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antiFapping:
Hello guys...
So, I woke up this morning with this urge of creating a thread here on Nairaland with the sole aim of reaching out to and bringing together those of us that are addicted to watching pornography and masturbation but are willing to Stop.

I believe everyone knows what Pornography and masturbation are, at least anyone that has access to internet should know.
Porn is rampant these days, you see them virtually everywhere, on billboards, social media platforms, downloading sites, TV adverts, TV series and Reality shows etc. Porn is primarily the main reason for masturbation.

Masturbation is the real issue here, it's not exclusive to a particular gender, girls fap as much as guys, it has assorted nicks like wanking, fapping, jerking off, shooting and the rest. Which ever you Choose to call it, the main point of this thread is to stop it for good.

People who have tried stopping it but didn't succeed, results to preaching the 'health benefits of it' which I once did in order to clear my conscience at one point in time... lol, they give lame excuses why fapping is good for you, they even have a crew which they are well proud of(the one here is Vaseline crew, I assume), funny indeed.

The truth is that Porn and Masturbation does much more harm than any delusional good to you, physically, emotionally or otherwise.

If you are among those that really want to stop, you probably must have typed this cliche on google search bar 'how to stop masturbation' I have done it severally, especially after I just finished 'doing it'. Various blogs would give you various reasons to stop, but the reoccurring points there are summarized below :

1) Porn/Masturbation drains your energy(physical and mental energy)

2) Porn/Masturbation can lead to erection dysfunction or premature climax.

3) Porn/Masturbation reduces your testosterone and your creativity too.

4) Porn/Masturbation drains your Resources, your precious time, money for subscription and the rest.


5) Porn/Masturbation kills you, believe it or not.


Let's share our Challenges here, and for those who were able to overcome this addiction(s), you can share your success stories with us that are still battling in order to encourage us

madone:
Friend zone her and find a prettier girl jare

Jointhemiltons2:
So the question here now is Can a guy still remain comfortably in a relationship where the girl is a virgin and isn't ready yet and also does not allow touching/caressing of boobs? And she does not also want you to do it outside.
So guys lemme hear your suggestions.

Maxi112:
Oh shiiit nairlanders has lost it, they all talking about karma and all that, you guys are just bunch of hypocrites.

Op, you've done well by asking her out, you just need to assume the post of a boyfriend in her life. In other news, act like a boyfriend not a chyker.

*Start by showing her how caring you can be, you can either share her with her supposed boyfriend or snatch her from him, the bad news here is this, you must share her with someone else in the nearest future but then, put yourself first. If it's her you want, go for it.

Start by paying for her lunch, even if na #300 food and 1bottle coke, bro just do it anytime you see for like 3x.

Step2

Ask her out for drink, don't even tell her about love or ask her about her boyfriend. Just be the boss. Talk about something else like sports, music, games. Share ideas tell her the nearest bus stop to your house. Keep the eyes contact

Step 3

Go MIA, just get busy.... If she really care like you stated expect her calls.


You can start from there by inviting her to your apartment. #make sure you make move, even if na small kiss, start from there

sarahade:
Keep chasing another man's girl that's the way someone will keep disturbing your girl until she starts crushing on him.
I don't know how people reason and can't respect boundaries.
She has a boyfriend back off.

Victorjohnbenso:
congrat my Excellency

Tyxno:
[color=#990000][/color] Please what is the address link to the university portal