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i will gradually ![]() ireneony: |
did i tell you i dont know my status and hers too before i started dating her?we go checkup everything month,because i have got a medical insurance .i asked for advice not silly and irrelevant comments from people like you . ireneony: |
hello everyone,please i need advice on this i am dating a south african lady for 8 months now and we work in the same firm. she says she loves me but the problem is : i dont know if she really do love me or she just want a husband she can call her own,people around me especially our co workers always tag her arrogant,they hate me dating her.but she is never like that to me,she is always submissive and caring,although i do sense those arrogance traits from the way she receives calls of people that call her at odd hours,maybe when she is already asleep . she is 4 years older than me and she has got 2 kids already.another thing i am tired of is the attitude of her always going to social media like facebook to voice her sadness if we had any misunderstanding because she knows i will always check on her timeline,and she always gets sad over little issues like when i drove her home one sunday after church and went to my home too,she was bitter and said if i really do love her ,i will take her to my house,when i remembered vividly i asked if she wants to go with me but she refused and said she wanna cook. my friends always tell me,i can get a very young and fresh nigerian girl that has got no baby at home if i want to settle down and they will always love and respect me as the head o the house. i am worried about the law of this country also that gives more right to women,you wife can tell you that its your time for you to make breakfast for the family,which is really scary to me. she mentions those equal rights to me jokingly but i always shut her up,like asking me to make her breakfast i can live this kind of human right life as a boyfriend but i am really worried and not ready to live it forever as a husband with someone i call my wife |
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, all these s.a hate nigerians with passion, just becos u are a working class man and comfortable person, she choose to tie u down??
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