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NAIJA LADIES IN CATEGORY
18-25....60% Young Uni Students in flexing age struggling to sleep with rich daddys for financial assistance
25-30....70% Dating One married man or the Other...Lecturer/Boss/LandLord etc(friendship with benefit)...some still continue in their 30s driving brand new cars courtesy of chiarman
30-35....50% of them Praying for Ceremonial husband that will give them a child while keeping the Chiarman as side attraction...Am not in a rush for Marriage i wana be ready made.lols

keep the baby joor,tell your parents and the guy should do same,then let the guy know he has a responsibility wherever he is travelling to he has to definitely include his child in his plans

Is not really easy to be a single mother,what they treasure most is companionship and tender touches while playing a fatherly role to the child..Very few guys are willing to stay even if marriage is not in the picture...betterstill the child should know both parents as time goes so as to have a balanced childhood.

understood,are u ready for a serious relationship with who?always define your specifications it makes compatibility much more possible...i guess am not really in one at the moment...i prefer dark,plumpy and working class resident in Lagos preferably from South-East...at least dis summarized my search spec.

what makes a relationship serious?

She just said what most Naija Ladies do....Pls If you have a Husband that is wealthy or very comfortable please pray for him..Most Naija babes prefer ready made married men that can afford their luxurious lifestyle..Its not a big deal for them to date married men....Yet most Naija guys don't date married women.if you work in Island or Lekki u see them everywhere crusing in brand new exotic cars courtesy of chiarman...Its more common among some career ladies....i stand to be contradicted

@ Acidosis...is a case of different strokes for diff. folks...a Nurse those days do live in the hospital quarters so at least she was oppurtuned to do so...I used this analogy just to drive home my point...You are entitled to your opinion though

@ Acidosis...she told us several stories of how they started and those their lovely days while dating ...maybe u should ask your mum she might tell you.EXTREME CIVILIZATION RUINED MANKIND

@ Yoruba Omoge...what can u offer me apart from Sex? I need a response...Coincidentally i sounded a serious warning today in my office as regards marriage...NOBODY SHOULD DISTURB ME ABOUT HAVING A WIFE AGAIN...See what ladies that want to groom future wives and mothers are blabbing...WAKE UP LADIES...My mother was a Nurse yet my father never washed dishes even for a day when they were dating...she does all that and still earns good pay ...why can't u do it?

In 2013,I still ask what having a girlfriend can offer me?....I buy expensive stuff...i give you the best of tender loving care yet u can't do the simple task of cleaning up my apartment and doing the dishes? No matter how stressful your job is at least prove to me that you are worth keeping as a wife...I don't need sex that's an emotional product close to 1.3 million ladies in Nigeria can offer for a token....be wise...Men cherish women that add value in whatever form ...I rest my Case

Most men tend to distance themselves from the independent woman...Living alone...drives a good car possibly with additional assets like land...Instances abound that such ladies always yearn for true companionship yet found none...Men are always scetpical of their ability to sustain a Marriage...Why should success in work life become such a limiting factor?

When people say they are in love i really don't take them serious...why?...In most cases i realize the proposed love was for a reason...In developing countries love is measured in an economic scale and the more you shower her with gifts the more her love for you grows if the table turns the love turns to deep hatred and resentment...Why is it nearly impossible nowadays to find love (Not economic love,lust or Infatuation)?

@ Maya i luv the spirit babe,got to be more friendly,jovial and prayerful and u have to network more esp. through social media,though it has its fair share of hoodlums and fake people,i suggest u join linkedin its mostly for career guys,for me am still struggling so marriage is the last in my priority list

Mine is 18th...Lovely People

Congrats man...the NAS men

On a personal note...i will advise guys to be a bit stable financially before marriage..the greatest frustration one gets as a married man is lack of finance to solve some problems as a husband...A lady will appreciate you more if you play your role as a man in her life.
Secondly,i advise guys not to promise marriage to a lady unless they are financially and emotionally ready for such...Happy Val..N/lnders

In the spirit of Valentine,how do u really love on Nairaland...for me i tink Cindyrella would do on a platonic basis...Pls its not a tongue lashing thread...just tell us who you like based on his/her sense of judgement,maturity and joviality

I crave for highly skilled,educated and successful ladies i usually get pissed off due to their attitude problem,majority of them feel proud and i hate pride...am not doing bad just that at the moment am still growing with my MBA and a fair job i think am on track..i suffered and i have learnt to be humble...am not taken either(laughs)

I crave for highly skilled,educated and sucessful ladies but what piss me off is their attitude,majority of them feels proud and i hate pride...am not doing bad just that at the moment am still growing with my MBA and a fair job i think am on track..i suffered and i have learnt to be humble...am not taken either(laughs)

These places u mentioned is suitable if you earn 250-300 on a monthly basis,anything less will make you live on debt...for me even the babe that plans to spend the day with me is bearing the financial burden of paying the T.Fare ..i plan to lodge her in a good hotel in S/lere,then buy lots of Stuffs...Chicken,Wines etc , i will double her T.Fare with extra for keeps... she has really shown special interest in me!.I appreciate.I prefer that than lodging in Radisson which might exceed 50K

I saw a post as regards being rejected because he earns 120K as Salary...its rather unfortunate that most ladies are so blind that they can't see the future in Men..for me i don't stress myself..i will tell you point blank am still struggling if its okay by you we hit off but if am below your standard i would leave honourably cos i know 4 sure dat i have a great future...The 2013 Man need a planner,a comforter,an organizer and a supportive woman...we are tired of emotional merchants

Bros..the difference between a Boy and a man is self-confidence..its simple arrange a date with her just close eye take like 10k to avoid embarrassment..watch her moves if she can't add value to your life just move on..@ your age in life u don"t need those emotional merchants...u need a planner

With due respect to the slim ladies in da house i would prefer to hook up with plumpy ladies here in lagos for friendship(it might lead to a relationship)..any plumpy damsel in da house?

@ CUTEJAY...i appreciate your understanding and maturity
A man like me will always go for the highly educated,confident and mature who can handle issues well

Cont'd...I became more curious..he likes me because he knew am a sharp guy, i left him because he couldn't increase my salary to 70k from 50k for over a year..since then i use to send him xmas greetings and called once in a while..So i enquired again i asked why can't he just chose one and marry he said that all of them lied that they are not in any relationship but when he leaves the car to buy some stuffs he activates the recorder and when he is alone he plays it and laugh at them...i was shocked