₦airaland Forum

tuborme:
My major problem with this government is that they think everything is politics. They don’t see beyond politics. They behave like badly raised children who lack all atoms of basic morality. Why not channel same energy to improve the security situation. Why make efforts to defend the obvious?

Their greed has blinded their sight, that's why

Kobojunkie:
Make google your friend.

You made a claim, it is your responsibility to support it.

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[quote author=Kobojunkie post=137226307]. Very many, actually! Enough for people to realize that it isn't simply about being raised in a single home that one would think to resort to violence.

2. That is not entirely the whole picture since crimes committed by folks in two-family homes are equally high[color=#000099][/color]. Research has revealed that it is kids from damaged backgrounds — whether single-parent or two-parent households — that commit the most crimes.

3. That's a myth at this point since study after study has revealed that it is not being raised in a single-family home or two-family home that makes one commit crimes, but rather it is being raised in a bad environment/toxic family situation that does. :-\

Let's get ourselves educated so we can stop perpetrating lies begining today.

The bolded, bring your evidence for the one in colour

Kobojunkie:
This is false logic that has been proven, time and time again, to be wrong! It does not take a father to raise or tame a man. Rather, it takes a responsible, emotionally stable, and socially intelligent being — man or woman — to raise a responsible adult, whether female or male.

Time and time again, we have seen so many men raised by single mothers turn out to be decent examples of men in society. It is time we dead this old narrative that has only seen so many boys being destroyed by toxic/immature men who are their fathers.

2. Women can bring up both decent sons and girls all by themselves if and only if the women themselves are not of the toxic/manipulative and immature type. Again, there are enough examples of successful men and women who were raised by single mothers or in single-parent families for all to take a cue from.

3. Are those looking for wife material themselves capable husband materials or predators looking for perfect prey?

How many of those children raised by single mums turn out to be responsible human beings?
Do you know that in USA, more crimes are committed by children raised by single moms?
You are free to research it

Children raised by two parents are likely to be more responsible than those raised by single parents
I agree with you that a responsible woman can train a child alone. For example, Ben Carson was a product of single motherhood

Fountainofyouth:
Mothers focus more on training their daughters in preparation for adulthood and marriage but excuse nonsense behaviour from their sons, that's why we have so many deranged, pedophilic, sexual defiant men roaming the earth today creating havoc and messed up society at their wake, look at Nigeria, messed up by both young and old men,

God help the next generation.

There is a lot of sense in what you said. The reason for this harsh reality is that those men you mentioned lack responsible father figures. It takes a man to tame a man. Men, by default, are stubborn. So a it is not woman's job to train them alone.
However, I don't quite agree with your opinion that women really bring up their daughters well nowadays. If it is true, how come the rate of hook up is skyrocketing . How come we have a lot of underage girls twerking and showing their unclothedness on tictok and Instagram for likes and money.
To find a wife material nowadays is almost next to impossible.