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dharay99:

if e wan crash, e go crash,
all dez tips na wash abeq....

you have to change your attitude. no matter how bad your past relationships were, with the right attitude and information you can get it right

klassykute:
Relationship sucks jor ..it sucks more wit edo girls
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knowledge is very key in anything one does in life. with the right knowledge and attitude, you will have a good relationship.

This message will help you to bring out the best in your partner as well as other people you relate with daily.
Marriage is the fusing of two people to become one. This implies that there is compatibility between the two people. Though, it will be painful, it requires a lot of effort and adjustment in order to make it work. What you should ensure is the daily growth of both of you.
Proverbs 18:22 explains that there is a favour that comes with marriage and there are things you need to do that will bring out the best out of your partner. Fights and quarrels or unresolved disagreement can never achieve this. When you see your husband as a king and he also sees you as a queen; you will both bring out the best in your lives.
Relationship requires bringing out the best in your partner and this involve deep thinking. It doesn’t happen
by default. When you bring out the best in him or her, it results to fruitfulness, joy, honour, happiness, fulfilment, success and victory. So, you need to be innovative, come up with ideas and ways you can achieve this and invest in your partner.
There is a treasure hidden deep in your partner’s life which you need to explore. Like a miner, you need to mine this treasure hidden in him or her and reveal it. just like Jesus Christ came to the world, loved us, saved us and brought out the best in us; you should do nothing less for your partner.
When you are dating someone, you should not do what Jesus Christ will never do to him or her because you are His representative.
Proverbs 27:17-18.
In the beginning, God gave a garden to Adam to keep and tend. The same assignment, mandate or instruction has been given to everyone. Your must keep, protect, grow and improve your spouse. You should learn how to keep and tend the garden.
One of the reasons why some men have challenges in their marriages is because they are not tending their gardens. Your spouse is like a garden which you must take good care of and invest in her so that you can enjoy the fruits she will produce.
If you are in courtship with someone, if you or your partner cannot say after some time that you are better and improved that he or she met you; it means you or your partner aren’t investing (enough) in your relationship. Relationship is a hardwork and you should labour together.
You must love your partner more than you first met him or her. This is because you must have been discovering each other all along. In order to help your partner in knowing you well, even when he or she annoys you, you should behave well and learn a better way of doing things. Make sure you always resolve your differences so that they don’t degenerate into crises. When he or she offends you, make sure you bring the best out of him or her even with the offence. This is an act of genuine and sincere love. Before you act or do anything in your relationship ask yourself this question: “will this action bring out the best out of him or her?”
Nobody has ever divorced because they cannot meet the needs of their spouses. They divorced because their own needs are not met.
Because love involves bringing out the best out of your partner, you should seek for how you can invest in him or her and do things primarily in his or her interests. This is why relationship requires lot of patience.
Whatever you desire to see in your spouse make sure you work it out in him or her. Make sure all you do is to bring out the best in him or her. As you work towards your growth, ensure that you are always on the same page, working together.

THINGS TO CONSIDER IN ORDER TO HAVE A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP
1. Lay a good foundation: As written in Isaiah 28:16, you can compare a relationship or marriage with Zion. In Zion good things happen just like whoever finds a wife finds a good thing. Proverbs 18:22. There is a foundation in Zion, in the same way, if you want the goodness and peace in your relationship or marriage you need to lay a good foundation. When you have a foundation it is assumed that you are ready to build and that there will be challenges in the future. If you will go into a relationship, it is assumed that there will be challenges. So, you need to build a foundation. The deeper the foundation the higher the structure you can build.
As single men and women, the single life is a time to build a deep foundation so that you can have a successful relationship. The proper foundation any man can lay in life to have a successful and fulfilled life is Jesus Christ. 1 Corinthians 3:11-13. Jesus Christ is the beginning of any relationship and if your relationship is not built on the word of God it will crash.

2. Use the right building materials: The kind of material you use in build your relationship is very important to the survival and success of your relationship. 1 Corinthians 3:12-13. If you use gold, when fire comes and challenges arise, it will purify it and make it more successful, strengthens it and make it grow instead of destroying it. Therefore, when you build your relationship with the right ingredients, when you pass through fire and challenges it becomes better, stronger and it grows. On the other hand, if you build it with straw, when fire comes on it and challenges arise, it will be destroyed.
When you are in a relationship, rather than sleeping together get to talk and discuss to build a strong and better relationship. If you build your relationship on sex before marriage (pre-marital sex), it is a foundation for disaster in marriage.

3. You need to build according to pattern: There is a pattern for building a right relationship in the word of God. Just as God gave Moses a pattern for the building of the tabernacle, for you to have a successful relationship you must build according to the pattern of God for marriage. Jesus Christ is the Architect; He has given you the plan drawings which are in the Word of God. Jeremiah 29:11. You are the Builder, you need to read and study carefully the Word of God and interpret the design pattern accordingly so that you build in total compliance with the pattern. It is pathetic to know that so many people today are building relationships and marriages that are not in line with the pattern of God. Look at the plan of God for your relationship in the Word of God and translate it appropriately to build your relationship.

OK seen. how does that affect the price of fish in the market?

see a man diligent in his work he shall sit before kings and not mere men....a man's gift opens door for him.

reading comments from my balcony.

android

Who is the greatest enemy of a born again child of God.? A. Devil B. Flesh

my phone has 7gb memory but i cannot save on it. please can anyone be of help?

how does that affect the price of fish in the market?

good for her

macphilip:
And somebody would still marry this one

you know maybe na u go marry her?

na so we see am o

spreads mat, grab pop corn

well said

datguru:
A day is coming when Nigerians would wish GEJ had won this election. CHANGE MY FOOT

well said