Celebrities › Re: This Nairalander's track might be the best in 2015: Check It Out by bqlekan(m): 10:32pm On Dec 11, 2015 |
dope track bro... just don't know which one is you... track's really cool |
Romance › Re: Relationships Are Not For Me! Am Not Lucky When It Comes To Women by bqlekan(m): 10:24pm On Dec 11, 2015 |
brainbucks: I'm suffering the same thing bro. And they just do it with no rhyme, remorse or reason.
Mine did the same just last night. But I guess I'm luckier than you cos she never leaves fpr another guy; it's just a couple of wires in her head loose now.
You see, she has done it before. And she is usually very coldblooded and emotionally disconnected about it. She will then return to church choir duties to date Jesus for some time. It will take another 10months or so for her to reboot her brain and then she will come back with humility.
Usually everything works out for about two weeks before the wires spark again in her brain. And then the whole damned cycle reboots and plays itself out all over again.
Last Days mehn, eleeyi gidi gan o.. God be with you., |
Romance › Re: Pls Call Me!!! by bqlekan(m): 10:21pm On Dec 11, 2015 |
choi...  |
Pets › Re: Dogs In Nairobi Banned From Having Sex In Public. by bqlekan(m): 10:18pm On Dec 11, 2015*. Modified: 10:52pm On Dec 11, 2015 |
and who the fhuuk will enforce this law? policemen or police dogs?
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Nairaland General › Re: Two Bodies Disappear From Benin Mortuary by bqlekan(m): 10:14pm On Dec 11, 2015 |
corpse vanishing in Nigerian mortuaries since the inception of FESTAC festival
la joke I dey o.. |
Romance › Re: Check Out This Hilarious Snapchat About Benin by bqlekan(m): 10:11pm On Dec 11, 2015 |
I laughed and I left the thread..
thank you op.., |
Romance › Re: When A Guy Makes Love To You With A Condom by bqlekan(m): 8:45pm On Dec 11, 2015 |
suzzy16: seriously dear,aint good for teenagers reading dis I tell you.. he should preach abstinence and quit beating around the bush. |
Romance › Re: 10 Categories Of People That Can't Do Without Womanizing- By Tosyne2much by bqlekan(m): 7:26pm On Dec 11, 2015 |
hehe., this one wey your ten complete today |
Romance › Re: ok by bqlekan(m): 6:25pm On Dec 11, 2015 |
I'm still waiting for op to type ' I was only joking, Merry Christmas and happy new year in advance' |
Islam › Re: Sadaqah(charity): A Voluntary Act With Immense Spiritual Reward by bqlekan(m): 9:06am On Dec 11, 2015 |
Jazakumlahkhairan.. May Allah reward all our good deeds.., Jumah Mubarak |
Romance › Re: When A Guy Makes Love To You With A Condom by bqlekan(m): 12:18am On Dec 11, 2015 |
misspicy: No need to stop him biko
any reasonable human being that values their lives and do not joke with their health will not make use of such baseless excuse to spread HIV and unwanted pregnancies and uncared for children up and down
Decency,morality, and trust is a different topic that should not in anyway be linked to the use of condom
if you want to be decent and morality upright do notengage in sex till marriage
if you think the use of condom is demeaning keep yourself from sex till marriage
instead of spreading hogwash and diseases in the name of decency
any body who engages in sex is not likely to get married to their first sexual partner and such they can contact STDs if they go by this useless.morals induced thread you said it all ma'am, I just decided not to reply him again... he should come with another thread.. |
Romance › Re: When A Guy Makes Love To You With A Condom by bqlekan(m): 11:56pm On Dec 10, 2015 |
misspicy: listen you say,the man/boy is so obssessed with his chauvinistic self that he will make sure he runs his life that way now that is even his business its his life...
the problem am having is the useless 2+2 boys and girls that he has posted this thread before because this is a public forum and some ediots actually believes everything they see hook line and sinker
because it seems OP just created this thread for laughs...because all i see here is him preaching indirect abstinense,encouraging boys and girls to have without condom on the basis of innocent looks and trust and he is even encouraging the use of family planning method for woman who have not given birth before which can lead to infertility......
BRUH i just weak right now as in ehn.. I pity the lots of those who reads sh*ts on here and follows blindly.. The dude should be stopped from spreading craps like this.. |
Romance › Re: When A Guy Makes Love To You With A Condom by bqlekan(m): 11:34pm On Dec 10, 2015 |
misspicy: i created a thread on this when a male friend told me something relating to this..
https://www.nairaland.com/2527948/why-he-wunt-use-cds.
i related this to another guy,he said that my friend is likely to be a carrier already as that is the lie this carriers tell just to spread their disease and na mumu girls fall for it....so i am tempted to ask you are you a carrier,if you say no show us a proof of your HIV,Hepatis,overall sexually transmitted diseases test
please sir forgive my outburst but i have to be frank with my post on this tonight...
of all threads you af been creating forming alpha male,chauvinistic male,i swear this is the most illiterate and unreasonable one and I begin to wonder if your association with nairaland boys has corrupted your sense of reasoning....seriously i used to see you as matured adult
i would want you to answer the following questions,i need to test your knowledge of the use of condoms and STDs
Now what is condom? what is it used for what is an STD,who are the carriers,is it only females that harbour STDs?
who are those that should protect themselves from STDs and unwanted pregnancies?
Now the worst you can do is to insult my moniker and call your children to defend you but am ready for you all,btw am sorry i don't mince words when i talk
btw no offeinse meant but i can't allow you preach what will affect the coming generation gangan! koda ki chen-fu ma binu...  thanks for this little piece ma'am.. I hope he listens.. |
Romance › Re: When A Guy Makes Love To You With A Condom by bqlekan(m): 11:31pm On Dec 10, 2015 |
Toks2008: These are dep facts that may be hard to comprehend.
First you are asking me to leave decency out which is tantamount to saying decency is impossible but just let me flow with that.
Now to the issue of protection..let me be frank with you...except both of you are 100% faithful towards each other,no partner is really safe from stds because as i explained in one of my threads,use of condom does not guaranty protection and i explained in details.
Now even if i preach abstinence does that change the fact that millions will still do it tonight?
Condom use is a deceit from the pits of hell cos it has given the liberty to fornicate easily but im not here to preach but to state the fact that in 99.9% of the cases, [\b]when a man makes love to a lady using a condom, he is passing a message to her that his affection for her has a limitation.[b]
If abstinence will solve the problem, fine but as a lady,no man will ever stick that rubber in me neither will i ever use it to make love because when you use a condom,you are only having sex and not making love. you are not addressing the circumstances I gave.. but let me leave that to your conscience. if you go through your posts, you've contradicted yourself * you want us to abstain and still have unprotected sex even outside marriage.. @emboldened, I disagree with that totally if I use latex for a lady I love, the message m passing is [\b]' I want you protected just like I want to. we both are not ready to raise kids, so this act between us is just a way of consuming our love for each other. I care for a perfect future for the both of us, a future with no STDS.'[b] Abstinence>prevention>cure as we can't abstain, we gotta prevent |
Romance › Re: When A Guy Makes Love To You With A Condom by bqlekan(m): 10:48pm On Dec 10, 2015 |
Toks2008: You are getting it all twisted.
You can never remove the risk factor from whatever we do in life and even if you marry a virgin,she can still go out to bring any nonsense to you and visavis.
What i am implying here is that when a man uses a condom on a lady,that man is actually passing deep messages to the lady and ordinarily,any decent lady will not even make love "casually" because except a lady is a slut,no lady in her right sense indulges in sex with a man she does not love.
But when a man meticulously makes sure he uses protection on a lady,be most assured that the guy does not have deep respect and affection for the lady.
Now get this point clear,in my world,if you make love with a woman you claim you love with a condom because you dont want her to be pregnant for you then you dont really want her...forget all the cock and bull crap,if a man loves a woman and i mean really wants a woman,he will never be scared of lady getting pregnant for him even if he is 20 and the lady is 18. now, lets take decency away from this, assuming I'm in a relationship with a lady, we both agreed to keep it safe.. ( does that mean the lady is a slut? why not call the man a slut?) what if during the relationship, either of us contact HIV virus through other means other than sexual intercourse? then we can gladly transfer it to one another right? like you said, "no lady in her right sense indulges in sex with a man she does not love." now she loves me and we've been having sex, the best I can do is make sure it's protected sex for the sake of our future. now to the emboldened.. assuming I've got a fiancee in her final year in school, bound to go for housmanship next year,.. I think you are telling me to impregnate her.. probably make her pause her career all because I really want her. Sir, it's not the right thing to do. you probably should say 'abstain from pre-marital sex' that would have been better.. I think I once told you.. you have a problem with premarital sex.. |
Romance › Re: When Was The Last Time You Shed Tears?, Why by bqlekan(m): 10:15pm On Dec 10, 2015 |
wow, I think last year.. I had some things to do at the orphanage.. I just couldn't hold back... we just have to keep thanking God |
Romance › Re: When A Guy Makes Love To You With A Condom by bqlekan(m): 9:59pm On Dec 10, 2015 |
this dude is here again.., here is my opinion,
lets assume a dude is HIV positive, going by your opinion now, he must respect that girl and spread the disease to her.. or better still, the dude should not have sex any longer cos he is HIV positive. and that makes him less of a human...
my opinion tho... |
Science/Technology › Re: Aviation: Interesting Facts About Pilots, Airports And Airlines. by bqlekan(m): 7:52pm On Dec 10, 2015 |
yet another nice piece from the explorer |
Crime › Re: Abiodun Egunjobi, 'Godogodo', Armed Robber's Fall (Photos) by bqlekan(m): 6:07pm On Dec 10, 2015 |
darn!!! see magazines.. Notoriety at its peak... |
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Romance › Re: Nairaland Romance Section Slum Book 2015. [fill And Tag] by bqlekan(m): 9:18am On Dec 10, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: Nairaland Romance Section Slum Book 2015. [fill And Tag] by bqlekan(m): 9:08am On Dec 10, 2015 |
naijaboiy: [color=#1980BC]Lol...I think it's better to learn how to start a conversation with a girl offline than online.
That's where the major challenge is. [/color] ehn ehn... thanks for the info.. Oya gimme tips on that...  |
Romance › Re: Nairaland Romance Section Slum Book 2015. [fill And Tag] by bqlekan(m): 9:04am On Dec 10, 2015 |
naijaboiy: [color=#1980BC]Lol,,whenever you are ready [/color] How about I say now  |
Romance › Re: Nairaland Romance Section Slum Book 2015. [fill And Tag] by bqlekan(m): 9:00am On Dec 10, 2015 |
naijaboiy:

[color=#1980BC]You sef! 
Me i nor sabi teach o. I just see having a conversation as a normal thing,so it doesn't come as hard.
That's all. [/color] I want to start seeing conversations with pretty pieces as normal thing too... we are on the same page here.. you've gat what av always wanted... ;P when should we start?  Modified |
Romance › Re: Nairaland Romance Section Slum Book 2015. [fill And Tag] by bqlekan(m): 8:52am On Dec 10, 2015 |
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Fc Barcelona Fan Thread: "més Que Un Club" by bqlekan(m): 8:44am On Dec 10, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: Nairaland Romance Section Slum Book 2015. [fill And Tag] by bqlekan(m): 8:41am On Dec 10, 2015 |
naijaboiy: [color=#1980BC]Lol...i'm confused. Which trade oga? [/color] this trade of chitchat with beautiful nairaland ladies noni.. oga, how much make I pay, when make we start class? |
Romance › Re: Nairaland Romance Section Slum Book 2015. [fill And Tag] by bqlekan(m): 8:32am On Dec 10, 2015 |
naijaboiy: [color=#1980BC]Wetin I do? [/color] I want to learn this your trade nii.. |
Romance › Re: Nairaland Romance Section Slum Book 2015. [fill And Tag] by bqlekan(m): 7:44am On Dec 10, 2015 |
Naijaboiy hanhan!  |
Phones › Re: 17 Things That Are Too Real For Iphone Users In Nigeria by bqlekan(m): 7:37am On Dec 10, 2015 |
great illustration of situations... epic  |
Nairaland General › Re: See The Creativity Level Of This Young Man by bqlekan(m): 7:20am On Dec 10, 2015 |
this dude should go study architecture, it should refine his talent |
Family › Re: Photos: When You Leave Baby Alone With Dad by bqlekan(m): 7:17am On Dec 10, 2015 |
this made my morning |