dingbang:
And what if the nigga is reading this shitt? And is laughing at the ideas.


Abeg you dont give power to the devil to continue hurting you. He knows your weakness and is using it against you

I'd rather not post my solution to get over him online here, if you are very serious, pm me privately

Done, I doubt he is, he ain’t a Nairaland fan

DANOSP:
Another angle

Your boyfriend is a working boy
Don’t ask me how I’m so sure
You disturb him with calls when he’s busy doing his thing
They hate that stuff, he’d prefer chatting cause he’s working at the same time
That’s why he only calls you towards the end of the day/night when he’s done with everything
So far, if that’s his only negative�This could be it

This is just another perspective

thats exactlybthe excuses he gives , that if hes chatting he does more than a thing at a time .

Dicktion:
You already into him so whatever I say here is irrelevant.

Give me a suggestion atleast. I seriously need it

Dicktion:
Have you asked yourself why he doesn't want you calling? And you really think he'd tell you he's married
For the last time I say leave him alone. Unless you Wan start like una dey start

how can I achieve that !! I hv done that b4 but I could stay two days without talking to him

Please guys what do u think

Swtbabyvee:
Focus ur energy on someone else

I have tried but I feel more drawn to talking to him. He’s like my perfect man and gives me the attention I want

Dicktion:
Madam leave the married man alone. Na so una dey start

really?? U feel he’s married too. But I hv no evidence he is , can I just react based on assumptions ,, what if he isnt

Please

More opinions will be appreciated

Stephenomozzy:


Then she knows her fear is confirmed. It will help her move on from the feeling she has for him. That is, if she's decent o.
Break up with Him.

Her confusion now is that "She doesn't know how to 'break' up with him when he has not really done anything to her". That is, she can't really point to any wrong doing or evidence of her suspicion

I will do that today

Help pleasee

Help please

Stephenomozzy:
Tell him how you feel.

When you said he doesn't like you calling him, is it that he sees your calls as a disturbance? Or he just wants to save your call card maybe because you guys have long phone calls (to some guys that's being romantic)....

About your fear of him being married, maybe you guys should meet in person and you confirm or refute your claims?

It may noy be fair to yourself to lose someone you like just because you have certain unconfirmed fears ( intuitions).

But if you don't want to do again, there's no highly polite way to break a persons heart... Just tell him.

we plan to see after this covid stuffs , he stays in Abuja and I stay in porthacort . Far distance, He said he wants to call me at his convenient time , and we don’t talk for long,, cause we chat regularly. Is like I don’t really know him but he gives me attention i want , so it’s hard letting go

Stephenomozzy:
Tell him how you feel.

I did that but he makes it a jovial thing , turns it to a joke , I don’t know why I don’t want to loose him, if not I would hv insulted him by now , I really like him. I want him to tell me the truth about what’s up and why can’t I call him , he says he doesn’t like calls .

If he tells me he’s married I would be more relaxed

Please how can i get over someone

I hv this guy i hv been talking to for 6months now , we are dating (online)but the energy is really heatbreaking sometimes , he doesnt like me calling , just chating, he wants to be the only one calling me but i shouldnt call him , he calls me everyday tho , but i hv this feeling he has someone else, even married . I hv asked him and he refuses to accept or agree but keeps up with his funny attitude

My problem is that i want to stop talking to him , i hate the way he makes me feel , but i am so used to talking to him everyday , blocking him would be rather harsh , cause he has done nothing serious to me , what should i do please ?