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djeezy: Abusive ad hominem. This fallacy is the most notorious and infamous on NL. Refuttal and attacking the person instead of the topic or subject matter. I just don't like abusive words and calling people names, you don't elicit respect from such act.

. This is just the simple reason I found it difficult to contribute to issues cos many people here are not morally inclined.

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@Poster permit me to ask how old you are and what is the age of this guy? It seems yhe is your first guy and you have little or no knowledge of an ideal relationship.you don't need to be told that this is not love but abuse at its peak, I don't want to retorate what other has said but just sit down and think for how long will you continue to live under fear of someone you claim to love, from every indication the same thing this guy is telling you is what his telling others thereby playing on your intelligence. I will advice you to quit the relationship, stay away from the other guy and focus on building your career...when the times comes the right guy will come just like a thief at night and will be the one that will respect your feelings and opinion.

edenplusRomance: She is trying to avoid confrontation and argument. How can she approach this?

This is what I normally tell people before chosen a life partner, do you guys communicate at all? Are you guys friends? What makes you decided to marry him or is it becos of his money? I can see a communication gap here and the only thin that can solve this problem is for her to talk to him, express her feelings if he truly love her he will respect how she feel and if he doesn't then nothing will change then it wiLl now be left for her to stay or to move.