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I agree with mind2

Second hand smoking causes lung and throat cancer. I love myself more than a man who wants to place himself at risk for cancer. That's his choice. As for drinking, if he is a social drinker then that is fine. However, being with a heavy drinker (alcoholic) places me at risk for being abuse or killed. Once again I love myself more than to to succumb to this.

Three qualitie I desire in MY FUTURE HUSBAND:

1) God-fearing: There is nothing more powerful than having a mate who you can pray and read the Bible with. Without God first, I believe there is room for failure in the relationship.

2) Loyal: I want someone to be there for me through good and bad as I will do the same.

3) Caring/Loving/Comapssionate: A man that cares will not only care for you but others as well.

I agree, Love develops after you know the person. At first sight there is some form of attraction (beauty, brain, mannerism, specific body part, etc, )

Its simply, women react more hurt after being rejected because they are more emotional  than men. Men tend to hide their emotions.

My husband can answer my phone and vice-versa. I have nothing to hide and I hope he has nothing to hide also. Without trust a marriage is non-existence. I will not purposely go snoppying but if the phone rings then I will pick it up if he is unavailable at he moment.