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johnson232:
is she your first love?
If yes...it's natural. All u need do is to dump her & move on...the moment a woman discovers a man loves her too much, she begins to act strange & d relationship becomes uncertain...that is why as a man, u must always put your emotions under check in subsequent relationship...

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I've been fvcking but she is my first real love... maybe... that's the issue.

stubornnn:
You need to be a man. She sees you as a pussssy and believe me every woman hates such behavior.


Up your game.... Bone her totally...I mean bone her finally. Get another girl or find olsoho to keep yourself company and get your mind off her.

If you need olosho i will give you. Just dump that babe

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I'm laughing my Tommy off . . . I got to try it ooo

stubornnn:
She obviously doesn't love or respect you anymore and any relationship without mutual love and respect is gone.

Dump her asap and try and keep what's left of your ego before she breaks your heart. The lady ain't matured and definitely not ready to be tied down.

Free the girl and never accept her back under any circumstances because she'll continue with such behavior even with another man. You're obviously not in total control of your relationship and you seem to love her more.

She has shown on countless occasions with numerous actions how much she loves me... maybe I'm becoming too soft for that.

johnson232:
u are a weak guy....your girlfriend knows this...that is why she is taking advantage of your weakness...She know u can't live without her

Man up & prove her wrong, let her know u can live without her...but i know u can do the bold, because u are weak...Sorry bro. It's gonna be like this till she eventually dump your sorry as$..

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Love weakened me.. lesson learnt.

SorftWerk:
this won't end well.. I assure you, and..... I've warned you! No cry reach my dummot when the time comes.

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Lol... thank you, Sir.

ElsonMorali:
People will tell you to end the relationship but I think I know How tough that can be.

Have a heart to heart with her and ask her what she wants. If she wants to continue with you or not.

If she says she's done with you, Please maintain some dignity and self respect and leave her presence, get home first before crying or breaking down or whatever.

Then begin the task of cleaning her from your memory.

But If she says she wants to go on with you, then ask her to break it off with that other guy as she won't like it If you double date too.

Infidelity makes my skin crawl...yuck!

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You see I've tried this when it first happened (I believe you read the whole post), and she said I should give her time to easily get the guy off...but damn... I still see her chats with this dude... I LOVE her but she is using it on me... I am already concluding on what to do...Time to be BRAVE... and Save myself some sh*ts

murphyibiam15:
you seem weak...which one is choosing bw u and the guy..the moment she told u that she was confused simply meant you have lost her.why not be a full man.is your choice to choose her not the other way round.

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You mean threaten the new guy to back off or what... by choosing her..please, clarify.

SorftWerk:
sincerely you don't have a choice cos I ain't giving you one, if I were your friend, you will definitely break up with her cos I can't condone evil... You will see the truth behind what I'm saying, if not now, maybe later.... Start dating someone else right now, someone better than she is, in all aspects, then you get more involved with ur new girl while showing the first girl little attention, with time U'll loose interest in ur first bae... She's a junk!

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See my point here... I need the truth behind these... besides it was incredible when she told me she never had sex with the guy.. the guy was clouding her with money.

kullozone:
She said that before? And you're still bringing this shii here... Take your time oh!

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I gave the full narration to see opinions on it... You know we all are not full of knowledge.

SorftWerk:
if you don't brake up with her, u are a "B"


I am really angry reading ur post... Dump her stupid!

Lol... Bro... For me..breaking up aint easy ooo... I will try.

greatnaija01:
get another girl

tag her in your romantic posts on facebook.

take the other girl out and snap it as you dp

then find a third girl to be friends with you.. BE THE PLAYER...

NICE GUYS GET THE WORST GIRLS.... NICE LADIES GET THE WORST GUYS


So switch the game... dont ask her about her guy o... dont sleep with her or buy her anything....JUST MOVE ON without break up...This makes the girl feel guilty after some time... but now i can assure you that the other guy is giving her better sex, money or fun more than you and the other guy too aint a nice guy.... she is only his side chick.

PEOPLE NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT PLAYERS CREATE BETTER PLAYERS.... its nt usually the first to cheat that wins... but the revenge cheat thats d one that SLAYS...


Let this your lady visit you and meet the third or second girl in your crib

let her call you and one of the two girls tell her you are busy... change her contact name to KID-SIS or DAYO MOTHER or somthin no one will hesitate to reply.

GIVE IT 3-6 MONTHS BRO.... she will be running back to you... BUT ONCE SHE COME BACK.. DUMP HER.

This is the assassins way to deal with such ladies... YOU LOVE HER TOO MUCH IS SIMPLY INSECURITY THAT YOU MAY NOT FIND ANOTHER BETTER GIRL... thats not true... FOLLOW THIS AND YOU WILL DO THANKSGIVING IN CHURCH SOON.

I doubt if its better sex because she gets much more from me ( not bragging though)... The main issue is that I noticed the other guy has been spending his life savings on her... That's scary because I can't see a reason why a sensible man should be that extravagant... I'm considering opting out honestly...Thanks.

Ballmer:
Am glad you have sampled her, now move on to the next girl. Sample that too when your girl is ready after the other guy have gotten his share of the pie, She will wash and bring it back to you. It is left for you to continue or not but virtually all girls must spread their pie far n wide no matter how much love you have got to give till common sense is forked into their lives. Verily, I tell you only few girls have the have the intelligence to understand its the same pipe world over. Same with the guys too.

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Sounds comic to me but true sha... I thought she is wise... just disappointed.

Divay22:
They break your heart

Divay... as a lady... what do You think I should do on this?

TrueHeart365:
then you have two options.

1- stay as a side nigga

2- move on with your life. (though won't be easy but it's the best thing to do)

the worst thing you can do to yourself is remain in a dead relationship. the suffering is worse than being locked up in prison.

it's your life so do what yoh will.

please don't make the mistake of sorting things out at her place. it'll give her the advantage.

is she refuses to come over then bro, you pick from the options above.

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I appreciate your advice, Bro... I will try to invite her over and see how things go...
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TrueHeart365:
guys these days are ultimate fcukboys and it's really annoying how you submit to these hoes whose love for you is only for the goodies you give them.

lemme tell you from my experience. i used to be this foolish for love until i learnt that humans will always take for granted what they can easily get.

my girlfriend of 8 months wanted to play that game with me and even though i fell for it at first, thank God for my mum and sisters who sat me down and thought me what i used to tame her.

bro, that you care about someone doesn't mean you have to give her your dignity and pride. she sees how submisive you are and will continue to take you for a ride until you become a side nigga.

invite her over(don't make the mistake of goung to her place), be a man and prepare for the worst while you ask her to chose between you and the new nigga(cos it's obvious she has developed feelings for him).

be the alpha male and set some rules in your relationship. which mumu love you dey talk about.

no woman, i repeat.. no woman will ever respect or stay loyal to a weak man. they want you to take control and the moment you can't they take you for a ride.

please enough of this silly "i love her so much" talk, it's no excuse to be the doormat in the relationship.

And if she chooses the guy??

iamdynamite:
its quite obvious your gf have developed feelings for the new guy already....my advice is for you to have a showdown talk with her....she should either choose the guy or you........

I did that the last time I noticed and she was like she can't choose any of us... She is confused blah blah blah.

eezeribe:
Just end the relationship

That is what I'm thinking too... Just that its not been easy for me...

eezeribe:
Just end the relationship

That is what I'm thinking too... Just that its not been easy for me...

[quote author=greatnaija01 post=55066997]she is playing you like nairabet return the game o with bet9ja
FIRST TO DO NO DEY PAIN O


Lol... Make it clear to me, please

[quote author=greatnaija01 post=55066997]she is playing you like nairabet return the game o with bet9ja
FIRST TO DO NO DEY PAIN O


Lol... Make it clear to me, please

This is my first time to share a problem here and I will appreciate everyone's opinion please.
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I have a gf that I've been with for some years now and everything has been going real fine. It was all merry going, though we've had few fights, but we always made up and the relationship continued.
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The real problem started some time last year when we had misunderstanding and was not on talking terms for few days. I dogged deep and discovered that my gf is hooking up with another guy and from findings, I noticed it was just a fresh talk which now evolved because of our little quarrel.. I kept calm and waited for weekend to visit her and make up things with her and also to know why she acted that way..
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When I went, I noticed she went out with this guy and even she came back..she didn't felt remorseful rather blamed everything on me and the issue we had during the week. I didn't loose my anger because of the love I have for her and tried working things up to make up with her...which was successful coupled with the fact that the guy later went back to school.
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From then till now, she kept contact with the guy, but I wasn't bothered because our love was flourishing and rationally, I never expected them to be sudden enemies... but the issue began recently when I failed on a promise to visit her at her place and considering stuffs I was doing.
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That was some days ago and since then she has been acting funny on phone and chats and I recently noticed that the guy is back from a romantic Fb post she made and tagged him.
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Honestly, I am tired of my gf using the guy as a bait or threat to me and needs advice on what to
do to end that...

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Thanks as you help a bro out of this emotional stress... I just love this Lady.

OP, you have tried.. Oya go back to sleep. this is Saturday. . No need to come online for you.

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dcolumbus001:
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Should I help you out?

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MasterZee:
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Phiheywhy1:
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Was having same issue today... try using the lite version on your phone...

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