is not particularly rich, certainly not to God who's Word you quote.

Apparently u don't know what God's Kingdom is all about, else u wouldn't say they are 'already in d kingdom'. Is the Kingdom a place were a few are enriching themselves and living flamboyant life styles while d vast majority are grappling with poverty and being fed empty promises? Certainly not from d scriptures.

Op, I can identify with ur predicament.Some years back I was in a relationship where the burden of maintaining peace rested squarely on my shoulders. I had to keep apologising both for my slips and his wrongdoings just to maintain a peaceful atmosphere. There were clear evidence of cheating on his part but I was never antagonistic. I sensed he was begining to take my amicable nature for granted, hence I called it quits.

Did u not see signs of his curret behaviour during courtship? Whateever bad signs u ignore during courtship are most llikely to resurface during marriage with increased force. Now that u are already married, try and make d most of it. If u notice that a particular reaction of yours yields no result, try another. If continually begging him makes him more hardened, then apologise once (if u did wrong) and leave it that way. Go about your normals day's activity acting oblivious of his mood. Serve him food at meal times. If he refuses to eat, don't rant. Quietly return d meal back to d kitchen. But always remember not to make him feel u are upset or hurt by his actions. I tell u, after a while he will advise himself and start behaving normal.

Wish u d best!

[b][/b]AfroK said men are d 'Master key' and so they are licensed to sleep around and go unscathed. That is warped reasoning. The Creator never intended it that way, and believe it or not, such acts of frivolity come haunting such men sooner or later. God's standard of fidelity and loyalty can never be faulted.

As for you, PureOhio, pls what makes you think that 'sex is d most important thing In marriage'? Granted sex is an integral part of marriage but sex alone cannot make a marriage successful. The secret of a truly successful marriage lies in d hands of the one who originated marriage - God Himself. Follow his standards and u'll never be disappointed.

Yomieluv: despite having all this manual for successful marriage,why do we still have high rate of divorce?

That is a very pertinent question. I guess it is attributable to d fact that d world's sense of right and wrong has been washed off to such an extent that what constitutes 'right' is now seen as achaic and sub-standard. The rhetorics of this thread come alive only when individuals begin to see a need to practice what they preach.

Explorer001, Your'new catch' ke? Apparently u were cheating her as much as she was cheating you, so why belabour what she did? A cheater is sure to get cheated ya know!

Anyway, best of luck in your new relationship. Mind you, there is more to life than physical attraction. Ciao!

itsIYKE: 4get what u see online,there's more to being happy than flashing ur teeth

I perfectly agrre with u, pix often show what d person wants d world to see, not d harsh reality of life. A lot definitely is hidden behind that smile.