₦airaland Forum

MedicH:
you're a very good guy. i swear i no fit do like you have done. i'm happy you learnt some lessons truly and i have learnt from your experience too added to the things i know from absolutely giving zero fvck and investing zero money and zero emotions in my relationships. Pls how is life treating you now and where are you based? i like your story

. Baba God bless my hustle,my generation can't never taste lack. I stay in my house at FCT. I don't like Yankee wahala but I think of relocating to Canada .

Angelacruz:
Dats bad

. Isn't it wonderful, she prefers money to human dignity, I was ready to give her everything. I always believed that a man worth his salt if he can pay bills, but a little bit of patience was what I ever ask for. It long time ago I have grow pass it but the experience forever change me

Dobson43:
Bro, I am sorry to hear this. I am an only son too. But there are choices you can be make. Bro, through it all, stop calling yourself a beast. You can find love, maybe the way, you see things might be the problem. Maybe you are transferring your anger on other women. Can you stop that. I prefer to be angry with the right person for the right reasons at the right time. It's a better rationale. Can you do that, bro? Women, I am sorry to say, are built these days like trophies. The shiny they are, the costly they become. Men have to work their way up with sweat and grit for acceptance and recognition. But, still I believe they should be treated with civility if love can't be served.



Years back, men then complained that politicians have turned hard working women to women of easy virtue. These days girls believe that money is the aim, and their body is the office to that goal.

. I don't disrespect women,I treat them nicely because at the end of the day,I enjoyed their company, but it ends there. I don't want to be blackmail into something that is not visible.

Paxie55:
Men: we are polygamous in nature people. We can cheat and do what we want cos we are in a patriarchy society. Women are too emotional, weaker vessels.

Same men: one of my girlfriends cheated on me, Now, I cannot walk I'm in pains, I cannot handle this. This hoes ain't loyal.


But y'all scums forgot that when you are cheating, you are indirectly doing it with another man's girl or are you men cheating with your fellow men? The women that were cheating on You, weren't they cheating with your fellow men? If a sister cheats on you, she's helping the patriarchy society cos y'all needed girls to cheat with.

Stop whinning cos patriarchy society allows y'all to cheat. Only that you are cheating with your fellow negro girl, and that's what makes it all interesting to watch.

After all, one of the bro code is to keep the patriarchy society alive.

. Don't derailed the thread. Do you lots even value guys that are loyal? You call them name, it is only those that pay bills that earn your respect

paulolee:
caught bea cheating on me with my friend a week after she confessed that she once slept wit my elder bro..hoes cnt neva b loyal

. Bros your story get as ebi. If not old age and kids nothing will make me near marriage

Bossonboard:
This is a true life story
Please pardon my English learn from my story. After my waec, I venture into business grow my finance in preparation for me to get to a university I build the business to a point that my net profit was in six digits,along the line I had a setback things became so bad I went to the village to stay, one fateful day my childhood friend who I happen to love so much start chatting with me online after 1 months she came to the village to visit me and that was how I was able to relocate with her to the southern part of Nigeria.
I didn't stay with her in the same house rather make her arrange a place for me with one of a guy she she knows before but from time to time I will be going to her house. when I get to our house the house was so untidy clothes were flying everywhere very comfortable apartment but everywhere was scattered.After she went out, I collect all the clothes both the clean and unclean,even her panties. I washed them till nightfall( she has up to a thousand pieces), Next day,I dust the house the TV and sound system I mop the floor clean the toilet I practically turn a house to a brand new, also iron those dresses, when she return she couldn't recognise the house again.

This actions and many more makes her fall so madly in love with me. Both her friends and neighbours were very happy with me say that she is very lucky to have a guy like me,that night she make love to me in the way I will never forget, she cook for me and then in the morning she gave me some money so that should be able to start looking for a job.

After some days I return back to visit her, again the house well untidy I have to clean it up again when she return back I told her the reason why I'm doing this for her is because one I deeply love you 2 as a matured girl and beautiful as you are you have to live in a very clean environment. Life goes on smoothly when the job was not forthcoming my girls start insulting me, every little thing get her angry.

one day she drop the bomb,make me to understand that she value money than having a man that cares. she demeaning my cares for her she couldn't even allow me to touch her again telling me I can only have sex with her if I start bringing money to the house, when I was cleaning the house cooking for her sometimes I was also going out looking for a job and also look out for some businesses but since there are was no results yet ,anything I do for her means nothing, to be sincere sometimes at night I'll be crying begging God to have mercy on me and give me a job or business to do.
After 3 months a man I help before get me a car so that I can be able to use it 4 taxi .I brought the car home me and my girl we went out and celebrate it. I put all my effort to work I start making money in one month I was able to save 200k without her knowledge but then I start becoming a boss in the house due to her nagging attitude she killed my love for her I was only there but my soul was far far away I turned her into a sex mate

one day she asked me if I still love her I told her love is caring sharing and understanding, love is mutual concept that when I needed her to understand my situation and care for me she wasn't there for me that I will continue to be with her in a relationship( I recognize the fact that she came for me when no one else did) but I will treat her in her own concept of relationship.
I place her on monthly upkeep but I become so demanding I'm the type that doesn't like dirty environment she has to force herself to make the house clean so that I will not leave her she combined this with her job, there was so much stress for her but I didn't care anymore

I could have still help out if I wanted to but when I remember her words the humane in me was not there.. even when she's not in the mood to make love I have to force her to sex me she couldn't bear it anymore she just have to let me go.Her actions kills my soul after that incident. I now treat woman no matter how classy you are as an object of pleasure.

I learnt some valuable lessons: 1 Love is not enough in a relationship 2 women generally don't like to take up bills 3 don't bully a purpose driven man, he can only endure for a time. 4 be humble when things are not okay with you but always keep your head up one day the sun will shine again. 5 work hard to maintain your self-esteem.
my advice to women 1 never turn a caring man to beast, always mind your word when a man is in a uncomfortable situations no decent man love hangouts
2 money is a means to an end, value virtues, character and principle and
don't listen to too many Friends.
3 Be a bit patience
share an experience which make you change your conception towards relationship.

She is now a baby mama to a man with two wives.

Dobson43:
I get it now. Well her loss.

. No it actually my loses. I have the money, at least I can take care of things, I have the class, also very tidy but I have no regards for anything call relationship. I lack empathy, I treat women as property, object of pleasure.sadly I am the only son. Marriage is out of the equation, family will never accept any child out of wedlock. Recently I travel to South Africa, met this African American, we get along so well but the beast in me couldn't allow me to love her. Slap her on a simple offense, she choose to walk without calling a cop. I am so sweet and caring to anyone be it woman or man but the moment we enter into relationship, the animal in me rest his head.

varnaija:
The fact that every man you meet will want to Bleep you. And men as they feel satisfied with you overall when they Bleep, so they can japa anytime.

Growing up I thought one just meets his Mr right straight away and get married. Sad reality, bunch of hungry, pussy deprived men will continue to disturb with nothing tangible to add to your life

. Men will continue to be men. How do you appears to them? No decent man joke with a highly intelligent and articulated lady. I guess you improve your self and watch real men adore you

Dobson43:
Yeah, but did you ever have a heart to heart talk with her? I had a relationship previously, the lady had certain issues that if we talked things over coupled with compromise and patience, we could have made it work. But I didn't have that maturity.

. She was my first love, naturally wouldn't I do anything to make it work? I talk to her, plead with her to even give me a piece of time she didn't bug. All she wanted was ability for me to pay bills. She even compare me to her exs I was in an unfortunate situation.

Dobson43:
It's rather a regrettable experience, you found yourself at the hands of a your lady. But have you ever looked at the matter differently. Can a man really enjoy the pleasures of a woman, a relationship, a family or standing in the society with a empty pocket?


The concept of a relationship has evolved. I have had my share of relationships and I can attest to the fact that money answers all things. As a father, I don't want my daughter in a relationship with a pauper.

. I wasn't happy that I was broke, I just needed her to be a bit more tolerant.

This is a true life story
Please pardon my English learn from my story. After my waec, I venture into business grow my finance in preparation for me to get to a university I build the business to a point that my net profit was in six digits,along the line I had a setback things became so bad I went to the village to stay, one fateful day my childhood friend who I happen to love so much start chatting with me online after 1 months she came to the village to visit me and that was how I was able to relocate with her to the southern part of Nigeria.
I didn't stay with her in the same house rather make her arrange a place for me with one of a guy she she knows before but from time to time I will be going to her house. when I get to our house the house was so untidy clothes were flying everywhere very comfortable apartment but everywhere was scattered.After she went out, I collect all the clothes both the clean and unclean,even her panties. I washed them till nightfall( she has up to a thousand pieces), Next day,I dust the house the TV and sound system I mop the floor clean the toilet I practically turn a house to a brand new, also iron those dresses, when she return she couldn't recognise the house again.

This actions and many more makes her fall so madly in love with me. Both her friends and neighbours were very happy with me say that she is very lucky to have a guy like me,that night she make love to me in the way I will never forget, she cook for me and then in the morning she gave me some money so that should be able to start looking for a job.

After some days I return back to visit her, again the house well untidy I have to clean it up again when she return back I told her the reason why I'm doing this for her is because one I deeply love you 2 as a matured girl and beautiful as you are you have to live in a very clean environment. Life goes on smoothly when the job was not forthcoming my girls start insulting me, every little thing get her angry.

one day she drop the bomb,make me to understand that she value money than having a man that cares. she demeaning my cares for her she couldn't even allow me to touch her again telling me I can only have sex with her if I start bringing money to the house, when I was cleaning the house cooking for her sometimes I was also going out looking for a job and also look out for some businesses but since there are was no results yet ,anything I do for her means nothing, to be sincere sometimes at night I'll be crying begging God to have mercy on me and give me a job or business to do.
After 3 months a man I help before get me a car so that I can be able to use it 4 taxi .I brought the car home me and my girl we went out and celebrate it. I put all my effort to work I start making money in one month I was able to save 200k without her knowledge but then I start becoming a boss in the house due to her nagging attitude she killed my love for her I was only there but my soul was far far away I turned her into a sex mate

one day she asked me if I still love her I told her love is caring sharing and understanding, love is mutual concept that when I needed her to understand my situation and care for me she wasn't there for me that I will continue to be with her in a relationship( I recognize the fact that she came for me when no one else did) but I will treat her in her own concept of relationship.
I place her on monthly upkeep but I become so demanding I'm the type that doesn't like dirty environment she has to force herself to make the house clean so that I will not leave her she combined this with her job, there was so much stress for her but I didn't care anymore

I could have still help out if I wanted to but when I remember her words the humane in me was not there.. even when she's not in the mood to make love I have to force her to sex me she couldn't bear it anymore she just have to let me go.Her actions kills my soul after that incident. I now treat woman no matter how classy you are as an object of pleasure.

I learnt some valuable lessons: 1 Love is not enough in a relationship 2 women generally don't like to take up bills 3 don't bully a purpose driven man, he can only endure for a time. 4 be humble when things are not okay with you but always keep your head up one day the sun will shine again. 5 work hard to maintain your self-esteem.
my advice to women 1 never turn a caring man to beast, always mind your word when a man is in a uncomfortable situations no decent man love hangouts
2 money is a means to an end, value virtues, character and principle and
don't listen to too many Friends.
3 Be a bit patience
share an experience which make you change your conception towards relationship.