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@ODB u seems to read my mind, i felt that d baby will trap me down to one place n prevent me from Achieving my dreams but i woke up this morning after all ur guys advice. i told myself that i can do it cause am stronger than i think n ur pple stories inspired me. Thanks everybody for what ur pple have done for me

@O.D.B.seems as if u read my mind

@idowuogbo ℓ☺ℓ u r funny
@fresh dude ☺k thanks

@Idowuogbo thanks actually am crying now cos i know it won't b easy but am gonna try.

i made a mistake, which i accepted but having a baby when u know next to nothing about motherhood is kinda scary, i never expected to b a mother now but i guess i will have to do most your people advised me to keep the baby. Thanks everyone

@sexkill Thanks, is not as if am not grateful dat he accepts the baby, but my problem is this, he is not earning much to take care of me and the baby with the rest.Raising a child isn't a joke, there are so many things involved and again i don't think am ready to b a mother now. The thought of that alone scares the hell out of me

@ T smooth Sorry not paying dat much am all worked up not thinking Straight now. Thank for d correction. Am wating for ur advice

A friend of mine, introduced me to this forum and encourage me to bring me problem here that i will get good advice. i don't really know where to start but i guess that i will have to cut my story short. Am in my 2nd year in school and my boyfriend is a graduate, working and doing his masters at same time. He is a nice person and everything i could ever ask of in a man. We having been going out for like a year n 4 month now and everything have been moving on fine until i missed my period last month, at first i thought maybe is due to stress and all that but after much waiting and is not coming, he advised me to go and see a doctor which i did and the doctor confirmed my fear, am pregnant. My problem now is my boyfriend don't want me to abort the baby but how can i when am still in my 2nd in school, his work is not paying that much. i see ourselves suffering but he won't listen to me. i made up my mind to abort d baby but my greatest problem now is that, he threatened to report me to my mum, if i ever do that. What did your guys think, so i keep the baby or abort it and damn d outcome. In btw am 23 and he is 26. What do your guys advice me to do?