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Is She Pretending to Love Me? I'm Confused
« on: September 28, 2005, 08:12 PM »

Now you guys really need to help me out.

I met a girl and I liked her and I asked her out. Though she didn't say yes first instance, I wouldn't want her to say yes just the first day of talking to her. I expected her to think about it, since relationship starts from friendship (I guess u guys know that).

But the stuff that baffles me is that after 3 weeks of meeting her, I taught she had agreed, because of the way she behaves to me (very romantic). She went as far as telling her siblings that she found a new lover; some stuff like that. After 1 month of meeting her, I knew everybody at home including her mum and her sisters and the rest of them. They like me so much -

Whenever I'm off to their house, i hop into a Fast Food Eatry (Mr. BIGGS) and buy Bread and some food stuff . But something happened and she was so mad at me - because I was proud of her I told my close friend about her and some of my friends, so she was mad because I told them about her. Since then she has been mad at me.

I met her in a Youth Forum - strictly for youths, different kind of youths coming together and sharing their ideas and potencials. So when ever my friend asks her about me, she claims she is not dating me. She tells them lies, as far as telling my other friends that i'm just a toaster.

I have notice that she is not straight foward - she beats around the bush, and she lies. But that don't stop me from dating her: I love her, I want to make her leave all those bad stuff. Friends who talked with her on mybehalf of me told me she said she is not dating me, that infact I was th only one caring to her, but she hasn't said yes. yet

The Questions is since she didn't say yes, why the hell she accept things I do buy 4 her? It got to a day she said she loves me on the phone, but now she is claiming that she hasn't say yes yet. I don't know what to do.

I want to give her a break for a while. Is that good or what do you think? Whenever she sees me with another lady she get jealous. [Help me, please]

, I feel you guy,, u luv d girl wan change am, but take am easy, try wetin u fit nd no start wetin u no fit finish,

I don't think "we" can answer that question correctly, , i believe u re a grown man.

I think dat shld have made ur relationship stronger,

O boy, this one fear me oooo, as people wey dey naija det complain aw about us wey dey away while our girls dey serve/,

Aw Kwana dat one still dey happen?, habba