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Kachisbarbie:
Tell me what you don't understand, so I can explain...b4 I go to bed.

Lmao...this got me cracking...some people can be very annoying

missberrypop5:
no wonder the devil is blue, so you don enter the ride. hahahahahahaha *falls off my iron bed*

what did she ask you abeg?

She asked me to advice her as a friend....that there is this guy that is always on her heels...telling her the he likes her....should she go for him.......can you imagine

missberrypop5:
Owk, Have you been in one before?

yes....you can imagine what the girl asked me one day.

ireneony:
how?

Am talking about guys that are being friendzoned by girls..how they can get out of it.

ireneony:
why not just ask her out the first time,instead of friend zoning her........
Guys with their tricks

you re not getting this...at all

ireneony:
In my other thread, I talked about guys taking ladies friendship for granted



You are here telling men to start a relationship instead to remain friend zone .

Guys will never change

what will a guy gain from being friend zoned by a girl he loves

Chimarto:
I don't understand.

what dont u understand there

Exjoker:
Some of these points will still land you back to the friend zone. Some girls find pleasure in friend zoning guys

if after doing all these, she still friendzones you...you leave her alone...and move on

I am creating this thread coz prior to that my texting mistakes thread most guys has been asking me about friendzone and how to get out of it. So lets talk about friendzoning.

If you have been hanging out with a girl and you still haven't gotten physical with her, then you are in the friendzone.

Most guys are in the deadly frienzone and are not even aware.

Here are some signs that you are in the friendzone.

She talks about other guys to you

she is too comfortable around you

she has a lot of other guys friends

she does'nt go out of her way to spend time with you.

And so many more.

That said, here are some steps you need to take to get out of the friendzone for good.

You need to break rapport with her
Yeah you need to dissappear from her life a little bit. Become unavailable to hangout and stop answering her calls right away.

You need to spark some jealousy in her.
You need to get her seeing a different side of you. The best way to do this is to make her jeallous by spending time with other girls, if you dont have others girls in your life,. Then you can try breaking plans. When she asks why, just be vague and let her assume you ve met someone.

Change some element of your appearance.
After you ve distant yourself a bit, yoy have to change your some elements of your appearance. This allows her to see you in a different view and allows her to feel attraction.

Flirt with her in a sexual way
when she shows positive signs, you need to begin teasing and flirting with her.

Touch her.
This is a cool way of igniting sexual tension, it can be as simple as touching her elbows when talking to her, try holding her hands and getting closer to her, when talking to her.

Kiss her.
At this point you have nothing to loos. Either you kiss her and she kisses you back, or you dont and end up stuck in the friendzone forever.
Take the chance as if its the only way to know if she likes you. A lot of time she will initially say ''what are you doing'' at this point you have to stay confidient and go for it. She might be testing you to know if you are for real.


Freindzoning is real guys, beware.

*drops pen*

She is tired

wildikeman:
OP. How do you know this? Its like you are talking about me. How do I avoid or get out of the friend zone.

dont worry i'd create a thread for that cause of you..

RedBenson:
Ok. It's biblically and religiously wrong for women to keep their head open when in the presence of God. I and my family dont do that.

Thanks for ur contribution....Good to knw u re against it

Princecalm:
if any woman wish not to cover her hair then she should have a haircut.

yeah

RedBenson:
irene, be careful with the rate at which you open threads on nairaland. Dem no dey use am collect money for bank o.

contribute to the thread..ur opinions are needed.

ireneony:
but the kind of church i attend, we dont that,.....does that make unholy....cause i know am a christiab

That doesn't make you unholy.....God is more concerned about the heart....than the outward appearance....buh sometimes its better to be on a safer side..and obey the words of the bible.

ireneony:
Can anyone throw more light on this

1 corinthinas 11 vs 6

SuperMartins:
Congrats Uncle Chibikes..You kept ur humility even when u were pushed to d limits,u still didnt loose guard.. Oboy,collect tosin award join ya own..tell am say na me send u..lolz

Congrats bro

Lol...thanks man....buh why u want make i collect tosin award na

naijaboiy:
Chibwike congrats!

Your award no really get competition

Lol....thank you....tallesty and the rest...na gud competitors oh.

ronald4lif:
Big congrats to the winners; andyblaze, t osyne2much and chibwike, well deserve winners

thank you

alberto2k:
Chibwike? seriously?
I don't know a thing about this bro

Anyways

Congrates to Chibwike

thanks man

tosyne2much:
Na Most Admired or Most Controversial you suppose feature ooooo if rigging no dey dis award

Lol..u don start

Kachisbarbie:
Chibwike my guy!
I knew you would make the community proud

Congrats mzgracie



watching it life dearie.
I'm sitted @the front (table for 5 ; 1million Naira)

hehehe...thanks ma'am......it only gets better.

And my attitude has fecthed me an award.

Firstly Am dedicating this award to God almighty for making it possible for me to be here today and implanting some good characters in me.

Secondly am dedicating it to my lovely friends here, sleekyshuga naijaboiy kristina1 mizmycoli tosyne2much marieolae kachisbarbie vickkyb supermartins missberrypop5 idowuogbo and odas i cant mention, you guys are the best jare. .and love you all.

Once again thanks for the award.

*bows and walks out of the stage*

Kachisbarbie:
Dygeasy
How far na?

You didn't even invite Davido or Basketmouth to entertain us.
Biko come call awards.

You just dey waste time, u no go still wear fine suit commot.

You dont listen to sanko again?

Following

ireneony:
am fine....what do have to say about my thread.

Please try and contribute to it

Lol....they ve said it all...most people spoke my mind

kristina1:
Yea,but guys were too many,and i didnt really noticed.

Ok no problem..i'd change it

kristina1:
Lol.
U neva change ur pix na

were u around during the Mr NL contest?

VickyyB:
Pele

*deep sigh*

kristina1:
Ok....tanx
I wl be on the lookout,for ur pix and posts as well,then let z see what wl happen.

Ahan...the ones that u ve seen..aren't they enough