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thomax:
I am very shock with your comment because all what you said are almost 100% accurate, the only different is that you said, she will be 26 in 2 months time. That is the only thing that made me feel she is not the one, every other thing you said is totally correct about her. In order to be sure, does the person you are talking about work in Osun state?

Yes. But she stays in Ife though. A school teacher.

Don't be surprised about how accurate I was with my description of her personality. Ladies like that have similar characteristics.

thomax:
Mature responses please.
After my last relationship ended, my long time friend introduced me to a lady who is in her mid-20s, at first I told him I wasn't interested, since I don't like the idea of linkup, but he told me the lady is cool, she didn't flirt...bla...bla....bla....

We later got talking, and after a while I told her about my intentions. She told me to give her some time to process it, in which I agreed. Last week make it the 4th month without getting any answer from her. If I asked her about it, she usually respond that I am rushing. If I don't call or chat her, she will never do, but she gives me her attention when I call or chat.

From my conversations so far with her, I noticed she is hostile to guys, and proud of it. She doesn't listen to advices, or feel emotional, no matter how you try. From my experiences, all these are traits of someone from broken home, in which she is not from. Should I let her be?

Abeg, hope it's not my ex in Osun state you are talking about? I broke up with her exactly 4 months ago too and she is going to be 26yrs, two months from now. She is not emotional, not social, she doesn't have lot of friends and her regular movements are only home-work or home-church. You will even think she has never dated a guy b4 because she doesn't have any sweet, long relationship experience and doesn't give out much about her past life.

Anyway if this ur current girl is not who I am talking about, they do have similar traits. If she eventually agrees to date you, you will end up getting heartbroken later on. Ladies like her don't get committed too much into a relationship, they break up once they notice u are getting too much of their attention. They always want to be dominating and controlling the relationship with their passive emotions, killing your own true feelings with depressions and limitations if you won't bow to the way they want to handle the relationship. Unless u want to be dating her like a simp or in a servile manner, better stay off her. Stop calling and chatting her. U will see she won't bother much about it. You will be helping yourself if u should follow this advice.

Draslo:
Upon hearing this, she was dumbfounded and looking at the floor silently while I took my way with respect. She apologized for her bad approach to me in the first place and begged the man for discrediting his tongue.

I believed your story up until this point. Nigerian women and their ego. To apologise to a partner na World War 3 talk less of a kaftan wearing stranger

Same thing that came into my mind after reading that part. It is now looking phony to me.