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bimkas:
Thanks for quick response.
Pls your email?I sent an email through nairaland I don't think you receive it.

Busayosmile:
Thank you chandraluv....please What's the name of the hospital you got BFP?

bimkas:
Goodmorning
Congratulations sis, pls can i chat you in private.
Thanks in advance

Busayosmile:
@ blendy77 @Blendy, thanks for your thoughtful input. The hospital I was referring to is PF Medicals. I’ve never been pregnant before or after marriage, and I’m currently 32 years old. Before we started IVF, my husband’s sperm count was perfect. The hospital conducted an HSG, which they said was fine, and the fibroids seen were just small seedlings with no significance.

The doctor also kept saying my lining was perfect, though most of what was written in my file were just diagrams. Since they assured us all my tests were fine, we went ahead with egg collection , 7 got to the embryo stage, all grade A.

We proceeded with the first cycle and I followed all drug and injection instructions carefully. After the 2 week wait, the test came back negative, and there was no clear explanation. We took a break and were left with 4 embryos.

Before the second cycle, the doctor suggested a hysteroscopy to check for possible causes. When I asked for the result, I was only shown a diagram and told there were just small polyps which had been removed. We decided to proceed with the second cycle and also did PRP. The lining was again said to be perfect, but unfortunately, it still came out negative after the 2week wait.

Honestly, I’m still trying to understand what could have gone wrong, especially since everything seemed fine medically.

sebagonline:
Please be strong Mama! These guys are becoming something else, probably because of the volume of work they're trying to cope with but it's definitely not an excuse. We had almost similar experience from them earlier this year. After going forth and back with multiple hysteroscopy and co. for almost a year and finally they said we should proceed and lo and behold it went negative! Their costumer service is almost zero then, the worst is that they seem to be more interested in the money because there was no sign of empathy from them, [in fact the cost doubled within our cycle:- dollar palava(when we came and when we were cleared to proceed fully)]. ... it's Negative! ...you need to re-cycle... This is the amount....bla bla bla... And we were like, do you guys know the stress and strain, one had undergone, at least a place like that should understand the psychological and emotional trauma that happens during a failed cycle, it was lacking then, although I don't know of now, we actually got their good reviews from this thread before we went then. But what can one do, more so this is Nigeria and everyone is OYO. Please focus on recovery yourself at this time, be there for each other (DH and DW), don't do blame game. You need God guidance on your next step to take. I pray God will strengthen you both and grant your heart desires for you and all the TTC family in Jesus name Amen 🙏

Toch19977:
Try primecare abuja

Timitoyo:
So sorry for the failed procedure. Do a change of hospital when you want to try again, look towards Abuja ; they have the best success stories so far. Also , calm down and prepare your body for the next one .

My bundle of joy is beside me after 5 cycles @age 45. It's not too late .

Toch19977:
Which hospital did you use

MummyNeto:
it is possible to achieve IVF conception with intra uterine adhesion but it depends on the severity of the adhesion, I asked because of the number of time it was carried out.

You can get serrapeptase from jiji or jumia. There is a seller on nairaland too (tripplettwins). Buy a higher spu depending on your pocket, start with one capsule a day so as to develop tolerance then you can increase it to up to 3 or 4. Sorry once more about your house.
If you can get castor oil, rub it in your pelvic region and massage well. If you have a hot water bottle place it over a towel and allow the heat enter your pelvic region. If not just rub the oil and massage.

It's difficult to see a doctor that will allow you
use your egg due to age factor. I still recommend using a donor. They don't even use donors above 26 years now.
Best wishes mama ❤️

MummyNeto:
it is possible to achieve IVF conception with intra uterine adhesion but it depends on the severity of the adhesion, I asked because of the number of time it was carried out.

You can get serrapeptase from jiji or jumia. There is a seller on nairaland too (tripplettwins). Buy a higher spu depending on your pocket, start with one capsule a day so as to develop tolerance then you can increase it to up to 3 or 4. Sorry once more about your house.
If you can get castor oil, rub it in your pelvic region and massage well. If you have a hot water bottle place it over a towel and allow the heat enter your pelvic region. If not just rub the oil and massage.

It's difficult to see a doctor that will allow you
use your egg due to age factor. I still recommend using a donor. They don't even use donors above 26 years now.
Best wishes mama ❤️

MummyNeto:
so sorry mama. Just take a break, don't do IVF under pressure, selling your own house for IVF wasn't a good idea, you could have leased or rented it out. Did the IVF failed as a result of the adhesion?
The money you have currently can't get you a surrogate, if you intend using yourself please take serrapeptase for like one month before the transfer.

Take it to God in prayers too, age will not stop what God is about to do for you.

greatlinda:
For castor oil massage go to YouTube you will get a detailed explanation there

Tripletwins222:
Good evening fruitful families.

Coast Science, Omega-3 fish oil, Ubiquinol and some other fertility supplements are available for sale.

If interested, kindly send a mail to tripletwins222@gmail.com.

Wishing every yearning wombs positive results soonest in Jesus name. Amen.

Thanks.

Leonardomike:
Calm down

Thehomemaker:
Hi Sis, Lots of hug to you. I can't imagine how you feel but you need to be strong and put your faith in God. Your ability to live in divine health, and conceive and carry your babies is all in God. believe His report for your life. None shall be barren, that is His confirmed assurance to us all so stay strong. I pray for you and your husband's heart, you will be strong, this will pass and victory is assured.

Have you considered doing a hysteroscopy, that's the best way to know the state of your womb, endometrium and cervix. If possible, please use a fertility hospital/fertility specialist so you can get a more precise diagnosis and way forward. stenosis can be treated so do not lose faith. Since you are in Lagos, you can find quite a number of specialists and different price points. praying for you..... lots of baby dusts

cclily247:
My dear be patient with God, He will answer your prayers at the right time, and pls pls pls don't advice ur husband to go marry another woman, which kind advice be that?? Have you considered surrogacy?? your egg and ur hubbys sperm you give to someone to carry for you chikineee your baby is ur baby weda na u carry am or person help you carry, DNA na una own .No ones needs to know sey no be u carry the baby, not that it is anyone's biz,,
We need to start opening our eyes to all the options out there. TTC is a complex matter, one has to consider IUI, IVF, and surrogacy depending on what is going on.
My friend and her hubby wanted 3 kids, first child nearly took her life - Pre-eclampsia , 3 years after birth she still has some health issues shes battling with, Then her hubby started talking about trying again, I advised them to try surrogacy luckily they listened and I helped them find a surrogate mother. today they have 3 kids and she only carried one herself and shes alive to train and nurture her children.

Gratefulheart2:
stenosis I guess. Calm down, all shall be well. You'll carry your babies in your womb to your arms. Have you spoken to your gynecologist about your result?

Olorilolo:
All will be well Momma.
Have you done hormonal profile to know why your period is scanty?

Chandraluv:
All he said is I should go and do HSG
There was this native woman that did womb opening for me in January saw my menses very well Feb from march to April went back to scanty and skipping at interval. The one for April is just from morning till 6pm that same day. Where I am in Lagos there is no good Hospital. Just one general hospital that all they know how to do is CS. My story is very long

mbok:
Thanks so much for your reply. So it's better to do transvaginal ultrasound first before going for HSG. Especially if further investigation is required? It's not advisable to rush into doing HSG first?

Gratefulheart2:
stenosis I guess. Calm down, all shall be well. You'll carry your babies in your womb to your arms. Have you spoken to your gynecologist about your result?

Gratefulheart2:
stenosis I guess. Calm down, all shall be well. You'll carry your babies in your womb to your arms. Have you spoken to your gynecologist about your result?