omoge:

ha!!! and you are in the UK yet complaining. you could even get a cleaning job to raise a child/claim welfare for the time being. it's how you make it to be. think twice before doing what you are thinking. like nana said, the child could be a blessing to you both.
well, do good and i wish you well my brother.

thanks babes but if i have to take the responsibility as the father, all the plans i have to establish myself after my uni could not be realised, And my friend will resent me for the rest of his life and there is no way of running away from him as long as he is still with the girl and i am the girls baby dada.

I think you are right but the fact is that i dont love the girl and she told me she still love her boyfriend and want to be with him.

iam seriously thinking moving to a different address and cutting all tie between myself and the child as the cycle will be too much for me to bear.

joyblinks:

It has come to a stage where u have to start putting that baby as a part of u oh. because there is nothing u can do now, if u say u want to leave this baby for her to give to her boyfriend, someday my dear, u go remember say u get pikin there and that one, go cause confusion.

that girl self, something dey worry her?

my sister na so women dey put man for wahala, and now my relationship with my best friend is ruined 4 life.

2dye4:

go tell oprah! bulls*%t.

o'boy if you no get any advise to give me then pxxs_ off my thread

She has bluntly refused to terminate the pregnancy and i aint got the time nor the means right now to start bringing up a baby as i am still in the university studying for my masters and now it seems like all my future plans are going down the drains.

the irony is that her boyfriend is still in the dark as to what has happened to his girlfriend and the girl has assured me that she can convince her boyfriend that he is the father of the baby, but i don't know if i can live with the guilt.

the joke no funny shaa

my brother, it was a big mistake that should never had happened but as i said ealier we had a few drinks and one thing led to another.

minniepoe:

hey its so sad no one said helllo to me

hello babes you soud like you are new to the forum

Please could fellow nairalanders advice me on what to do. 'cos i had a drunken one night stand with my best friend's girlfriend and 2 months later she told me she was pregnant, i dont know what to do. she is here in london on holidays and has visited me 'cos her boyfriend who resides in Nigeria has asked her to visit me while she is in uk. she has refused to terminate the pregnancy and is due to go back to Nigeria in 2 weeks time.

i guess we may never know what happened to maddy 'cos the whole thing has turned political with Portuguese police accusing the parents of killing there daughter and the British media and authority appearing to be defending the parents.I reckon eventually no charges would be brought against the parents or anyone for lack of evidence that she is dead.

Please does anyone know how much it would cost to buy a duplex with 5 bedrooms, servant quarters and parking for 6 cars, preferably at independence layout. Any assistance will be appreciated.

the fact that Gerry mcCann did not show much emotions during the initial period of maddy's disappearance until he himself became a suspect makes me wonder if he and kate had a hand in there daughter's disappearance

i believe uk has become alot more dangerous in the past 10 yrs especially in the south east

hi everyone, 'am new to nairaland, whatsup?