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wat does "ur friend" need virgins for?

Sista woman i totally understand u
i cannot make a statement without my friends even close friends stopping to think
cos im very sarcastic
i cant help it
i met my match once in a friend he was also sarcastic
i need not say that most of our problems  fites were based on tasteless sarcastic comments that borderlined on insultive
but we finally figured out that the best way to remain friends and keep our sarcastic natures
is to quickly own up when the other partner is taking a clearly sarcastic comment either literaly or out of context
yes we did have many extrey awkward apology sessions
but we get along much better now
he is ur husband and u promised to live the rest of ur life with him and him also with u
this is clearly pent up anger or frustrations getting a lee-way and ur nicely constructed but wrongly placed sarcastic comment
gave him the opprtunity he needed
i believe every problem or crisis has a begining
u both need to sit down and discuss like the mature adults u are
my parents have been married for 18 yeas and never have they invited anyone to settle any of their problems
they do have misunderstandings
but they settle it between each other
when i asked my mom why,
she told me something and i hope te it when i get married
she said,
a marriage is first between a man and his wife
children and relations are third parties
the moment u allow third parties to come between u two
ur respect for each other will begin to diminish giving others unprecidented access to ur marriage
which is equal to steadily loosening the close bonds of the two partners
basically wat that means is
never let anyone come between u and ur spouse in the name of settling an argument
it's never good in the long run