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When you decide to snoop around,you would always find something. That being said,you shouldn't rush into marriage because u feel you're getting old,it should be because you have found the right person.There re questions you need to answer, and maybe that will help you in deciding your next course of action.

1: what are her reasons of travelling?

2:since she habitually gets to over stay whenever she travels,what explanations does she give whenever she returns?

3:what is the current state of her family finances ( is she with you because you re rich and can help her family)?

4: Do you think/ believe she is cheating on you,because if you think/believe so then there is no need of still being with someone you don't trust ?

5: Is her family aware of the fact she always over stay the stipulated time she gives for her return,and what have they done about it.?

Sit her down and talk to her. If after the conversation you re not convinced,you would have to let her go. It will hurt real bad. But you will be fine in the end. All the best