₦airaland Forum

ekitimanalways:
In most cases a printed document... It contains your application details, enrolment number, photo, etc.

ekitimanalways:
Confirmation slip only.

Nigerianmigrant:
Find a way to reach out to remitta, do you have the RRR number ?

sauuron:
Everybody's profile is being updated. Probably because of new rules. Mine was updated on the 28th of October.

Liispa:
Meeting the MEC just means you are eligible for the FSW program. Draws are based on CRS score and yours is not high enough to get an ITA based on current score trend.

For the SINP I'm assuming you created an EOI on their website, although you may not have received an invitation maybe due to your NOC not targeted or you did not meet other requirements (sometimes they have additional requirements for certain scores like length of work experience)

Also, do check that your SINP has not exceeded one year. Hope this helps

MissMa01:
I don’t know much about PNP but you need to present the facts clearly .
- Your CRS is 450 as at 29th October 2020
- You are expecting ITA from SINP?
Did you apply specifically on their website (I think it is called EOI) and receive nomination thereby taking your scores up to 1000 +?
If yes, the draw on 28th October didn’t happen so no one has received an ITA yet.

PanicButton:
Lol. It's still not that deep bro. Let's not end anybody. Everyone can't be on the same wavelength. That is the beauty of being humans; everyone and their idiosyncrasies. Learn to stomach things, and ignore as well. Those that want to help won't relent. So, pay attention to them rather than everyone on here. Cheers

Gforce2015:
If the devil wants to deal with someone, he will first separate him or her from where he has a spiritual covering....
so, after they have left RCCG to go and start their own church because they have the money to do so, see what the devil has done.
I know some people may want to spiritualize untimely death but I didn't see where untimely death is written in the Bible.
Like pastor Bimbo Odukoya, this will have a lot of adverse effect on Pastor Ituah Ighodalo ministries, because someone will say, you that can't pray to protect your wife from untimely death, how are mine sure you will pray to protect me from sickness or disease attack.....

KingSatan:
As a man, a father and a grandfather. I have lived life to an extent and this is my view on this subject.

The previous thread was simple and concise, "Never marry a woman who has no means of income".

But that is the truth!

Gone are the days when people marry "Obiageri's" according to the Igbos.
Back then, things weren't this bad. Considering the family setting in those days, women had no other role than to cook, birth, raise children and clean the house.

So their parents prepare them for marriage, teach them how to cook, satisfy a man and raise children. They also spend alot of time grooming their hairs, taking care of their skin (Some parents send their children to fattening rooms) and waiting to get married.

When we got married, we married to keep them at home and show off to our friends. Only a few of us married because of love. Some of our partners were not our choice but our parents.

So when you marry, your wife and children should always reflect your wealth and networth. Most especially, YOUR WIFE.

I repeat, back then things were not this bad and everyone knew their roles.

But in today's world, so many things have changed.

Women should bring to the table as much as they expect from the man.

Raising children costs alot of money and shouldn't be the responsibility of the man alone.

So many marriages have crashed on the alter of poverty or "One stream of income".

We must learn to tell ourselves the truth always.

Back then, you don't spend so much to raise a child. If he or she wants to go to the community school or follow the white man's way of life, you send them as a punishment. But those humble and loyal sons, follow you to the farm and when they come of age, you give them farmlands and wives if possible. But that's not the case anymore.

Apart from formal education abroad, I also encouraged my children to learn sellable skills. One of my son is a fashion designer and that is what puts food on his table in the UK. His college degree only reflects on his call cards.

I told this to my children (Daughters inclusive) never to marry a man or woman who has no verifiable means of income.

Money is needed to run a home in the 21st century. Alot of money!

We no longer live in mud houses or drink from pots.

As for "Entitlement", I think every couple should have that mentality depending on the context.

The man is entitled to his wife's emotional commitment. She is his wife and this also applies to the man.

I am tired of typing.

To be truthful, i warned my son's against mingling with an average African woman. They simply don't want to know the truth. They hate the truth with Passion and that is why true feminism failed woefully here.

In the Diaspora, most men who want peace of mind avoid African women because of their "Entitlement Mentality" and how exploitative they are.

Many of these women don't work but enjoy proceeds of child support from numerous partners. You think it's a coincidence? No it not. It was deliberate.

They just want to seat at home, get fat, enlarge their butts and walk up and down the street like a pussy cat that resides in Buckingham Palace.

Should I talk about Nigeria, where you meet an average Nigerian lady and realise that;

1. She is a college graduate because a "Man" sponsored her in school (Both of them are no longer together as a couple).

2. She has a roof over her head because a "Man" made that available (She has no intention of marrying him).

3. She uses the best smartphone because a "Man" bought it for her (Just another random man).

4. She has clothes on her body because a "Man" gave her money for shopping (Obviously he is "One of those mugus".

5. She has food on her table because so many men send her money.

This same woman has no other skill but sexual skills. The only thing she can offer is "Sexual Intercourse", "Birthing Children" and "Companionship" but she expects the man to "Mark her birthdays with a brand new Escalade", "Buy her parents a new house and train her younger ones in school". Is that not exploitation?

This same woman hates her mother inlaw because she sees her as her rival. Anyway, women have always hated themselves from time immemorial, don't get moved when you see them shout in solidarity, it's just for a few seconds.

When asked about their contribution in the relationship or Marriage, some will say "I birthed children for him". But that's your natural default woman!

Even if you sleep with a sexually active mad man, you will get pregnant and birth for him.

Some will even say, "I satisfy him sexually. I gave him my body and soul". But that is same thing you did with your numerous ex lovers.

According to Pastor Sam Adeyemi, he said "If a woman does not help her husband financially, then how else does she want to help him".

In this age and time, it takes two adults who have a verifiable means of income to build a healthy family.


Cheers!

pacespot:
No money no love with Nigerian women. Gender equality advocates should read this. It's unfortunate men are becoming emasculated these days with all this feminism brouhaha.

But this thing called marriage, how real is it for those that are married?