First, Single mothers due to divorce and widowhood might be the exception.
1. Single mothers are bleeped stupid people who do not prioritize their objectives in life. They wouldn't be with you if their scumbag babydaddy (who is usually irresponsible ) hasn't rejected them
2. They just need a replacement for the mistake they've made in life. You will just be used as an emotional dump for issues she's had with people before you.
3. She's foolish and selfish. Otherwise why would she choose to have a baby with someone who has not married her. She just wants to use the baby to hold her baby daddy down.
4. She's most likely an ingrate who feels you owe her. Abuse and rejection from baby daddy 1 has left her this way.
5. Baby would hardly love you. You would keep hearing stuff like "you are not my daddy"
6. It's never about you. Baby/Babydaddy first.
7. Should Babydaddy come calling, you will be disposed. Most of the times though.
8. Pls as much as you think you love her, months or years into the relationship, you won't be able to get the idea of her spreading her legs for some scumbag, despising her family and bringing a baby into her chaotic world out of your head.
9. She will despise you because you are not a real man.
Real men don't bottom feed. You don't take over another man's used up a sp*rm dump.
Sorry if I sounded too harsh. But that's the truth.