Hi all, i ave a problem which im askin for u guys opinion. Thanks in advance.

When i was 16yrs of age stil bck in nigeria, i was datin a guy A from delta state n im a yorube bt dat wasnt a problem. A year later, i left for UK and me n dis guy lost communication which made our relationship to end. Few years in UK, i moved on n found anoda guy B, dis guy B im talkin about treat me d way ladies should be treated, he doesnt mind helping around d house, cleans afta d house, most times cook while he wil ask me to relax, calls me several times a day n wen arguement occurs, he's always d one to say sorry. Im 100% sure dis guy luvs me deep dwn bt on my side, d feelins is not d same as i dont luv him as he luvs me. Ive tried several times to break d relationship but he neva agrees wit me, it's either he threatens to hurt himsef or strt sheddin tears, pls don't fink i wana hurt him no, but bcoz obviously im nt happy coz i dont luv him n also its not fair on him if d luv is one sided, we ave been in dis relationship goin to 3yrs nw, i knw u ppl wil ask me y i left it so long, wel ive always tried to put an end to d relationship but he wil go to so much effort to find or trace me out, either by goin to my parents house to look for me or ask for my newly changed numbers.

I'm nw 23 yrs of age, n jus of recent me n guy A dat i was datin wen i was in nigeria connected again thru facebook n we started talkin on a normal level bt as time goe on, dis guy A strt talkin bwt our past relationship dat he stil ave feelins for me n on my part dis guy A was my first love n d first guy i wld eva dated. If i was asked to choose btw dis 2 guys, i wld choose guy A mainly bcoz i used to luv him bck in nigeria bt so many years ave gone, n i duno wot dis guy in nigeria has been upto all dis years and at d same time, would dis guy A in nigeria b able to make me happy n do all wot i want jus like how guy B does for me? I DON'T KNOW. N my biggest fear is i dont wana make d biggest mistake by leavin d guy B for my old luv guy A bt d problem is im not happy in term of feelins for guy A.

I could easily forget both of them and find anoda guy, bt der is anoda guy C in picture, my old sch mate bck in nigeria, bt d thing here is, d guy C didnt ask me out wen i was in nigeria, bt only asked me out wen i came to uk, now im confused coz i duno d guy C's intentions.

On top of everyfin, i don't wana make a mistake, is it possible for me to stay wit guy B dat i knw his whereabout in uk n dat ive lived wit in d same house n hopefully my feelins wil grow wit time or i shld jus try harder to break d relationship? also can 3 guys claims to luv 1 girl? i believe each human beings has a destined partner so in my case can 3 guys claim to luv me, is it possible?

Please ur advice is needed as im nt gettin younger nemore.