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bukatyne:
The Nairaland behind Nairaland....

What I find puzzling is reconciling the online characters (i.e. what they claim to stand for) to the alleged actions and inactions offline.

If this whole drama is true, then I must say it is either there is no victim only accomplice (Babe3) and offender (Coogar) or the 'offender' has been typing the posts of the 'victim' all these while.

@ Babe3:

In addition to what Jahblessme and Mindfulness has said, I would say you should go back to your parents for relationship advice and involve them more (or older relatives like cousins/aunts and uncles) in your next relationship (after complete healing of course).

You also need to get to the roots of the self esteem ish... what will make a young beautiful girl so desperate that she is suicidal?

All that glitters is not gold.

I wish you both all the best.

Thanks alot! This sums it all.. She needs to work on her SELF ESTEEM.

Toby77:
why do i think this is all Coogar inspired?

hahaha, very far from it mate.. Trust me, you are WRONG! Am just a lady who has her thinking faculty working properly, having been in such situation before & you didn't see me patting coogar @ the back did you?

Keep THINKING O..

NB: i opened this moniker due to the personal sensitive info i might have to add. am not "New" on NL. i have seen different e-fights (INSPIRED/PLANTINUMK) (SHOPCLUE) (OGUGUA/SEXKILL/ETC) & the last in the Auto section (REVOLUTION/INSPIRED) and i must add This thread and every other thread doesn't worth 2 consenting adults opening their "Dirts" for some online persons.

First off @ BABE3, What ever type of hurt you might be going I have gone through abit of it before.

I once dated a "Fraud" of a guy, I was 2 years older than you back then, initially I didn't know that was what he did buy ofcourse in less than 6 months it was very glaring what he did, his was even worse as he didn't deal in CC (atleast not that I know of), but scamming people of huge sums of money, he was extremely RICH! And had networks in the US, UK and Canada, thou we lived in the UK. I suspected from his phone calls but I kept quite, WHY? I wasn't naive oo (I LOVED HIM) and was hoping & denying that I might be wrong! Anyway we broke up I was very debated, but I look back and thank God. I got up from the Dirt, Dusted myself & MOVED THE HELL ON!!!!!!

He took my innocence (virginity) and all, but I decided not to wallow in SELF PITY, this is what is expected of you, in your case BABE3, it might be SELF PITY & PITY PARTY! Yes, Pity Party of the likes of Airmark, woal...., Cococandy, etc (geering you that you are a STRONG WOMAN) to come online and wash your dirts! It's quite SAD! As the opposite is quite the case, this shows you are a WEAKLING and I fear you don't get into another "Relationship" or rather "Situationship" as the case may be with this yeye naive/weak mentality or else, OYO (On Your Own) will be your case!!!

Truckpusher is very correct, all he might have been saying might look funny, I can bet it that if these (2) people sight each other they will be back to FÛČ*ING each other, because obviously from BABE3 she hasn't let go!

Girlll do yourself a Favour, dust yourself & MOVE THE BLEEP ON! If these gets to the courts trust me you both are GOING DOWN! Anyway you prolly don't mind being an ex convict because of yeye LOVE. You have to LOVE YOURSELF! This dude doesn't worth your whole life ahead of you.

To conclude my story I MOVED ON & was WISER, now am married with a set of Twins and a godly husband and I thank God for my family. If I like you has decided to form self/pity party i would still be running around in circles or worse still ZIGZAG!

Cheers..

N:B
I was on the thread in the Family Section that started all this, Abeg where is MARRYMEE as I recalled he/she started all this and disappeared!