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chccho:
Pls do people really win lawsuits and get compensated if they eventually win? What if the defendant decides not to obey the court order/judgement? I have been on a case since last year march and we haven't even entered the trial proper

U are at the introduction stage according to Nigerian trial time. I pursued a case for 4yrs and even after the solid evidences, time and money spent,the defendant stilk bribed his way through and i lost the case.
Even when u win the defendant can prove stubborn and not comply to the court judgment. Most especially when u are dealing with the high and mighty In Nigeria. Welcome!

protoncub:
I'm not asking for a friend.

Why is it that every time I masturbate, I fall sick? Please, I need logical explanations.

The interesting thing is, even if I have sex everyday for a whole week, I don't fall sick. In fact I get healthier.

At a point, I was servicing three girls together and doing several rounds daily. I never fell sick. But once I try to masturbate, its a combination of fever, sore-throat, diarrhea, fatigue etc.

I've searched Google for answers but webpage is filled with desperate people (especially the westerners) claiming that masturbation is perfectly healthy and there's no scientific proof that it has any harm.

Masturbation is not good for u whether, medically,emotionally, physically and most especially spiritually.
Its a bad habit that drains your strength physically and draws virtue from u spiritually.
When u engage in the act u are having sex with yourself physically, but spiritually there's a demon attached to such unclean sexual acts call incubus/ succubus.
A word is enough for the wise, STOP IT

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AllBlack:
Help which poor woman? See how you get carried away by emotions and the woman's side of the story. Now who is the judge? Have you heard the boy's side of the story?

Have you sat down to think that those boys might actually be the true victims of horrible parenting in this matter? No, you only think one way.

Solution? What can your online advice do? Captain HELPER! Why don't you ask the woman for her address so you can go there and sit the boys down for a chat yourself. Do that if you really have interest in helping but you will not.

Ogbeni u dont have anything meaningful to offer abeg park well. We all know she made a mistake in training them besides these are boys, they might not yield to her easily without a father figure. The mother has come here for help and all u can do is condemn condemn and more salt to her injury. If u cant help her with meaningful advice, mind your business and dont add to her pain. Nobodys life is all perfect including u.

Anobody:
I'm a single mother of two teenage sons, lost my husband 10 years ago and have been struggling to cater for them singlehandedly. My first son is 19 and the last 17 years but I'm getting fed up with the disrespect and regret not taking them to the village so I could remarry.

They both left secondary school and working to save up for school and I don't ask them for a dime. My last son suddenly started behaving like a tout, pierced both ears and turning his hair to dread, takes my stuff without my permission and even to extent of holding my hands when I get furious to beat him.

My first son is dating a girl and spends all his money on her to the extend of asking me for transport fare sometimes. Sometimes they come home by 10 or 11pm and are ready to fight me if I get furious to discipline them.

What broke the camel's back was that my last son went to a friend's bday party overnight without telling me, my first son said he called to tell him he won't return and NONE OF THEM TOLD ME under my roof.

I've tried talking calmly, denying certain privilege and discipline but it keeps getting worse, my last option is to take them back to their father's village before I die of hbp.

I'm depressed nairalanders�, please I seek matured advice, thanks.

Please help me push to front page

Dear OP, no doubt u made some mistakes by ignoring some red flags long ago and u didn't instil discipline when u shoukd have but there is still hope.

First u have to ask for God's divine intervention in all of this cos only God can do all things.
Next u have to apply the Carrot and Stick approach.
As for me i grew up learning with the stick. If u do anyhow u go see better STICK n ass
whooping.
Now first u need to take those boys to the nearest police station and report/have a proper conversation with the DPO or a senior police officer there. Report them and all their deeds to the DPO he will know how best to speak to them. If they wont change make it clear that u wont hesitate to lock them up in the station. A 17yr/19 old is not too old to be corrected.
Also u can look for an elder from your family or their fathers family as a father figure who will also speak to their senses. If possible send them on holiday for a while.
U need to set clear lines and stand by it without bending or else u will lose the last hope of bending these boys.
When I was younger i can never forget my fathers philosophy, "u either break or bend" n boy oh boy he really bent me.

If they wont yield to all this madam no fight them again, arrange better beating for them.
I have seen where a father arranged soldier to come and discipline his son for misbehaving. The boy begged and promised to change. Remember if u also spare the rod u will spoil the child. I can guarantee u them go bend. If they wont come back by 7/8pm lock the door let them sleep outside till the following day.
How old is a 17/19yr old that u cant discipline them sef. Dont allow your kids destroy before your eyes o!!! Make Gid help u

Bahamas95:
If you had done your homework very well from day1 they wouldn't have turned to beasts.

"Abeg leave am na small pikin, e never get sense" is the root cause of many problems we are facing in the society today. When you discipline someone's child you could land in problem.

Even me as an adult can't talk to my elder sister anyhow not to talk of my mum, you learn how to respect elders from childhood. "Dem nor dey learn how to use left hand for old age"

The damage has been done already, if you can't cope send them outa your house before they kill you. Or tolerate their rubbish till they decide to leave on their own.

MONSTERS YOU MADE.

Even u are a Monster too with what u posted up there. When u born your own we go see how u go do.

AllBlack:
You left them to grow wild and free, now you want to bend them when they have grown thorns all over? Ear rings and dreads. What next? Cult codes and drugs? Crime & pregnancy? Regular Gambling? You failed to read the signs early enough. The help you seek now is what you should have done 10 years ago. There is no way both of them could have turned out this way without all your little little silent approvals of their little harmless sins.

Is there no male figure from your side of the family you can talk to? Because for you to bring this matter to NL means you have burnt your bridge with their father's people.
Where is your pastor? Or someone they can respect because from your narration, they have learnt to cover for each other and are now forming their own counrty, soon to overthrow you.

Take them back to the village at this age? After they have blended with the streets this far? Good luck with that.

Oga Judge so after all this your condemnation and blames how have u helped the poor woman with any solution your whole epistle is full with negativity no meaningful contribution. Clap for yourself o

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ahnie:
The Bible even stated it that stay away from people's wives if you want your days to be long and productive on Earth.

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I know most women do it....but some women are principled and strict.

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