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RomanceRe: Guys, What Is Your Biggest Mistake With Women? by Bossmang(m): 12:19am On May 23, 2025
aribisala0:
Lions eat meat and goats eat grass.

I am a lion and cannot apologize for that . If you don't like it why not go chew some grass?
Do the calms naaa grin
RomanceRe: Guys, What Is Your Biggest Mistake With Women? by Bossmang(m): 12:12am On May 23, 2025
DeeScan:
I get this thing where I unconsciously withdraw when the lady starts mouthing the love word to me .

I feel like I don't wanna get caged with that word ...
That's trauma respond bruhhhh, your body goes into defense mode so that you won't get hurt again... I know a friend like this..
RomanceRe: Guys, What Is Your Biggest Mistake With Women? by Bossmang(m):
G0odharddick:
Allow her to invest in that relationship. Let her use her money to come over to your house, buy most things herself with her own money. Cook for you, doesn't bill you stu.pi.dly, even when she does, don't give her, let her give you 100% of her time, like she should be the one constantly calling just to check up on you even when you are at work ( women are keepers in nature)

Let her fight over you, some times tell her you don't have money and watch if she'll do everything possible to help you get out of that situation, she can do this by advertising your goods, or market to people online or physically etc.

Bro, let her invest emotionally in you, let her invest her time in you too. Any girl who do all these for you will never leave you, she'll feel pain and cheated if she wants to leave.

I am saying this out of experience. But sadly today, most guys are quick to spend, send money or airtime to a girl just because they want to impress her. This is why you see guys online crying of heart breaks while the girl no even send at all because she invested nothing in him or in that relationship
Boss you too good abeg... How can i know you?
HealthRe: Struggling With Emotional Disconnection And Self-worth – Looking For Guidance by Bossmang(op): 5:07pm On Apr 06, 2025
QuinQ:
Join the club
Which club, what's that?
HealthStruggling With Emotional Disconnection And Self-worth – Looking For Guidance by Bossmang(op): 2:24am On Apr 06, 2025
I’m sorry for posting this here but trust me I have no choice. posting this because I’m struggling with feelings of self-loathing, emotional disconnection, and difficulty with relationships. I don’t know how to fix it, and I’m looking for advice or insight from anyone who might have experienced something similar.

Here’s how it all begin

When I was around eight years old, I was sexually abused by a cousin, who was also very young at the time. Although I didn’t fully understand the impact of what happened, I now realize how deeply it affected me. This experience seems to have shaped the way I view relationships, intimacy, and my own self-worth.

As I grew older, I developed a high sex drive and began to sexualize women, which feels unhealthy and out of my control. Despite this, I’ve never been able to experience a genuine emotional connection with most women. It’s as though I can’t connect on that level, especially in romantic relationships. There have been a few rare instances where I’ve felt a deep bond with a woman, but even then, I couldn’t imagine being physically intimate with them. It’s like something is blocking me from fully experiencing love.

I’m beginning to fear that I may be incapable of truly loving someone in the way I believe love should be. This fear is overwhelming, and it scares me because I don’t know how to change it.

I also struggle with self-worth. I dislike the way I look and often avoid mirrors because I can’t stand what I see. I feel disconnected from myself, and it’s hard to believe in my own value. On top of this, I have financial struggles and other life pressures that make me feel inadequate.

I’ve tried reaching out for help online, but I rarely get responses, and when I do, they haven’t been supportive or understanding. I feel lost and unsure of how to move forward. I’m scared!!

I am scared I will remain like this forever... I am with my Parents and siblings. We are close, but we are far away from each other. I am tired of pretending to be okay. Am not and I need help..

No hard feelings.. Everyone's honest opinion is needed please, I can't get more broken than this anymore so it's fine.
PoliticsRe: Gunmen Attack Mourners, Kill 10 In Plateau by Bossmang(m): 4:53pm On Mar 29, 2025
owobokiri:
Plateau men should wake up? Edo men that woke up yesterday, where are they?
Everyone is talking about how the "innocent hunters" were killed, no one asks the most pertinent question; who gave them the right to carry guns and move from state to state?
Why can certain Nigerians move around with guns but other Nigerians can't even move around with a wooden stick!?
What kind of social structure enables this sort of atavistic system?
With a permit, Hunters can carry their guns.. Why were they still killed??
PoliticsRe: Northern Governors Forum condemns killing of travellers in Edo by Bossmang(m): 4:51pm On Mar 29, 2025
illicit:
Northerners are always in the habit of moving with weapons no matter how mundane into other people's territory...
These one had their permit with then
CrimeRe: Edo State Lynching: Police Arrest 14 Suspects by Bossmang(m): 4:37pm On Mar 29, 2025
dederocs:
Aboki, e pain am.
Ewu.. Am not your friend
CrimeRe: Edo State Lynching: Police Arrest 14 Suspects by Bossmang(m): 4:37pm On Mar 29, 2025
EmptyGarden:
Port Harcourt isn’t a hunting destination. If they’ were hunters and merely visiting or touring, they have no business being armed.
They have permits for their Dane guns..
CrimeRe: Edo State Lynching: Police Arrest 14 Suspects by Bossmang(m): 4:36pm On Mar 29, 2025
CharleyBright:
Who is this Terrorist.
Hunters leaving their domain to another?
Are people allowed to carry firearms freely?
They are hunters because they were caught on the streets. They would have been bandits and kidnappers if they had gotten to their destination and entered bush.

Aboki terrorist.
Hunter kee you there.
Those hunters have the right to move to anywhere they want. As long as I never find your and terrorize you and your family.. Calling me a terrorist is just making you look like a stupid person.
CrimeRe: Edo State Lynching: Police Arrest 14 Suspects by Bossmang(m): 4:35pm On Mar 29, 2025
Enwhen:
Anger how ?, Govt should be blame for both victims

Govt can no longer secure the people with the people' s taxes , yet the people device means to protect themselves , still govt cannot be trusted , that even if they hands over criminals that the police fails to go after , the criminals bribes the police and the police release them to their evil ways ...that is what brought jungle justice in Nigeria ...in countless occasions, the local vigilante have apprehended well known criminals to the police, and the police release these criminals and the criminals take revenge and wipe off all the local vigilante...in the north you would see killer criminals bragging that they would never pass a night in police cell ...which is the fact.

Instead for the govt to reforms the police and solve trust issue between the police and the people , they would choose to play the one-sided game ....In this case and many other , if the people have trust in the police , they would have handed over all suspects to the police for proper investigation and not take laws into their hands....seems the govt knows more about the killings ....these have been happening , over and over again ..and this won't be the last because the govt is doing nothing
But how are these criminals.. Hunters with dogs even with their permit!!!
CrimeRe: Edo State Lynching: Police Arrest 14 Suspects by Bossmang(m): 2:15am On Mar 29, 2025
malware:
No wonder your moniker reads Emptygarden. You should kukuma change it to EmptyBrain. So because Fulanis are into kidnapping that gives you the power to arrest any Northerner, tag him Fulani and kill him? Does this sounds right in your ear?
Don't mind him. These are clear Hausa Hunters going back home. My friend's uncle was part of the deceased. He's a very famous hunter that travel interstate through bush.. If not for death wey dey inevitable he no dey move by road
CrimeRe: Edo State Lynching: Police Arrest 14 Suspects by Bossmang(m): 2:03am On Mar 29, 2025
TriCee:
That was fast. No one is allowed to take the life of another in the name of jungle justice.

But then, why is the government not using this same energy in hunting down the killer fulani herdsmen terrorising people all over the country?.

These guys have been branded 'evil killers', so why still travel such distance with guns?

Sight of a fulani man with a gun or dagger may signal danger at this insecurity period.
Government better address this properly.
Those were not Fulanis
CrimeRe: Edo State Lynching: Police Arrest 14 Suspects by Bossmang(m): 2:01am On Mar 29, 2025
CharleyBright:
Fulani lives Matters abi?
OK.
Let the Nigerian police also use the same energy and alacrity to hunt and arrest Fulani herdsmen that have been villagers and kidnapping travellers across the country.
Let it not look like the law is protecting the criminals only.
These Fulani men are killing people up and down, I have never seen Fulani men arrested.
Fool, this people are Hausa Hunters, if it were Fulani, you cowards would have ran away leaving your women behind
CrimeRe: Edo State Lynching: Police Arrest 14 Suspects by Bossmang(m): 1:54am On Mar 29, 2025
Enwhen:
Can the govt also be swift like this in apprehending killer herdsmen which is the root cause of this jungle justice ?
Why are you sounding as if you angry the government were swift this time?
CrimeRe: Mob Sets Over 10 People Ablaze After Being Found With Guns In Edo (Photos) by Bossmang(m): 1:36am On Mar 29, 2025
adalame:
The Fulani herdsmen will surely fight back, and it will be violent. The people in that community should prepare themselves.
These are not even Fulanis. They are Hausa Hunters
CrimeRe: Mob Kills 16 Travelers In Edo Over False Kidnapping Allegation by Bossmang(m): 1:14am On Mar 29, 2025
IamHonourable1:
Una dey mad, you dey travel from one state to another far state with guns without license and you say it's for hunting.Its that same gun they use in alleged hunting that they also use majorly for kidnappings, criminals.
Who told you they don't have one.. Would you guys even mind it before killing them
CrimeRe: Mob Kills 16 Travelers In Edo Over False Kidnapping Allegation by Bossmang(m): 1:12am On Mar 29, 2025
Owon:
Hausas are different from foòl anis.
Most hausas are very hardworking and don't make trouble. As neighbours, you'll see them as labourers and artisans.
Most of the trouble is caused by foòl anis and not hausas.

This mix-up is always annoying. Educate yourself.
It annoys and pain me so much wallah. Hausa's are not Fulanis. How many times have you heard a Hausa Hunter committing crimes with his gun
CrimeRe: Mob Kills 16 Travelers In Edo Over False Kidnapping Allegation by Bossmang(m): 1:10am On Mar 29, 2025
Cmanforall:
Why travelling for Salla with their guns?
Are they not going for celebration, not 'work' which they do in the South?

Anyways, there are security tensions in the country, and people need to be alert
It's part of the celebration.. There's a festival we do in which hunters and kings guard shoot at the sky during Sallah
CrimeRe: Mob Kills 16 Travelers In Edo Over False Kidnapping Allegation by Bossmang(m): 1:04am On Mar 29, 2025
franchasng:
But they ought to know the security situation of Nigeria and how Fulani herdsmen have been going about killing Nigerian farmers. You cannot entirely blame the angry mob because of how Fulani herdsmen have been going about killing Nigerians with government doing nothing about it.

And why travel that far with their hunting guns knowing the security situation of Nigeria at the moment, it's really sad, sighs
So they should not blame the killers but the victims abi??
CrimeRe: Mob Kills 16 Travelers In Edo Over False Kidnapping Allegation by Bossmang(m): 1:03am On Mar 29, 2025
franchasng:
But they ought to know the security situation of Nigeria and how Fulani herdsmen have been going about killing Nigerian farmers. You cannot entirely blame the angry mob because of how Fulani herdsmen have been going about killing Nigerians with government doing nothing about it.

So they should not blame the killers but the victims abi?

And why travel that far with their hunting guns knowing the security situation of Nigeria at the moment, it's really sad, sighs
CrimeRe: Mob Kills 16 Travelers In Edo Over False Kidnapping Allegation by Bossmang(m): 1:00am On Mar 29, 2025
BabaAduras:
You are totally correct.

While I do not agree with the jungle justice, I am sure there is more to this than meet the eyes.
During Sallah, Hunters visits the Emir to display.. They normally shot at the skys. So that's why they traveled with it.
CrimeRe: Mob Kills 16 Travelers In Edo Over False Kidnapping Allegation by Bossmang(m): 12:58am On Mar 29, 2025
okoloto:
The activities of the fulni herdsmen has put a lot of fulanis in danger especially in the south.
Their elites not helping matters by advising them to rgululte their activities instead they support all their actions including detoying people farms
These are not even Fulanis.. They are Hausa Hunters... Have you ever heard of any crime from one
CrimeRe: Mob Kills 16 Travelers In Edo Over False Kidnapping Allegation by Bossmang(m): 12:54am On Mar 29, 2025
One of the dead is the uncle of a friend. He is a well known hunter that travels through the bushes interstate. They just killed Hausa innocents just like that
PoliticsRe: Finland Court Remands Simon Ekpa In Prison For Inciting Terror In Nigeria by Bossmang(m): 3:21pm On Nov 21, 2024
900warriorz:
Lol grin cheesy grin Oya IPOB, ESN make una go attack Finland as them don catch Ekperima cheesy
Stoppit!!! 😂😂😂
Foreign AffairsRe: Ukraine Fires Us-supplied Long Range Missiles Into Russia, Defence Ministry Says by Bossmang(m): 7:21pm On Nov 19, 2024
Kavod:
INSTEAD MAKE WE DE CHANT SAY NO MORE WAR, WE DE LOOK FOR WHO STRONG PASS AND WHENEVER THEY NEED MORE FUNDS TO FUND THESE WARS NA AFRICA AND HER RESOURCES GO CRY AND STILL YET THEM GO OVER VALUE THEIR CURRENCY AND DEPRECIATE OUR TO KEEP AFLOAT.

BY THE WAY IF RUSSIA WANTS TO TAKE OVER UKRAINE WITH THE SAME METHODS THE WEST USE ALL THE TIME, IT WONT TAKE 8 HOURS.
SEE WAR FOR TWO YEARS PLUS, HOW MANY DEVASTATING PIXS HAVE YOU SEEN OF WOMEN AND KIDS DIEING? SEE GAZA OF ONE YEAR PLUS?

NOTE!!!! THE MEDIA FAVORS ISREAL AND TRY TO HIDE THEIR ATROCITIES FROM THE MEDIA BUT AGAINST RUSSIA.
Am telling you, this is so real, for two years now this war is not as devastating as the war in Palestine.
Foreign AffairsRe: Ukraine Fires Us-supplied Long Range Missiles Into Russia, Defence Ministry Says by Bossmang(m): 7:17pm On Nov 19, 2024
jUeLiZ:
Putin should not have approved the NK troops in to the war. It a war decision that risk escalation, Putin knew that. Already Russia is bigger than Ukraine in all ramifications, why bring in NK troops....I pray both sides come to the table soon ..
Yeah true sha.. He shouldn't have done this
Foreign AffairsRe: Ukraine Fires Us-supplied Long Range Missiles Into Russia, Defence Ministry Says by Bossmang(m): 7:14pm On Nov 19, 2024
smallsmall:
Aside from that, there are Three Issues here, that most people praising Ukraine now, are not aware of:

1) Ukraine has a very limited amount of these long Range Missiles (ATACMS) and they will soon run out of it.
Russia on the other hand, has a Pile of Hypersonic Missiles of various types that can reach and burn anywhere in Ukraine.

2) The "Approval" given to Ukraine by America, is a LIMITED ONE, and it is to use the ATACMS against Russia border regions ONLY and in Kursk.
Why is that?
- The Maximum Range of these Missiles, are just about 300Km, it wont even go much into Russian heartland.

- America has a shortage of the ATACMS Missiles.
Infact, General Loyd Austin (American equivalent of our COAS), told Zelensky last week that "The US has an obligation, first and foremost, to its Clients who have paid for these Missiles in advance and would supply them to those Client first, before considering Ukraine!".

- He also said that America cannot deplete its own stock of Missiles, just to satisfy Ukraine because that would put American Security in jeopardy.
- So, America will not supply additional ATACMS to Ukraine, Trump is taking Office soon and wont approve additional Supply, so what happens, when the few ATACMS Ukraine was given, runs out?
Meanwhile, Russia is rolling out Supersonic Missiles, at an alarming rate, not to mention its Drone production, which even EU Generals have said is "shocking".

3) Russia has been expecting that "Genocide Joe" will give this "ATACMS approval" very soon, for some time now and has moved all its Weapons Storage, Attack Planes and Helicopters, all strategic Assets..... out of the range of the ATACMS Missile, which is just about 300Km.

- Gen. Loyd Austin told Zelensky this, arguing that using ATACMS now, will not give Ukraine any "strategic advantage" in the War.
If anyone is in-doubt about this, let them provide any Video from any source, that shows the damage the Six ATACMS that Ukraine fired, damaging any Significant Russian Military Asset. grin

At best, Zelensky will kill a few Russians and damage a few buildings, in the border Region and maybe hold unto Kursk, the Russian border City, for a little longer, since they are being encircled already. Then he would fold.
He doesn't even have the ManPower (Soldiers) to pursue this War anymore.
His Soldiers are poorly trained Conscripts, forcefully snatched on the Streets and they are deserting or surrendering in droves.

What l am more worried about, is what the Russian Response to this attack, will be.
A lot of Ukrainians will "freeze-to-kpai" this Winter, because Russia will attack their Energy Infrastructure so badly.
Omooo, your knowledge is appalling!! You just broke down exactly everything and every timeline... 😂
Damn!! The Russians are smart for sure, they've moved all significant assets away from the hit zone.
CrimeRe: Two Nigerians Arrested For Narcotics Trafficking In India by Bossmang(m): 9:49am On Nov 18, 2024
nothingspoil70:
Two Biafra men
No naaa 😂
If na bad thing, dem no go claim Biafra!! 😂
SportsRe: La liga: Iheanacho Delighted To Open Sevilla Goal Account by Bossmang(m): 4:36pm On Oct 31, 2024
Abeg who can recommend the best affordable power station that can recharge back fast
PoliticsRe: Jubilation As Power Is Restored In Northern States by Bossmang(m): 4:35pm On Oct 31, 2024
Kano ooooo, what about Kano...
And please who can recommend me the best affordable power station I can get that recharges back fast.
Foreign AffairsRe: Hezbollah Drone Attack Kills 4 Israeli Soldiers, Injures 58 by Bossmang(m): 1:49pm On Oct 15, 2024
kevwemike:
always think B4 U type, can U point out one base of Ur Hezbollah? Ur foolish brothers are hidding among civilians, if them get mind mk them come out.
So let's assume they hide in civilians which is a lie. Does that justify killing civilianshuh??

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