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Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by Chennai: 2:51pm On Jun 21, 2013
Black Kenichi: Who cares. White man/Black women marriages are insignificant in the US.
10% of Black women entering IRs marriages that actually last is far better than 20% of Black men entering 1Rs were over 50% of then fail before the 10 year mark ... this really highlights who really is the problem , but um ya keep blaming black women for your misfortunes grin
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by Chennai: 2:30pm On Jun 21, 2013
c.fours:
Least likely to divorce:

Asian/Asian
White Male /Black Female
Hispanic W/Hispanic W
White/White
White Male/Asian Female
White Male/ Hispanic W Female

http://www.city-data.com/forum/politics-other-controversies/1724353-study-shows-white-men-married-black.html

hmm I wonder why black males do not show up on the "least likely to divorce" list. well, because the are busy topping the "most likely to divorce" lists!! Always trying to blame black women for their problems when the problem lies squarely on themselves.
Must be The Black Women's Fault grin
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by Chennai: 2:25pm On Jun 21, 2013
grin
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by Chennai: 10:07pm On May 18, 2013
Black Kenichi: Yes it does. An ideology that has to splinter means that there was disagreement about certain principles of it. I see no difference between black feminism, womanism, white feminism, riot grrl etc.
All of it based on a intellectually bankrupt ideology that thinks women throughout history were oppressed and victims.
*Newsflash* - History and social relations are a lot more complex than that.
In most large movements there are disagreements/different fractions even in politics, comeon now? Which movement do you know that everyone 100% agrees on everything, even atheists/religious groups have beef within their movements... with all the different denomination are Christians any less legitimate?

Secondly, why do you think the feminist movement was created in the first place? Were women not oppressed? Or do you agree that women didn't deserve the right to vote, the right to self determination was it not worth the fight?
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by Chennai: 10:02pm On May 18, 2013
Black Kenichi: The fact there are so many forms of feminism only means that the ideology is messed up. feminists in the west have a lot of influence and power. They have effected laws to the point that women can get away with some incredibly janky bs!
MRA movements are also a big joke as well.
What do you suggest would be a better way to get rid of patriarchy/sexism?
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by Chennai: 10:00pm On May 18, 2013
bukatyne: Hi,

You can not deny that women are considered inferior in our society. However, if you say feminism has not been able to solve it or created new problems, that is another kettle of fish.

Like I said in an earlier post, there are really no rules to solve some of these problems. A rule cannot be created to ensure that DILs are not bullied by MILs and SILs etc.

I believe the change is from within. If a woman feels that she is equal to a man, she naturally attract men that think like her and appreciates her strength. Women need to develop their self esteem by remembering that they are wonderfully made by God. We should (if possible) have a source of income and something we do to make our world better. We should also know that we are a team. Women gang up against each other even more than men. A man would probably vote for a female candidate than a fellow female. I would say some females have crablike attitude; they don't want to progress and they will pull other girls trying to forge ahead.

I would say we should be assertive but know the boundary between assertiveness and rudeness. Don't let anybody tell you that you are inferior. As I am, there is absolutely no man that can tell he 'he's superior because he's a man'. I have gotten the consciousness of who I am

Yes feminism has brought the consciousness that women can function in the same capacity as men but feminism will not help us harness the strength we have. Even if a bill is passed that all girls be educated, the law cannot force the girls to be serious or have ambition/focus.
True!
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by Chennai: 9:55pm On May 18, 2013
Black Kenichi: The fact there are so many forms of feminism only means that the ideology is messed up. feminists in the west have a lot of influence and power. They have effected laws to the point that women can get away with some incredibly janky bs!
No it doesn't even during the the civil rights movement, there were several different movements /schools of thought, it did not take away from the ideology at all huh

Women, like Black people have come a long way, but we are no were near "powerful" shocked,


Same way I feel about afrocentrics I'll be damned if someone uses the Hebrew Israelites to represents all african centered people lipsrsealed
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by Chennai: 9:46pm On May 18, 2013
Black Kenichi: Feminism, womanism, it's all the same bs to me. I don't agree with it. You should read my opening post of this thread!
Well w.e any academic will tell you Black feminism grew out of the Black womanist, and neither of these = mainstream feminism there is also Africana womanism base on African culture

It's kind of like the Afrocentrics who fall into many different categories


All of your first post just addresses mainstream white feminism, Black feminist have already addressed those issues this is nothing new thats why they created their OWN movement, same way Black men are now seeing a lot of MRAs are racist
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by Chennai: 9:41pm On May 18, 2013
Black male womanist

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=35sGPo0wypU

Black men feminist


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J3HbtAYIfAQ , this guys is the truth
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by Chennai: 9:30pm On May 18, 2013
Black Kenichi: Now and again!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NI2y5IBqUI0
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by Chennai: 9:23pm On May 18, 2013
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by Chennai: 9:21pm On May 18, 2013
CAMEROONPRIDE: I got you right, I'm asking the names of those empowerment movements/groups which only target African men issues/problems. As for BA I insist both NAACP , BET, BA scholarships etc are for both genders, so kindly also tell me the names of those groups which only target BA men issues
There are a number of organizations
http://blacktown.net/
there's also blackmenrising,

Then you have black men are a part of the

MRAS
and the MRMs
http://news.mensactivism.org/
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by Chennai: 9:11pm On May 18, 2013
CAMEROONPRIDE: that's not even the point the point is they are for all genders..

I Take it as African men don't have any group/movement, thanks for proving my point
I think you have me confused, I'm not talking about Civil rights movements, I'm talking about movements specifically for men, and male issues
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by Chennai: 9:06pm On May 18, 2013
CAMEROONPRIDE: I don't answer your black this and that, kindly give me the name of one African men movement/group etc?

If you are talking about BA: BET, NAACP, etc are for BA regardless the gender
lol those groups are for black men period, and they have African men that are a part of them
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by Chennai: 9:03pm On May 18, 2013
Black Kenichi: "Fanatical", Me, Hell no. I like to keep my critical thinking cap on all the time!
lol Good, Do listen to Tariq?
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by Chennai: 8:59pm On May 18, 2013
CAMEROONPRIDE: I don't know any African men movements...
They are some black men rights movements, men's rights movements and there are also black male feminism movements... There are also some black men leading the way in fight patriarchy and fighting for women's rights, so I know not all men are bad, but the system is, and the men that support it need to be checked
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by Chennai: 8:57pm On May 18, 2013
Black Kenichi: Because I wanted to expose feminists for the lying hypocrites that you are. I've done a good job.


That's a lot of people that are "off their rockers" including well known celebs. Sounds like hating to me.



1st statement - I agree it's kinda hypocritical.
2nd statement - Maybe hypocritical but it needs to be addressed. If anything I respect him more because he a single parent being honest about the life of what being a single parent entails.



If you want to or am I oppressing and coercing you into it? wink
Thank you for admitting that cheesy, so your not one of those fanatical fans
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by Chennai: 8:41pm On May 18, 2013
Black Kenichi: I don't give a toss about being taken seriously by feminists.


There's nothing to address. Black feminism is a joke. Black feminists are nothing more than pawns of white people (both men and women!)


Where's your proof!? TS is going from strength to strength and you can't do a damn thing about it. He's even getting through to black women that have been deluded by feminist BS.
Then why did you create a whole thread about it, if you don't care? the very least you can do is read a book on the subject...

I don't have to do a damn thing, nor do I care to Tommy exposes himself on a daily basis, most men I know only watch him for comedic value to be honest, the few that take him seriously are generally off their rockers cheesy

Tommy's Hypocrisy where to begin:

Tommy bashes Black women that twerk on the net, yet he's currently dating a women that conducts herself in that manner, I post on a Black male forum and a lot of dudes called him out on that, even his fans

Secondly Tommy constantly goes in on single parents, but he himself is a single parent who has been arrest several times over child support

shall I continue?
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by Chennai: 8:34pm On May 18, 2013
CAMEROONPRIDE: I see you people don't want to understand that Black is too dense...

African females have different struggles and aspirations

BA females have different struggles and aspirations.


Let's try to make a difference and stop confusing the masses. Most African don't know this sotomayor, gecko I heard about him yesterday so please, if you want to talk about BA fine let's do that, if we want to talking about African let's do that ..jumping from a point to another or a group to another one is not helping the thread
Black men have struggles that are unique to Black men that Black women cannot understand/do not experience

just like

Black women have struggles that are unique to black women that black men cannot understand/do no experience

I wish people would respect that,

BW have our issues to deal with as a group, just as Black men(who by the way have men's movements) should be given the same curtsey

Who the hell would I be to tell BM they don't feel the way they do about a given issue huh Some of you men need to respect that
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by Chennai: 8:20pm On May 18, 2013
Black Kenichi: Wrong! Black feminism owes it's existance to Gloria Steinem, a CIA operative.


Whatever!


Gloria Steinem and the CIA say otherwise. Black feminists are so unoriginal, it's truly pathetic.


TS has even said that most of the vids he comments on are from black women.

Sexism exists in every community. And it certainly exists amongst black feminists.
However the white man will receive nothing more than praise and affection from these deluded women!
The only pathetic ones are the individuals who have no idea what the hell they are talking about when it cause to black feminism/womanism,( first all Black womanism is based on the ideas of Alice Walker black women knew that mainstream feminism was not for them this is stuff you should know if you want to be taken seriously)

Secondly I see that you did want to address the point I made about BM and WW not representing our interest, interesting

Tommy is a known hypocrite and liar , so I believe what I see which most of the comments on his facebook page and youtube are by BM, most of the people who regurgitate his talking points and share his videos are BM... but He has his right to his ideology, and you have a right to follow him, but lets not prepare this videos are in any way shape or form beneficial to black women/girls
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by Chennai: 7:53pm On May 18, 2013
c.fours:
exactly. it's going to deegenrate into vile abuse exchanges. I've been there on this thread. so I will advice u to stop now.
this dude is beyond redemption. I can bet 1000 bucks that he has raped several women in his life, killed a few and probably raped his mom. he is a misogynist of the first level and u will get to a point where u want to puke just from seeing his post. they started posting pics of roasted burning women at some point. trust me. PRESS THE IGNORE BUTTON ON THE FOOL AND LOG OUT.
they are mostly bitter men in denial.
stop responding to his posts now.
Your right, thanks
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by Chennai: 7:47pm On May 18, 2013
Black Kenichi: Oh we do understand what feminism is all about. We're just sick of the lies and half truths being parroted by feminists. It's had it's time and it's served it's purpose. Feminism can now f*ck off.


White people already control black feminists. It's just that black feminists are to foolish to realise it. All black feminists do is parrot what white feminist say. White feminist were deliberately put into civil rights movement to disrupt by making black feminism so it can cause tension between the black sexes.
However black feminists don't mind being controlled by the white man! Notice they rarely say anything bad about white men?


The words "pot", "black" and "kettle" come to mind.
What TS is saying is nothing new. He's just the most vocal and popular. As I said, black women are his biggest subscribers. Deal with it.


Because I don't want to. Simple really!
The Black feminism movement is a separate movement created because the sexism( rape/domestic violence) in some Civil Rights groups were rampant and the fact that White feminism could not relate to BW's issues,

Black men and White women can not and do not speak for Black women, Black men want BW to pretend like we don't deal with sexism and white women want black women to pretend they don't deal with racism.


Anyone tells you Black womanism/feminism = White Feminism they don't know what the hell they are talking about

I've read his comments/ been on his facebook page most of his fans , by a HUGE margin, are Black men... lets not lie


Of course you don't want to talk about those issues because you don't want to admit sexism and oppression exists within the Black community,
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by Chennai: 7:39pm On May 18, 2013
CAMEROONPRIDE: Chennsi what about females gang raping males in. Zambia?

Double standard will kill you, pathetic
I'm not like you I don't conduce rape in any form regardless of the gender, because lets not act like if a BM attacks a WM racism no longer exist lol grin so some like those stormfront/chimpout clowns
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by Chennai: 7:36pm On May 18, 2013
CAMEROONPRIDE: you should, that's not the point , the point is you try to make it looks like rape is institutionalized in Africa/zimbabwe/Zambia which is false, rapist are criminals and are prosecuted when arrested..so for you to take example of rapes as example of patriarchy aka oppression in your world is just laughable
Saying its a huge problem is not the same thing as saying ALL men are rapist, however people like you are co-conspirators because you sit around it joke like maybe GM is okay because it's been happening for generations WTF?

Burying our head in the sand is not going to solve the problem, anyways I guess the same way way some women don't understand male issues is I guess the same way you guys don't feel concern for things that affect black women on the continent, that's why women have to organize for themselves
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by Chennai: 7:23pm On May 18, 2013
CAMEROONPRIDE: Don't take your Zambian and south African men behaviors for the common African behaviors, lmao Africa has +1billions people, and I don't think those Zambian men represent the majority in their country if the practice was tolerated people would never make campaigns against that .

Beside why don't you talk about Zambian women who gang rape male or you feign ignorance about that?
cheesy Keep deflecting, so because I'm neither South African, Zambian, Cameroonian or from a Muslim Country etc etc I should not give a damn about what happens Black women in other countries? I'm concerned with issues that Black women as a whole face from Kinshasa to the Bronx

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