₦airaland Forum

good deali - thanks felas

yah she's black. i suppose i want her to have her liberty, especially when I am away in Europe. She can only 'trust' me while I am here - i should trust her as well. I agree that I could be more straight-forward in what makes me feel uncomfortable. Is she not just making herself an object when she parades around like that, even if, as she says, "all her friends do it and I'm not going to do it when I'm married."

I'm very comfortable with my girlfriend and we have a very trusting relationship - but how far should I be comfortable with?  I am on an internship in Europe for six weeks and she went to the playboy mansion in LA with her friends for a party.  That is okay - even though she is dressing very sexy.  Well she has been invited back for the 4th of July and she is planning on wearing american flags over her nipples and small bottoms.  Is this appropriate?  I believe in not being jealous but this makes me feel wierd.  Where do I draw the line and should I draw the line here and tell her "please don't do that, it makes me too uncomfortable?" She says I am over in Europe, so she should be allowed to do these things - but I'm doing work! She's just making her body an object of other men's desires. How much freedom do I allow?