₦airaland Forum

Nnamdipapa:
Run for your life.

The purpose of marriage is for the two to combine assets and benefit from the effect synergy. Not for two liabilities to combine or an asset with a liability.

You will regret bitterly ten years down the lane. Keep her as a fwb or gf while you build yourself and evaluate other options.

datola:
The building is worth converting to national museum.

SoftSport:
Wow, this shows that no matter how rich someone is, what really matters is the good they do, Tinubu is different because he is not flashy and works hard to help the people.

Slimyoung1991:
Is there no remedy, am still young to have bald hair

Ilekokonit:
You made some true assertions above. 9 to 5 will eventually lead to poverty ANY where in the world especially now that AI can do most of the office jobs at a fraction of the time and cost. God help all of us.

E be like say na to open one small mama put / beer parlour sure pass now o 'cos at least your daily food and drink is guaranteed at low cost and IF your rent is paid in advance for a few years, then you have some peace of mind to brainstorm for additional business ideas.

This one wey office workers for Lagos are now using their luxury cars for kabu-kabu to augment their inflation battered salaries, EVERY one of us has to start thinking outside the box to survive in this our dear country that has no safety net to catch anyone unlucky to lose their jobs in this climate.
But for the safety net in places like the UK etc, we for being learners when it comes to armed robbery and other violent crimes like muggings when compared to the UK.

But even if Nigerians pay into a Tax and National Insurance Contributions pot to fund a social security safety net for the unemployed, it will end up being looted by the greedy heartless Nigerian politicians.

Ilekokonit:
You made some true assertions above. 9 to 5 will eventually lead to poverty ANY where in the world especially now that AI can do most of the office jobs at a fraction of the time and cost. God help all of us.

E be like say na to open one small mama put / beer parlour sure pass now o 'cos at least your daily food and drink is guaranteed at low cost and IF your rent is paid in advance for a few years, then you have some peace of mind to brainstorm for additional business ideas.

This one wey office workers for Lagos are now using their luxury cars for kabu-kabu to augment their inflation battered salaries, EVERY one of us has to start thinking outside the box to survive in this our dear country that has no safety net to catch anyone unlucky to lose their jobs in this climate.
Definitely true, you can already see that the student loan is already being looted by the universities and FG is doing nothing about it.
But for the safety net in places like the UK etc, we for being learners when it comes to armed robbery and other violent crimes like muggings when compared to the UK.

But even if Nigerians pay into a Tax and National Insurance Contributions pot to fund a social security safety net for the unemployed, it will end up being looted by the greedy heartless Nigerian politicians.

ChizzyBuna:
No wonder local media is against him🤣

Traore my Man decided to chase away Fulanis from his country.
And now he is made to look like an enemy.

Traore is a Nightmare to Fulanis
Continue giving them wotowoto

jayce232:
Life sha...one guy just posted above for marrying late & didn't marry early, here u are regretting it?

twosquare:
Hmmm...if your parents are good parents, listen to parental advice o...a time will come in marriage when you will need their support. And they will give it when they know their hand dey there. But if you do strong head, whatever you see in the marriage, na your own. Also, vet and vet well before you tie the knot and do consultations...marriage to the wrong partner can be hell. It is just meaningless now, just words, but please, don't experience it.

Onewazobia:
See your life

Vello:
Dont marry for love, marry for value. And, one of such value is a woman that will give you peace. Not one to scatter your relationship with your mother. You can only marry against your mother's wish if it's confirmed your mum hates you.

My experience was a very bitter one. Met her in the University and tried forcing my mother to accept her. She gave birth and showed her true colours. She even told my mother her mission was to replace me with her child. Thank God for mother's prayers and fasting, I survived her.
Women are very very spiritual. They know more than they let us know they know. No man knows one woman better than another woman.
Trust your mum's intuition. Deep secret and knowledge is only natural for women. Never ever marry against her consent otherwise you might be walking into everlasting bondage.

NB: I'm not sure I support allowing your mum choose a wife for you either. Keep searching till you find one she's happy about so you don't live the rest of your life from one prayer mountain to another.
Thank you boss

Love is a fluke. It is a trap

Vello:
Marrying a daughter of Jezebel because of pity.

Never marry who your mama no approve. Forget Nollywood nonsense

PROPEACE:
I Left Nigeria in my mid 20s, completed my MSc with a fully funded scholarship in UK, the son of poor naija civil servants o! Used my two legs to come back to Nigeria. My European girlfriend discouraged me from returning, she told me we should get married, I said no, I struggled for over a decade believing hardwork and merit in Nigeria will get me there. I was interviewed many times by several government agencies in Nigeria but never got the job, today I sit in my 40s licking my wounds. My naija friends that were friendly while I was there have vanished. Some have humiliated me before leaving when it seemed to them the tunnel I am in has no end to it. My biggest undoing in life is I believed too much in this country. Today, my peers that stayed back in UK are doing very well as citizens. I am trying very hard not to give up. Still strategizing. It's hard but deep down in me, I know I have learnt so much. Too much to not make it in the end. I pray for God to grant me long life.

HeatSeeker:
I totally agree with you. I live alone. Whenever I want to cook, I spend nothing less than 5k. But if I eat out, it's never more than 3k. I did the math and realized that I am better off eating out than cooking food for myself.

TopBanter:
Please speak about their like-for-like records as Governors if Nigerian States. Based on that alone, is Obi fit to wipe Akpabio's shoes? Simple Yes or no please.

Firebox123:
yes sure

Firebox123:
come to Egbin ijede ikorodu Lagos

350k for three bedroom flat

Don't argue with me Google can actually help to find out the truth

PlasmaTV:
He's a useless Governor. He set up a panel to probe the murder of cows, whereas his citizens are being slaughtered like chickens.

Feldie:
it has nothing to do with women. The people up there could as well be alligators. They have no idea what they are protesting. Woman leader told them to show up that they will be paid so they showed up. They have zero idea what is going on. The people up there are real life bots

Tightpussy2024:
All of you that supported Trump and want to japa,is God that will see you through.

Black guys have died because a white guy babe was hitting on them.

Have you worked into a club as an African woman and then because of your big blossom all guys want to buy you a drink ,even ones with girlfriends. Then the security comes and walks you out for "constituting a nuisance" or "public disturbance" just because people were leaving their partners to come dance with you?


If I didn't get married and thus have my citizenship,I will have returned back to Nigeria or a saner African country like Namibia or ivory coast.it was bloody out there .

Worse off for illegals . Someone that hates you for no reason will report you to the immigration for working extra hours...

rip to him

Artscollection:
Very unfortunate for tge young man if only our stupid rogue politicians are getting it right who would want to live outside his root and get expose to a whole lot of shit.

Kobojunkie:
Isn't that the same silly man who tells women that they can find men who would marry them in 2 minutes, pay for everything, and upgrade their lives while at it? Una never see wetin dey really do una. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Silentgroper:
Slot is new coach that wants to win trophy..

E no go work, maybe next year .. we don't know what could go wrong with EPL, CL and f.a ..

So he go wan use this one hold body first ..

wiseone28:
Which kpako club is that? 🙄

BadNews:
Hope You Read The News?

MarketDispatch:
How many times have they killed this Bello Turji..by now I think it is 4 out of 9 lives. 5 remaining