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Righteousness89:
Brother! The prayer you need now is Prayer of Repentance and Mercy!

You can't be in immorality and be calling on God. They don't go together in any way or format!

Sex is Deep! You have a part of her life in you and vice versa.

When you open the door to sin you should expect anything!

There is room to Make Amends which is what is important!

You need to Cry to JESUS Christ FOR MERCY! Repent and ask GOD to forgive you.

thats the prayer you need now

Thank you so much

MejiLoyon:
Dear brother

Jo soapy in peace
It will disappear

Okay thanks

vikkimimi:
The sex dreams you have aren't as spiritual as you paint them.... actually the thought of you wanting her and missing her makes you to have these dreams.
You going to bed with such thoughts and cravings make you have the dream of what you crave for...this is more psychological than spiritual please

Thank you so much

ModestGal:
Only a Mumu would be affiliating a natural occurrence, backed by science to a spiritual stupidity. You can't even help yourself with google, and here crying where there's nothing to cry about.
What do you want us to tell you?
''Go and appease the gods so you can stop seeing your gf in dreams'', ode

You make me to wonder if whites are actually smarter than blacks

Thanks for your contribution.

Good morning to you all. Am a regular here even though I don't comment but I read what I could on this platform. I am seriously in need of help from any angle on what I can do to solve this big problem am facing.

There is this lady have been dating for the past 7years now and due to this long relationship I made my intention known to her so she won't bother about marriage and also finding the right guy again. Now I do have sex with this girl in my dreams whenever I miss her or rather whenever we both miss ourselves,this has never happened to me before. Actually I have been faithful to her and she knows am not cheating and she isn't cheating also to my knowledge, but the continuous sex in dream with her is giving me depression. A Month before lockdown we didn't have anything and since lockdown started we haven't had any chance to meet she resides in Delta while I reside in Lagos.
I thought of leaving her if that would solve the problem but as a man from where I went to for prayers if she would be a good wife and maybe we are compatible I was told she's good and I shouldn't say I want to leave her now and also I have lost interest in having sex with any lady I just found her as the best I want.

Before I use have sex with her in dream like Ones a month or 3weeks if we didn't meet now it is now Every week.

please help my life I have prayed and I am not seeing anything positive yet. And she's the one I do see clearly in my dreams. Am just afraid.

please help me on what I can do and I don't want to masturbate maybe to relieve myself before I sleep due to stories I do read on this platform of people seeking help to cure it and that would be another problem and having sex in dreams usually cause infertility in man's sperm and spiritually means Lost of good things also.



Help me help me!!!! Please help me need advice .

ModestGal:
You are a Mumu, nothing else to say to you.

why do you say that please? I just need you to be candid about this

ModestGal:
You are a Mumu, nothing else to say to you.

why do you say that please? I just need you to be candid about this

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MrWTF:
Do you believe yourself? Talk true.

Yes

2dice01:
How is your Girlfriend?

Lemme guess below 20years

22years and I am 25

MariaLavina:
Well according to Guys: A male and a female can not be platonic friends. Sorry your girlfriend is just following what she hears on street.





BTW you sound like your destiny is tied to hers?

To be sincere. The female friend and I are just friends and nothing more btw my destiny is not hehehehehehe

MrWTF:
Sir, Do you prefer the one who Doesn't care if you knacking numerous girls on a daily basis?

No,sir but at least there should be a clear difference between her jealousness and not being secured.
She knows I dont like playing two games like that I prefer turn by turn sir.

Budex40:
She's working on controlling you. Its called control by isolation

It has gotten to extent that I always feel she's by my side if am talking to a female maybe just greetings or gisting.

carter009:
LoL, see wahala...... is either you break up with her or allow her to control you...

I love her but she is just making things tough this days. I remembered one time she said whenever I receives female friends call that I talk to them laughing that I don't laugh if m on phone calls with her

Fountainofyouth:
You know what, put yourself in her shoes, imagine she's the one having a walk mate aka friend that they both go to work together, that she calls and all, imagine that and search to imagine how you think you'll react to it, that should determine your decision.

She has a walk mate but she is telling me that she doesn't place much priority on the guys. She complains that I don't gist with her much if we walking down to work and at times she deletes every picture of females on my phone usually the ones whatsapp saved whereas she is having pictures of male friends on her phone many of this thing's she's doing.

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