₦airaland Forum

sirjamesjnr:
No it isn't stupid for a man to kneel when proposing and anyone that thinks it is obviously still has some growing up to do.

I'm only guessing but any guy that would say it's stupid, says so because his character is weak. And a man with a weak character will worry about what others with weak character think. Poor character is what is wrong with too many young people these days. A lack of character is where bullies, gangsters, con men, lack of personal accountability and being financially inept come from.

The next thing you know, you have some young guy trying to be a man through a car, tattoos, clothes or whatever superficial thing that was popular that day and not wanting to kneel before the woman he wants to marry. Nothing wrong with cars or tattoos when you have some character to go with them. I am only concern about money miss road kind of guy.

Kneeling before a woman is about showing her that you are willing to humble yourself and give total respect and commitment doing something that you wouldn't do for anyone unless you were forced to, SUBMIT. You basically are submitting to her and putting her above yourself to symbolize what you will do for her the rest of your life. I don't mean that the guy will be subservient their whole life, I mean that he will be the shield and take on any threat to the family, willing to give his life to protect their
Kneeling on one knee means that a man will actually going to be devoted until the end so long the woman is respectful. You are honoring the institution of marriage and it benefits not just the lady.
Only men and women with class will agree with me but the low. Life will bash.

. I will illustrate taking insights from nature. Male peacocks have the attractive colourful wings not the female ones, even then males in a group of peacocks fight and eventually the strongest one takes charge. Only the winner can mate with the rest of the female ones in the heard.

If the males of the most colourful and beautiful species has to go through such a heck of a competition we men are here to acquire the most beautiful beings in our species. I think bending before them shows how inclined you are to fight for the woman in your life protecting her honour. Marriage is a different activity all together. It's just a ritualistic aspect developed over a period of time in various cultures. The bond of living togather hasn't changed and it requires contribution from both sides. Kneeling before a woman's feet is also a ritualistic aspect or a cultural aspect and has nothing to do with submitting oneself.

Bojack:
Bloody Simp

. No he is not. I totally agree with him, but I am against doing it to these lazy slay drama idoit reason been it could be because after this one and only one instance of a man kneeling at a woman's feet, if the woman accepts his proposal, she is expected to kneel for him pretty much anytime he wants, both literally and figuratively.

By literally, I think we all know what I mean.

By figuratively, what I mean is the woman is constantly sacrificing her own wants and needs in order to follow the man's lead. That means putting his job first, following him wherever he chooses to go in order to maintain the marriage, and submitting to his decisions and leadership in the relationship.

A man kneels to a woman only once in order to get her to do it for him for the rest of their lives together.

This has been the traditional dynamic between men and women for many years. It may not be exactly the same right now, but a lot of people still have this wired in their brains.

In addition, if a man is willing to kneel at a woman's feet in order to ask for her hand in marriage, it's usually a sign that proves that he really loves her enough to be willing to do that. If he is not willing to kneel at her feet, then I would be inclined to question whether he really loves her or not. Kneeling on one knee come with class

Jaubdu:
I am tired,I am in a fix and I want out.

. Who will you dump her for, we have enough trouble already please

ZINIBANKS:
BossonBoard you wan kill yourself 35-50

. My choice my dead, e concern u?

I fancy someone older because of maturity and class. I need a female friend who is interested in dating a man of 30 yrs of age. She must be a Graduate, age 35---50.
Classy and full of life.
Pm me let get to know each other.
Or email me. allieglushank@gmail.com

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I fancy someone older because of maturity and class. I need a female friend who is interested in dating a man of 30 yrs of age. She must be a Graduate, age 35---50.
Classy and full of life.
Pm me let get to know each other.
Or email me. allieglushank@gmail.com

MoodyQueen:
I am in a good mood. I choose not to ruin it over a concocted nonsense form a stupid storyteller.

. I didn't cause your frustration please grow some brain.

Unnerve:
This feels like a story created from the mind of someone with group sexual fantasies
But if it's to be believed, then I don't see any criminal case to be reported here.


That is what we call consent.


As for sending him on compulsory leave, I don't think any company laws were broken. They were doing it at the staff private quarters right?

But wait a minute, why is there CCTV installed in staff private residence

. One of the policy of the company especially if you are on a sensitive position.i nearly go bankrupt before I take that decision. I can now sleep with my two eyes closed.

gentlestdude:
Since it's with her consent just fire them for having sex in your company, not cause 5 guys took turns on her. that's what I'll do.

. I am sad the girl fool the guy and steal from him but I think the guy went too far.

MoodyQueen:
Five men, taking turns on a lady is a mistake??

. What about years of toil and sweat. She bankrupt the guy. Please use your senses not emotion. I am totally confused

Davash222:
It's takes a fowl to believe this.

. I really appreciate your sincere advice not this thanks

mignone:
Are u sure he can handle it with maturity?
Since d lady herself knows what she's doing&consented, I doubt it's a criminal case here.
You can only wisely counsel ur trusted lover buy in such a way dt he can conclude to leave d lady&accept fate dt he was only her sponsor.
Hope he listens though cos what will be will surely be.

Modified.
Sorry, I thought d lady was a victim of d rival guy.
I think you should just leave them to sort themselves since u already have sm soft spot for d guy.

. I don't have a soft spot for crime but I don't want to do things against my conscience.

Righteousness89:
Iniquity upon inquiry Everywhere!

Your Company needs prayers oooo

Sexual immorality comes with a Spirit!

That act of Wickedness done inside your company could cripple your company!

You need to pray for your company !

. Spare me this religious talks.Everyone make mistakes

ojun50:
Sir, if what you posted here is true then dat guy should be in prison

. I don't want to discuss this with friends and associates that why I bring it here.

ojun50:
Sir, if what you posted here is true then dat guy should be in prison

. Can you please give me your reasons.

Bossonboard:
Please pardon my diction
I have a company am running which I have CTV installed in some of my senior staff private quarters.
I take a look at one of the videos, I discovered 5 guys were taking turns out with a lady.
The lady in question is fiancee to one of the guys ( the guy is my most trusted senior staff)
I was in shock for sometime then I called the guy and tell him I have a dream where he RAPE his girl with some men. Immediately the guy busting into tears and began telling me his story.
He actually sent this girl to school and she is in her finals. He plans to take her to Japan which I am aware ( I want to send him for some business deal and training)
He told me the girl in questions has been stealing his money to fund another guy in the same department.
What got him angry was the messages between the girl and the guy.
He showed me the messages. They were even planning to poison the guy if he stand on their way.
He confronted the lady, which she apologized and blame the devil.
So the guy got mad and arrange with his guys to take turns with the girl.
The girl accepted the condition because the guy did promise to still marry her after the deed.
Nairaland family, should I report this issue to the police or let it fly? I feel the guy's pain but I think he went too far. I have told him to go on compulsory leave pending when I decide on the next actions. I regard this guy as a brother. Please useful advice thanks.

I don't if I should force him to marry the girl and done with them. I can still keep him to work with me. He is a good person no matter what he did.

mignone:
Are u sure he can handle it with maturity?

. Handle what with maturity?

toyotamuscle:
guy stop masturbation.it ll help.also try to save your spam for atlist 2months and start working out.

. I don't masturbate. I am a prince, woman must warm my bed.

kelvinrhs:
Try to scroll up and see that I and the op are 2 different people

. Menh I am younger than you.

Professorcplus:
You funny o. Why some people want to look more mature than their age, some are feeling bad for it. Op you don't have problem use it to your advantage.

. You are right. I actually gain a lot looking so mature( money wise, social wise). Like ladies are willing to go down anytime because they feel very safe. I really want to look more fresh and Young. I have the digits so let me catch some fun. Local man can can now

Sundrus:
Nature dey vex with u say u too fvck

. I am confused. I couldn't think of anything else.Is there a solutions.

So I met this guy,27 but he looks like a guy of 21. I ask him to guess my age, he responds you are 37. I became so sad, I am 30.
What could be the possible factor for this?
I know I like to have fun with multiple women.
I live an healthy lifestyle. I eat healthy food.
Can countless of sex make one looks old?
Please I need useful answers.

Ladylite:
If you are really desperate then come to a page on Instagram that helps sensitive issues, I can help you

@paradiseofsweetness_k

. I am not desperate, you can drop your advise here thanks

MEGA4BILLION:
Every addiction in life is overcome by determination

. Determination by what? Every girl I met are just for fun nothing more.

Rrrrrrr

Hhhhhhhh

Paxie55:
Please shut up.
I value guys that are loyal and also pay bills.
You can't be half baked and say you are entering relationship. And btw, that question should be thrown at your gender. Cos y'all don't value loyal ladies, no matter what a man that wants to cheat will still cheat.

. Let me educate a bit, a man can easily part with his money but when a man assist you at home front, please never take him for granted. Right now even if I marry, I can't assist any woman at home

MedicH:
Congratulations... Oluwa did not despise those cries in the night.

. A lot of ladies already ate their cake, I find it funny they now disturb God for miracle husband.

Paxie55:
Please shut up.
I value guys that are loyal and also pay bills.
You can't be half baked and say you are entering relationship. And btw, that question should be thrown at your gender. Cos y'all don't value loyal ladies, no matter what a man that wants to cheat will still cheat.

. Nope you can't get it both ways, I can't pay your bills and still be loyal to you BTW you still cheat if opportunity presents itself

Angelacruz:
Pele...move on

. I didn't write the story for self pity. Need guys and women to learn from it.