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Bendeco02:
The Op is Correct

I have a girl that still visits me without getting money in return. She comes for sex when she's in the mood. Therefore without that sex she won't visit me because she don't gain any other thing from me.

If you're not rich, a girl can only be managing you if you're good in bed and that's still a benefit to her but know that she still have other guys she flirts with for financial benefits, she can't be loyal to only you if you're not financially stable.

Those of you arguing and attacking the Op are not sincere to yourselves. Even if you're attractive without financial benefit to offer a lady, she won't stay with you for long. With time she will see you finish and that your handsomness won't attract her anymore

Majority of the people who disapprove this message are either under 30 or are living in denial. The message is actually broad in its term. Meaning 30 years of age is an ideal stage people usually begin to get intentional with every contact they make. Including what relationship they're getting into.

JovialJune:
And this one will claim to be educated, a big adult that is supposed to have a mature intelligent brain that functions well, imagine what it came up with, a falsehood that sounds ridiculous to a sane human.

Why are you sounding as though you are pained. Attack the message not the messenger. You may not like it but that's the truth. You may not believe if you're under 30, so wait until you climb the 3rd floor, we can have this conversation again.

BTW, do you know why beautiful unattractive saggy ladies always want to focus on building their career rather than settling down before 30? That's because they seem more attractive when they have a thriving career than when they don't.

You may not like it but that's a fact you have to live with.

ibechris:
At 40 I am still loving my wife more than any woman on earth.

What would u call that?

You are loving her because she's your wife. She's invested in your future DNA. Not because you have feelings for her.

The moment you reach age 30, no woman can love you...And if you're a lady, no man can love you. You can only be needed. Surprised??

There's completely nothing attractive and emotional that will spur anyone in their right mind to fall in love with you at age 30 and above, you can only be needed for what you can offer as benefits for the romantic relationship. Once the benefits are pleasing then I work on it backwards to try find a way to make you feel loved.

If you are young, probably you have a shot on finding Love because you're definitely interesting, beautiful or sexy and the opposite sex can focus on nothing much except yourself to love you.

Once you clock closer to 30, forget about being loved. You can only be needed and if you're realistic in life, you'd be happy designing what you'll offer to interest the opposite sex to need you badly, and boom, that's the type of "Love" you'd be sure to get...

Note: This message is only dedicated to people who are on the third floor and above. As for the young, you can keep waiting on love you might be the first one to get loved without being needed.

Immediately when I realized I can't ask a lady out if I don't have money.

I love this kind of question because it helps us to highlight the rich and diverse nature of Islamic jurisprudence, which seeks to apply divine law to the complexities of human life.

However, there's an overwhelming majority of Islamic scholars who consider masturbation to be haram, while there is a historical and conditional permissibility in some schools of thought, particularly when it serves as a means to prevent a greater sin.

So you follow your mind.

I can't imagine people telling others exactly how to spend their own hard earned money as if they are the one making the money for them.

It means you are performing very well as a good husband and for that you she wants to do everything possible to make sure she keeps you.

Good move by Deputy Speaker Kalu! Listening to the people and taking feedback seriously on the Indigeneship Bill shows real leadership. Let's hope this leads to a more inclusive and practical approach for all Nigerians. #NationalUnity"

GLO should go public! Private money alone may not give it the full scale resource to fund their expansion and nationwide appeal it deserves to gain public acceptance. You don't just list a company simply to raise money but for also marketing and brand acceptance purposes.

Rrchrd:
I know the country isn't for the fainted heart but...
1) I'll never kill
2) I'll never date a married woman
3) I'll never steal
4) I'll never smoke
5) I'll never bow for any god.

What did you defined as god?


Do you mean God?

Softmirror:
Buhari's lust for power is unquestionable. He doesn't lust for material things.

A terrible stuff

FitCorper:
Education is still the key to success, if you were exposed to wealthy uneducated men or school dropouts, you will see most elderly people regretted not going to school, cos school is like an insurance for the future. With the way Tinubu is positioning Nigeria again the future will be great for all graduates. Naira will become equal to dollar one day no matter how long it takes. Just continue surviving and persevering, there is hope for every graduate.



The CANA loud. 😂😂😂

@the last part: You need to stop this thing you are smoking! Not good for you.

Truvelisback:
I asked because it is really disheartening. After spending lots of money in tertiary schools, one still ended up struggling financially and to get a well paying job. This sometimes makes one look like an illiterate to some folks.

Yes, education is still the key to success but it's your willpower and personal initiative that can make you profoundly successful. Without formal education, you may not have been able to articulate this your points here, talked to the kind of people you do now, have the kind of contacts and leadership and management skills you have today.

Yes education is still the key to success but you have to look beyond success from the prism of financial success alone. Think of Relationship, Confidence, Courage, Self awareness, etcetera!!! These are part of the things you acquire when you are educated.

You can't eat your cake and have it. Tinubu government have destroyed Nigeria economy. Even if they like, let them rebase Nigeria GDP x1000, it won't undo the calamity he unleashed on Nigeria on May 29th 2025!

Burob:
destroyed it how, is it because of Tinubu that u have not been able to add value to your existence.

U that cannot help yourself, is waiting for Tinubu to come & rescue u?

What have u contributed to the economy?

Ok on a normal day, I don't waste my time arguing with tribal biggots like yourself, who even in the face of severe hunger, pains and deprivations, you will still rather prefer to defend your incompetent kleptomanic confused Yooruba grandfather called Tinubulation, than to call a spade a spade.

I can't help myself? No Sir, I'm not hungry. I'm an entrepreneur and I'm in business. I create businesses and hire people to run them. I pay salaries to my employees, I pay taxes to the government, my businesses enhance and rublicates other value chain that keeps people in business and employments. I understand economics and its ripple effects when someone with zero knowledge it mounts the position of leadership.

Majority of these values were destroyed simply because of your government policy. People lost their Jobs and by extension caused frictions in homes, your government lost the taxes we are paying into their covers inadvertently denying the public of their goods...

Look, you can defend him however you want, but you can't run away from the crisis that have befallen Nigeria. The policies are not working and there's no pretence about that. So stop foo*ling yourself here thinking you are being smart by half and accept the fact that Tinubu is the most unpopular president since the 4th Republic!

You can't eat your cake and have it. Tinubu government have destroyed Nigeria economy. Even if they like, let them rebase Nigeria GDP x1000, it won't undo the calamity he unleashed on Nigeria on May 29th 2025!

In an interview granted by Peter Obi 10 years ago during the eve of 2015 General Election that saw Buhari elected as President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, Peter Obi question the institution (APC coalition) backing Mohammadu Buhari.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mJ0lQs1_dA4?si=IlOcpgRkXQBbJrBY

Brendaniel:
Please don't compare anyone with Jesus.

Who should we compare him to; Moses

You fanatics never fail to disappoints.

Forever in our hearts 💕💕💕

Best president Nigeria ever had

ogelekpomgam:
My brother,a change of mindset and new reasoning is what will actually birth a New Nigeria.Its not grab it by all means.You said it all.
A new Nigeria is possible.

Absolutely! Totally agree 👍👍👍

PulaPower:
There’s nothing like heaven..

It’s all figment of imagination..

I also share the same view with you. As far as am concerned, the concepts of heaven and hell are figurative. We experience both here on earth. In a dark world where evil prevails, the message of those who brought about religion of today are considered Heavenly and the rejection of it is also considered Hell in those days. This idea of growing wings and flying about the sky is ludicrous and also an insult to our collective intelligence.

SeraphicWind:
You are about running mad!

Stop comparing Obi with his creator.

Jesus is far remarkable than the universe itself!

The good thing is that Peter Obi worships Jesus.

Thanks be to God Almighty!

His creator? So Jesus is now the creator not God? Ok. Continue.

If "Obidient" becomes a religion, in 10, 20years time, it will rival and outgrow many religions of this world of under 100yrs standing. Even Jesus himself wasn't this widely remarkable in his life time.


Modified: For all those of you quoting my comment and capping noooonsense, how else do you think every other religion started? (Most especially all the Abrahamic Religions)

Someone taught of himself to possess unequal and unusual remarkable abilities, living life different from what is obtainable within the society, be in good standing with many people, etc...

Usually, years later, the people who are touched my their way of living, messages and lifestyles would want to continue the pattern because they consider it noble and would favor the masses, built better socities, they will then write book about him, organize weekly meetings to discuss it, and going forward tie the concept and ideology to the name of God.

Boom, that's how religion is born.

The popularity of the religion will now be dependent on the marketing skills of the promoters. Ideally, it's usually when the figure head is long dead that their impacts will grow very loud.

PS: The ruling classes are never ever in support of these kind of people as they always perceived them as theat to their corrupt government. If you know the underlying stories of most leading religions on earth, you will find out that their trajectory is not different from this pattern.

@Peter Gregory Obi

My weekend activity of serving food at a special event has been generating interest, as expectedly, because leaders in our society have removed the service component in leadership.

It's sounding strange that I was seen serving food to people. Let me be clear, that event was not about me. It was called the Jubilee of Hope, and its purpose is straightforward, to remind us all that true leadership is service, and that those who have must never forget those who do not.

When I attended the Jubilee of Hope in Imo State, it was a private service event. I did not post about it, nor did I invite media coverage. Unfortunately, some third parties, completely outside of my team, shared photos and videos. As expected, the usual naysayers and paid agents went to work trying to twist something sincere into something political.

But let me restate the heart of the matter, the Jubilee of Hope is designed for the rich to come down from their high places, even if just for a moment, and serve the poor, not as a show, but as a symbol of the society we must build. A society anchored on empathy, equity, and responsibility.

I was not the only one who served that day. Many well-meaning and distinguished Nigerians also participated, people like Cardinal Onaiyekan, Senator Osita Izunaso, former Chairman of Seplat Plc, Dr. A.B.C. Orjiako, and many others, quietly and sincerely. It wasn’t about the cameras; it was about conscience.

I am genuinely surprised that this simple act has become a topic of discussion. As Governor, I always served others whenever we had events. Even now, in private life, I do not have a house help. When guests visit my home, I serve them myself. I live simply, I sweep, I clean, because for me, humility is not a campaign strategy; it is a way of life.

At the Jubilee of Hope, I stayed longer because many of the poor attendees requested that I serve them personally. I could not ignore them. That was the only reason. Otherwise, there was nothing special about what I did. Service is not special, it is expected.

We cannot speak of building a New Nigeria while ignoring the hungry, the forgotten, and the poor. Events like this must not remain symbolic, they must become cultural. Public office holders, business leaders, and everyday citizens must unite in lifting others.

Let us work together to build a country where hope is not seasonal, and dignity is not a privilege, but a right.

A New Nigeria is POssible.

- PO

https://www.facebook.com/share/p/16rinjcVCy/

asfrank:
If they and what happens when they don't? Shey coalition has been formed, let's see how it plays out.
You think Obi got votes because he was loved, dude played religion and got majority of Christian vote. that's what gave him the 6 million votes, and propaganda that Tinubu was sick and too old to rule, those tricks are gone now. Have you heard anyone use those lines again.
I am going to quote you after the convention, when Atiku picks the ticket.

You are still learning politics. You may need to sign up for POL101 to brush up your understanding of the Nigerian political dynamics. Things don't work that way.

Nukilia:
I imagine the kind of flogging APC will chop come 2027. The kind shame wey go catch you as an APC guy will be too much to cope with.

To the APC miscreants,*collect your money now make dem no give you plantain chips chop*

How Nigeria's economy deteriorated to this level under the leadership of drug addicts and corrupt souls must be studied for the next 50 years.

Its sad how our Professors under the INEC strata were also co-opted to work in support of the ruling party at the detriment of sane citizens.

Winning the election in 2027 by ADC is important, but investigating the role played by the various arms (Esp. Judiciary) of government must be well documented and the culprits must be locked up for a very long time...

Winning the election in 2027 by ADC is important, but investigating the role played by the various arms (Esp. Judiciary) of government must be well documented and the culprits must be locked up for a very long time...

asfrank:
And who is bode Gorge in the coalition? PDP did the same thing in 2023 and the beneficiary of that arrangement is heading the current opposition. So what fact are you talking about again.
You think Atiku is wasting his energy, and time just to handover the ticket to a southerner? Dude literally formed the coalition single handedly. Age is not on his side, by 2031 he woulsd be 86 years, for someone who has been contesting for president since 1993, it becomes a routine. He's going to pick Ameachi, not even Obi as his running mate.

You are living in your head. Try and read the room to draw the inference. The Northern elements have unfettered opportunity to rule the country between 2031 to 2039 if they support the gentleman agree of 4yrs term of Peter Obi. Why truncate it with Atiku's ambition?

Otilo ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

asfrank:
You clearly don't know anything, there's a reason they chose David Mark from the North Central as chairman. Meaning the ticket is open to the core North.
Atiku would let Nigeria burn if only he can be president of the ashes, so does everyone in this coalition.

Your opinion is based on permutation not fact. Go and figure what BODE GEORGE said about Zoning recently