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I AM AN ALIEN , someone help!!!

I am 28yrs old and matured. The problem is that since I was born I only saw my Dad once whom is now late. The issue is that no one has neither sat me down to tell me who is my Dad nor where he came from. Though, I reluctantly thought this issue won’t affect me until I met my dreamlover, (kind of man any woman would wish for herself) and he raised this point and how important my origin could be.
I grew up with my grandparents, I never enjoyed the love and care of a real mother because I was separated from her the moment I sensed sunlight. But thanks to GOD, also my Grandparents that raised and made me who I am today.(May their souls rest in peace)
I have come of age and what i thought wont haunt me is right before me as my lover wants to know my origin, cos I never bothered to ask my people. My aunty once showed me my stepsisters in a picture. The worse part of the story is that my mum never discussed the issue with me neither does she show any remorse on it.
Please, Nairalanders kindly advise me on what to do, where do I start from , who will I ask because I don’t know my origin and no man or rather any parent will accept an alien . PLS, I NEED YOUR CANDID ADVISE ON THIS. God bless my well wishers. Thanks.

I hav checked out d web site, n i tlnk its nyc 4 those who need 2 stay focused in business. @jellyface how do we burn bridges and leave no alternative?