Hello, and aslamu alaikum to any Muslims here.

So pretty much my hole life i have been having problems with jinn, actually I'm not quite sure what it is. Like the other night, i was trying to wake up from my sleep, but i couldn't, i couldn't move or breathe either, it was like something was pushing me down, holding my eyes shut. And things like this happen all the time. I remember when I was about 7 years old(first time this happened) i was falling asleep, and then i felt something like coming into me from my arms and my legs, it hurt so much, i couldnt move them either, and i just i don't know i guess sort of blanked out. When i wake up from that, i feel so tired, drained, and very thirsty. This happens now like every few weeks.
Sometimes i see strange things, like a black, tall, shadowish, well built figure, I've never been just staring at me, sometimes I'll be laying down, when its there. But I've noticed that this only happens when im alone. I got a kitten a few months ago, and sometimes he hisses, putts his ears back, and arches his back to nothing, and when I've been able to see the tall black figure with my kitten, he reacts the same, hissing etc.
not too long ago i had a dream that i was a baby, and there was fire all around me, there was no one alive in the fire, and then this tall black figure , told me that I'll be safe, and that i mustn't worry, he had a calm nice voice though. I feel like this black shadow figure is always following me..

Also in the past my family has had problems with i think jinn, in fact one of my uncles can see jinn all the time he says, he just doesn't like to talk about them. And some of my cousins have been possessed by jinn(or i dont know what they were possessed by) and after they have the jinn removed they all seem a little mental.
Im in my mid teens now, btw...

Please someone help me, tell me what this is. Why did i have that dream? Why is this happening? Does think have anything to do with my family, or my past? Please help... Anyone from any religion.

Thank you, i really look forward to any of your answers.