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BusinessNew Electric Bike Ebike Urgent Distress Sale by braindee(op): 5:10pm On Dec 12, 2025
Fei Ye Electric Scooter – 48V 20Ah (80km/hr)

Neat and powerful electric scooter, no petrol needed.
Fast, silent, and perfect for daily movement or dispatch work. Spare parts readily available.

Features:

48V 20Ah battery

Top speed: 80km/hr

Can carry 2 people

Strong motor

LED headlamp

Rear storage box

Very low maintenance

https://youtube.com/shorts/W3KinYk7DQg?si=LQmRNW4-Hs5Bisys

BusinessRe: Is Your Business Showing Inactive On The CAC Portal? by braindee(m): 5:59am On Dec 12, 2025
How much for a business name registered in May 2015 and has never filed annual returns?
KingGe:
File your company annual returns to stay active on CAC portal
FamilyRe: Married But Feeling Single: I’m Losing Myself In This Quiet Marriage by braindee(m): 3:57pm On Oct 14, 2025
Are you ABSOLUTELY SURE that he is not gay?
breadtoaster:
Please, those of you who are married — how do you cope?

I am married to someone I don’t think is my friend. We dated before marriage, but during that time, I had a very senior friend whom I always went to for advice, help with decisions, and assistance with things that required initiative or “manly” effort.

My husband, on the other hand, is very quiet. Living with him feels like living in a graveyard — no TV, no outings, nothing lively. It’s not that he isn’t intelligent (trust me, he is), but he’s too lazy to put his mind to work sometimes. By 9 p.m., he’s already asleep. He eats, goes to work, and that’s all. He has no drive for more. Whenever I talk about progress or goals, he says, “It’s a process; it’ll take years to come to fruition,” but he never thinks of ways to get things done efficiently or on time.

So in terms of ambition or drive for achievement, I’m suffering living with him. I feel alone. I’m scared that his lack of motivation and his slow, passive lifestyle will kill my own drive. I’m not even extremely driven myself, but I know I want to achieve greatness. That desire pushes me, but I’m afraid that living with him will make me too relaxed and unmotivated — and I don’t want that.

Before marriage, I had friends — both male and female — with whom I shared advice and ideas. I’ve always had male friends because they tend to be driven. From them, I learned about crypto, stocks, business ideas — they inspired me. But my husband doesn’t trust them or me around them. Since we got married, I can’t talk to most of these friends at home unless I’m at work. It’s affecting me mentally. I’m scared that my circle for growth and greatness is being trimmed down, and soon I might start behaving like him — with no ambition or hunger for achievement.

Women, how do you handle such relationship dynamics?
How do I keep my drive while being married to such a man?

Every Friday night, he’s already asleep. One time, I dragged him to a lounge on a Friday night, and he was dozing off there. I ended up dancing alone while other couples danced together. If there’s something important we’re supposed to do, he won’t take initiative or push for it.

For example, I suggested we start going to church regularly to build our spiritual life. One Sunday, he woke up first and went to bathe. When he finished, he didn’t wake me up, and by the time I opened my eyes, it was already late. When I asked why he didn’t tell me, he said he called me but I didn’t answer. For me, I wouldn’t act that way — especially when it’s something that helps build our faith together.

We also planned to pray as a family. We did it for two days, and then he forgot — and honestly, I’m struggling to remember too. I don’t know if our marriage is under spiritual attack or if it’s just his personality, but my mental health is suffering. I’m not happy. I don’t genuinely smile anymore.

He doesn’t know how to pamper me or show warmth. If I complain about something, he just lashes out. He didn’t date much before marriage; he was one of those “spiritual brothers.” I was spiritual too, but I thought quiet men were more romantic or deep inside. I was wrong. I feel like he’s choking the life out of me.

At home, I can’t even make calls freely — he gets unknowingly aggressive if I’m on the phone and says things like, “Don’t you have things to do?” So I can’t talk to the people I’d love to.

After our marriage, he had issues going to my family, claiming I blackmailed him because of earlier arguments. He would get upset about small things, like me dancing to Afrobeat music. He’d say I shouldn’t, then later deny he said it. Or if we go out to eat, he’ll say we should leave early or that the place will soon close, even when I just want to relax and enjoy being outside.

I feel alone, yet married. I miss home. I’m not sure what to do.

It even took us one month after the wedding to consummate our marriage. We were both virgins, but his manhood wasn’t functioning well, and we had so many arguments that our emotional connection broke down. I felt it literally fall apart. Now I feel like I’m just living with someone.

He often says, “We’re not aligned,” or that he trusts me only 60%. If I go out, he sometimes gets angry or accuses me of lying about where I went. I can’t stay indoors all day like him — I’d just die inside.

I need help. I feel like I’m losing myself. When I visit home, my mother’s voice feels loud or too much, my friends when i talk to them, it feels like they are talking too much — not because they are talking too much, but because I’ve been living in such silence that I’ve lost touch with voice, morelike in a graveyard.

I am even crying as I type this, and he is sitting somewhere on the other side asking me if my head is swelling or what is making me cry.

I’m just… tired. feeling so strongly emotionally starved tooo.
BusinessRe: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by braindee(m): 12:51pm On Aug 20, 2025
$130 PayPal fnf from balance available. Come WhatsApp.
BusinessRe: I Need An Importer/exporter That Accepts Crypto as payment by braindee(m): 6:46pm On Jun 26, 2025
Have you got a reliable person? I've a Chinese friend who does this. Let me know if you still need. Check me out on Nairaland.
BusinessRe: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by braindee(m): 8:46pm On Jun 18, 2025
Clean 343 RMB to Alipay needed. Come WhatsApp. I do not want scam funds, please.
BusinessRe: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by braindee(m): 9:33pm On Jun 04, 2025
Good evening gentlemen. Be very careful of scammers. They are becoming bolder.
BusinessRe: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by braindee(m): 4:03pm On May 28, 2025
$150 Payoneer funds available at 1600/$. Come WhatsApp. Thanks.
BusinessRe: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by braindee(m): 12:27pm On May 12, 2025
Noted.
Chijohn42k:
Mr Braindee wants to do escrow for us
BusinessRe: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by braindee(m): 10:48am On Apr 18, 2025
Hey, Guys. I have 5355 USDT for sale at 1600/USDT. Minimum of 1000 USDT per transaction. Come WhatsApp.
CelebritiesRe: "My Call To Become A Native Doctor Divine" – Yul Edochie by braindee(m): 10:46am On Apr 18, 2025
I have 5355 USDT for sale at 1600/USDT. Come WhatsApp.
YungMike:
Unfortunately, he can only be a true Native Doctor in Nollywood Movies. grin


Let's swap all ya Crryptoo asset (BTC-ETH-USDT) to Cash... Check sign for contact details.
O8O65OOOO6I5
BusinessRe: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by braindee(m): 9:16am On Apr 18, 2025
Hey, guys. 50,000 HKD available at great rate. 100,000 RMB available also. Come WhatsApp.
BusinessRe: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by braindee(m): 12:25pm On Feb 03, 2025
Hey, guys.

Please, beware of these scammers. A huge thank you to artworks1 for bringing it to my notice.

So, apparently one idiot is on WhatsApp claiming to be me and offering escrow services. Their details are in the quoted. Please, beware. Check my signature for my genuine contact details.

artworks1:
Seun
Dominique
Tabbaz
Puskin
Braindee
Naijacutee

Pls integrate this thief into scammer’s list
Moniker: Godfearer62

Number: +2349161344876, 09161344876 number: +2349160392479‬, 09160392479

Bank account numbers provided for fraud:

Account: 0096765301-Access Audu Danladi
3208776672 First bank adeagba aanure John
2068414537 Kuda Babayeju Kehinde
8108182861 Opay Stephen ademola ayantoye


Beware.

BusinessRe: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by braindee(m): 8:42am On Nov 06, 2024
$2000 PayPal fnf from balance needed today. Bring all available funds to my WhatsApp. Rate is N1550/$. Instant payment upon confirmation. Have a great day ahead.
AgricultureRe: Local Rice And Paddy Rice From The Main Source by braindee(m): 1:59am On Nov 01, 2024
I sent you a message on WhatsApp
shariff84:
We are still selling good,polished and destoned local rice @65k per bag.
AgricultureRe: Good People With Idle Funds by braindee(m): 1:53am On Nov 01, 2024
You seem quite touchy.
BusinessRe: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by braindee(m): 1:36pm On Oct 31, 2024
$500 PayPal fnf from balance needed to USA account. $1500/$. Come WhatsApp.
AgricultureRe: Book Your Foreign Xmas Turkey by braindee(m): 1:30pm On Oct 31, 2024
It's good price. But not good for those of us who do frozen foods business and buy bulk. Where is your location?
ajoyeleke:
Its going for 80k each, but will be fully ready by dec 15
AgricultureRe: Sales Of Farmland by braindee(m): 2:02am On Oct 31, 2024
If you truly want serious people, put price per acre. That's how serious business people do.
Jeff0823:
100Acres and more is available for sales at orire local government, ogbomosho.oyo state. Nigeria, it good for farming and easy to access, You can contact me thru 07061276122
AgricultureRe: Book Your Foreign Xmas Turkey by braindee(m): 1:52am On Oct 31, 2024
Put price.
ajoyeleke:
Turkeys weigh 15kg average

U can reserve it down at no cost

Sales start on December 15

0704 3512 698
Whatsapp
AgricultureRe: Good People With Idle Funds by braindee(m): 1:32am On Oct 31, 2024
You made an account today and talking of investments. This is not ordinary red flag. Na RED BANNER sef.
BusinessRe: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by braindee(m): 11:22am On Sep 16, 2024
I am buying paypal fnf from balance right now from 1,500/$. Bring all you have, I will buy. My office is open NOW!
BusinessRe: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by braindee(m): 8:29am On Sep 14, 2024
PayPal fnf from balance needed. All amounts can come. Thanks.
PhonesRe: Airtel Unlimited Data Thread! Best Data Plan In 2024!! by braindee(m): 10:02pm On Sep 05, 2024
Did you get it with the Android TV box?
pheranme9:
Ask any questions bothering you before making purchase, I'll be glad to help! I'm using the 4G variant and it's working fine for me and my household
AgricultureRe: Dwarf And Hybrid Coconut Seedlings For Affordable Price by braindee(m): 1:25pm On Aug 27, 2024
Where is your location and species of the seedlings?
BusinessRe: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by braindee(m): 9:36am On Aug 08, 2024
$400 PayPal fnf from balance available. Come with your rate on WhatsApp. Thank you.
AgricultureRe: Guess The Rate This 427kg big Pig Was Sold Today And Get 5k Reward by braindee(m): 11:02pm On Jul 15, 2024
Are you in Lagos
BusinessRe: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by braindee(m): 1:29pm On May 01, 2024
Come WhatsApp
alterego17:
I need Uk account to receive payment n i only need a verified seller here dat is certified by both WESE n braindee to work with...send me a PM if you can receive UK GBP payments
BusinessRe: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by braindee(m): 1:41pm On Apr 24, 2024
$2000 PayPal fnf from balance needed at N1100/$. Come WhatsApp with what you have now. Thanks.
BusinessRe: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by braindee(m): 6:51am On Apr 19, 2024
PayPal fnf from balance needed at good rate. Come DM. Thank you.

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