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StillDtruth:
You are wasting your time trying validate yourself from that guy. He made himself minister of women affairs and is blindly biased on it exactly how he is on all subjects

To your case, the truth you know is that there is a pregnancy problem between you and your wife. Either 1 or both of you have a problem.

It is not normal that you you dump your boys into her and yet no pregnancy at all

I pray God takes absolute control

May it not be well with luggard

Kobojunkie:
I hope she learns to love herself before that day so she knows to put herself first, realizing that she and that baby(whenever she decides to have one) will ultimately not be happy if she loses her career and/or progress in the process. 🥱🥱🥱

2. You calling yourself her backbone while blatantly trying each time to get her pregnant to destroy her career is what is a big deal.

Your se second point is not valid, cos if I had wanted her to have a baby soonest is for Me to bribe her superiors in her office but wanted due process.. my fear hence this tread to know if it's natural or something wrong with me hence I can go n seek medical help so that once the proper time reaches I won't be firing blank. That's my point, I never intended ending her career

Kobojunkie:
You literally knowing a baby will jeopardize your wife's career yet choosing to go raw with her while sure she is not on birth control is all my brain... Yeah, I get it! 🥱🥱

If it had been your career on the line here, this story would have been totally different, but since it is the woman's career...you see no problem in bringing an end to it as soon as possible. After all it matters for little to nothing to you, Mr. Backbone. 🥱🥱

She will definitely give birth one day . So what's the big deal, every problem has a solution

Kobojunkie:
Backbone trying to get her pregnant all while knowing she shouldn't for her career's sake. Sounds more like you hate that woman so much and are looking to bringing a complete list and to her career in the para military as soon as you can. 🥱🥱🥱

You remind me of the story posted not long ago of a pastor who revealed to his congregation how he used marriage and pregnancy to literally destroy his wife's dream at becoming a doctor in the abroad; this wicked man who presents himself as a pastor said he instead was he backbone because he allowed her get an online master's degree in microbiology instead, all while studying from their room somewhere in ogun state or so. 🥱🥱🥱

Just imagine being married to your literal worst enemy, abeg! 🥱🥱

Have heard you, am wicked n selfish thank you . Sorry to say it's like your brain works anticlockwise. See the way you just turn the narrative

Kobojunkie:
I hope she is because she is clearly married to a man who cares nothing for her joy and happiness in life. Or else she is likely to regret ever marrying this man at some point in her future.... hopefully not after losing her career and hardwork 🥱🥱🥱

Have been her backbone right from day one infact I sponsored her education, trade as well before marriage.her dad is late so the idea of she marrying who doesn't care about her or her career is not even an option.
My fear is when the time finally comes to have a child I won't be hearing all these firing blank

Kobojunkie:
Water to wash? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Dude, chances are high that you have simply been shooting blanks all of this time, Your wife probably knows this and does not seem to mind. 🥱🥱🥱

I do hope that woman is in fact as smart as I think and has been using birth control of at least some other contraception to keep herself from getting impregnated by a man who does not seem to dsee much about her career and reputation. 🥱🥱🥱

She's not into any birth control pills.. infact she hate pills

Kaczynski:
I see nothing wrong with she is doing, having a child merse a lot of thing especially for woman thinking of advancing in her career.


Can you really afford to have a child or are you just doing it out of societal pressure and selfish reasons.



Have you sat down with her and talked about this

You don't seem to get my point..
Have seen couples who are into family planning atimes accidentally get pregnant.
I perfectly understand the situation am in cos of her work and am ready to wait till her time to have a child reaches, but my issue here is all these while we've been doing it (xx) with no proper protection except washing the semen after every act. At least along the line I was even hoping to here something like ha baby it's like I ve missed my period o.. we were not careful the last time or I didn't wash properly or the pre cum went in before I washed ( you understand me now) , But nothing. My concern now is it that have been shooting blank all these while or is it that she do washes every drop of the semen that enters.

Drsnives:
Nothing is wrong with you bro.. once you guys are ready trust me baby Will come by God's grace

Amen

Happy new year nairalanders,
This is my second account I want to hide my identity a little.
I have an issue bothering me recently, I got married early 2025 and my wife who happens to work with one of these para military unit can't give birth now till after a particular time, since then we ve been playing it safe. She usually uses water to wash off every time we have x ( I usually go raw n I realease inside)
My question here is for almost a year we ve been using same method but for not for once has she missed her period. Is it that yes she usually washes every drop of the semen that have made her not to miss her period or something is wrong somewhere.
Why am asking is have heard cases of people even with withdrawal method some ladies still gets pregnant or in some cases where they wore Condom the semen still finds its way into the lady's thing and gets her pregnant..
I hope you guys are getting the point am trying to make?
Note: she's fertile cos the first few months of our dating she actually missed her period once.
So please friends englighten me cos she called my attention to this particular issue last night because our resolve then was if pregnancy enters we will keep it anything Weh win happen for her working place should happen.
Pls mod move it to front page please or anyone should help me tag them

adecz:
Give am Viagra or buratashi & na
you go run..

No dare mention my name again

Drsnives:
Buratashi come oo, you are needed here. But wait oo, omo action bitter dea work wonders too plus say e dea medicinal too

who's disturbing my slip at this ungodly hour?