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Liazz:
Back home before we travelled, she wasn't employed, I was fully in charge of all finances with the help of my family members.

You are not alone my brother, its in their nature. her money is her money while your money is our money. the earlier you understand the saying, the better for you and your marriage.

My friend in the UK is facing exact same thing with two kids in the UK and a sick father in Nigeria. just like your wife, his wife is a registered nurse with over 2500 pounds/month excluding tax but he is the one doing 85 to 90% of the spending in London.

The interesting part is that he relocated because of the wife"s nursing career while he was comfortable with his offshore job which permits him to earn in USD even while he was still in Nigeria. he is still on his job even after spending 3 years in the UK because he couldn't get a more paying Job in the UK considering he was earning an average of 4000 pounds/month

All i can say is take heart and be a man because you cant change the mindset of a selfish woman

One thing i know for sure, the money is not a clean money. The deleted Tiktok doesn't add up cos it seem he had a plan and it backfired. maybe Kidnapped victim paid money to your account and the kidnapper didn't make it.

I have said it before, when we look at your past, we are not trying to pick out your past mistakes cos nobody is perfect. we are only interested in the lifestyle which is obviously the real you.

A woman of so many men will not turn to a decent woman overnight. i am not saying its not possible o. but she is a vulnerable person who can easily go back to her lifestyle if certain condition changes. like he cheats on me and i am going to cheat back .

Moroccoguy:
CNG is 4 times cheaper than Diesel ⛽⛽⛽⛽ and other petrochemicals products.

until everybody converts their car and boooom, the price is 2 times higher the diesel and Petrol

look at the case of cooking gas. its now almost double the price of petrol since people started using it for generators

Unemployment is not an excuse for crime. That young man has made enough money already to start a legitimate life but he is comfortable with crime even at such a young age. a 22 year old with multiple aliases

No need for too much talk, the world is waiting for you to right his wrongs. achieve those things he couldn't achieve so your kids don't end up saying the same to you. it's always easy to point fingers and shift blames

Too much of everything is bad. never allow anything to control you else it will destroy you.

I can see a lot of people trying to defend mastaubation but the truth is, you dont know his level of mastaubation.

A chronic mastaubator can spend his entire working days on ponography and mastaubation and the remaining time he is so tired or too weak to do anything meaningful for himself.

Mastaubation is so energy draining more than s*x. especially for a chronic mastaubator.

In everything you do, you have to define your purpose for doing it.
TB is not a business but a form of saving money for future investments instead of allowing the money in the bank to accumulate bank charges.
A lot of people speak about real investment but forgot you need a reasonable amount of you must make profit.
I bought a land for 3.5m in 2013 and I can hardly see an offer of 5m in 2025.

Like I said, Real estate is good and TB is also good depending on your intended purpose.

Do you know how many people TB is paying their bills today?

Put that same amount on land and you may likely get your interest when you sell it. Unfortunately bills don't wait for your land to appreciate

quote author=Educationalserv post=135459080]I regret investing in naira Treasury bill for last 10 years . inflation and devaluation has made it a stupid investment.
Our parents where not wrong .
Land /real estate Remain the passive way to riches
Am a Victim learn from me
My business partner that bought 3 plots in a Govt Layouts 5m 12years ago built duplexs
on it has Sold them for 450m naira in 2025
Properties have reprice and added devaluation and inflation and profit.
Another Land bought for 800k in 2006
Built a bungalow for 3m
Sold to 80m .
Outside the rent that he has received[/quote]

That's probably because labour is relatively much cheaper in Nigeria. the money she uses to make her hair is enough to pay for all the services she just mentioned.

Its not about wrong or right woman, women are naturally selfish in nature when it comes to their man. once she opens her legs for you she feels she has repaid any gesture. we are always on our own which is why you must save for days like this.

jetguy:
The worst thing that will ever happened to any man under this sun, is to meet (chose)a wrong woman as a partner

God abeg oo 🤦

i dont want to mention the word but shouldn't the Army do the needful if those guys are truly Terrorist? why keeping them

I am more concern about the man who earns 900k/month and spend 5m/year on house rent.

we need to understand the concept of financial freedom.
1. i stay in my house
2. i have a farm and 50% of my meat and verg. is from the farm
3. i have few investment like TB and that takes care of the kids school fees

I can continue with the list and how i find my way around cutting down on cost and improving my savings.

I believe 1m/year house is not bad and 4m can go into developing his 2 plots

Best is to ask Google and second is to try with limited number of fishes for a given period of time.

that's nothing compared to the sacrifice. to start with, what is he going to be doing with the money when everything around him is paid for

Thats why the husband married her nah