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Op, I think you need to check my profile and see what I wrote about my most recent relationship. I'm doing much better now trying to come to terms after 5 years of waiting. I must be honest with you, she's found someone else, it's tough to accept, that I know, but since you have spoken and even agreed to hold body yet she still says no, she's only looking for a way out. Trust me not everything that's good to you is good for you. The configuration of women can only be explained by the creator. I'm sorry bro but you need to get over her ... Don't ever think you can fight for a woman, none of them is worth it, she's gone brother. I really hope you would listen. Take heart and smile...

Fellow Nigerians, it is indeed a twist from bad to worse in this nation and as a very liberal person, I hope this wouldn't be taken personal by those who are for or against this present government.

For me, I could say I have been surviving on grace and it has nothing to do with being smart or brilliant.

I weep for my country this day as I have never done. I needed to do laundry and need a bar soap so I opted for So Klin, to my greatest surprise its size has been reduced by half and price doubled. Maybe I wouldn't have been worried if price was doubled and size remains the same. Alas, it dawned on me that indeed we are in for it. If this isn't addressed fast enough many may have to settle for a meal a day.

Brethren, of course this wasn't totally the problem of today but of years past and certainly not the fault of the youths as many of the older generations want it to look. They blame us for fraud, drug running, racketing etc. However, it was a foundation laid for us by the generations before us.

However, I believe we would be useful as the generations before us if we start the blame war. Thus why I want to plead that we youths of today take our country back. It won't be easy as the same cabals in different party name and appearance (Military to Civilian) are still in charge. I regret that I didn't vote President Buhari and that was because many voted him and now both those who voted for and against him are not stock here.

I voted Kowa party and my reason was because President Buhari dodged debates which made me uneasy about him. I mean the allegations that PDP was behind the debate wasn't enough as the President, then candidate could have said the only conditions for debate was if he will answer same questions as then President Jonathan.

I wasn't totally convinced he was aware or wrote APC manifestoes otherwise defending a manifesto you wrote wouldn't have been a problem. Also, during campaigns especially when the President was in Lagos, he tactically dodged important questions which wasn't good enough for me then.

I honestly couldn't have voted former President Jonathan either due to corruption issues and his obvious loss of control of his government. That itself is an embarrassment to the mandate we handed him.

I sincerely wish you look at my message and not my person as I am not perfect but certainly would have done better. I believe the way forward is to first start recalling our federal legislators if they won't make a law that allows youths run for any position of government.

God bless Nigeria,
God bless Nigerians!!!

I am in need of curry leaves in large quantities. Anyone who can supply or get me to the source should please drop info. The original curry leaves as seen in these pictures.

Haba...how can you construct a 700mw station with N1.3bn, I beg to differ. That is definitely to confuse people. Meanwhile, why hasn't the guy been shot already??

The issue for me wasn't her finding another man because I would never marry out of pity or agree to anyone who does.

My disappointment is the fact that even up until last week, she was telling me to get an apartment with just 2 rooms so that we wouldn't be having too many guests as I tend to keep people around me and as new couples, it won't he wise living the same life of a single man so she kicked against getting a 3 or 4 bedroom which was my preference, but rather we should do a 2 bedroom for now.

So there was no way I could have seen it coming and for her to just blank out in 24 hours makes everything funny to me. I'm surely over her right now and I just believe a long relationship isn't smart thing for those looking to get married.

For me classy or sexy isn't an attraction, rather someone who can communicate and who wouldn't nag. Of course well dressed and decent.

I really appreciate all your comments guys. Actually I've always heard there's a thin line between hate and love and to describe how much I detest her right now would be unbelievable. It was crazy when she said "I'm sorry if I hurt you" , I was like if you hurt me? Sounding like it was relative. Of course she hurts me. I'm done with her and I've had to delete everything about her. Live goes on throughly.

The only painful part was not having as many side chicks as I could, imagine when I thought I'm done teasing or flirting with other women, now I have to really start looking...lol...

Brethren, today I believe the worst thing a man can do to himself is fall in love.

This is my story.

I've known this babe for 5 years precisely when she was in pre-degree, I stay in Lagos and she schools and lives in the North. Over the years we've both agreed on getting married and since I was ready ever since, I agreed to her request of graduating before we tie the knot.

So funny it's 5 years already and now she's getting ready for final year. As a man, I must be honest I had offers from women all through the years but because I wasn't the type that plays around with people's heart, I had to turn them all down simply because I gave someone my word and wouldn't want to be tagged disloyal.

Fast forward this year, we've been on the good note and I was even thinking of getting an apartment so I'll leave my place for my brothers. Everything was going fine and I was in the mood looking forward to taking her home to mama and sealing it. 5 years brothers, I waited!

Surprisingly last night she said she thinks I was getting too serious and needed to make some things clear. I wasn't serious when I sent money, wasnt serious spending 2 hours on phone assuring and comforting her, 5 years o. I can almost access people when I know them a little and I can vouch she doesn't mess around. Trust me I'll say 90% I can vouch she isn't wayward. She said she's found another man and he happens to be her best friends brother and they started courting about 5 months ago. Funny enough she'd given him her words and agreed to marry him. She even had the boldness to tell me I never did anything wrong, never ever but she just switched and her word to him matters. Imagine! 5 years.

As a realist I ask her every time if she was dating or promising anyone else just because I expect every woman to have suitors and I'm not the time that intrudes, her answer is always NO one, even till as close as 2 weeks ago. Chai!

No doubt I'm hurt. I stood loyal for 5 years and it didn't even take a woman 24 hours to blank out. Many men would call me names I know and truly waiting 5 years without any faults??

For those who are presently in love you probably would laugh at me as I have always done others. Just be careful.

Once again thunder fire any idiot coming online saying thrash about men. Imagine at 30, I can't possibly go about taking revenge on every woman now. I'm obviously moving on. Feb 2016 is a month I won't forget in a hurry. Bless you all brothers across the nation.

Obviously I can't tell my friends this. I just have to talk to someone and that's why I chose NL. Peace!