Hi everyone. It is nice to see we all have something to say about this issue of marriage. No matter how you look at it someone is hurting in one area or another. I am in the medical field and i see how some Caucasians (not to say they are better than us) stick by their spouses even to the point of death. We are beginning to get our priorities mixed up; love is now a stranger, we either marry for one reason or the other. I don't blame the women for wanting security but i blame some for being over ambitious. At the same time i don't blame the men for wanting women with good careers because they need help with bills in the US but i blame some for not wanting to go to school or succeed in their careers and when a woman turns them down they come up with "she wants to marry a doctor, lawyer , or an already made man". The bible says that God made the man the provider for the household while the wife is the helper and the one that bears the burden of child birth. In recent time, especially in the western world 2 incomes make a home. The single most important thing when looking for a life partner is GOD, seek God's hand. You may marry the richest man and still be very empty and unhappy, at the same time you may marry the most beautiful lady and God forbid, something happens and she is no longer beautiful, what do you do? If you seek the hand of God you see beauty in everything, that doesn't mean you will not encounter challenges but in all things you share peace, happiness, tolerance, patience and above all LOVE.

stilllord, Thanks for your interest in being my friend. I hope that i will impact your life in a positive way. Remain blessed

No i don't have any. i thought is ok to raise a topic, does it have to be personal ? It will be nice to be more open minded, this is just an open forum for discussion not combat war. Thanks

I'm not available if thats what you mean, but i think we have a lot of eligible single men and women out there. Thanks for asking.

Nigerian singles in the US need to get together and quit fighting each other. A lot of Nigerians are doing well but are scared of each other, just because of ugly experiences of the past. It is about time, Nigerians quit bringing each other down and find something good in one another. Nigerian men are looking elsewhere (Americans, Caucasians, home etc)  just to get to the Nigerian females and the females are getting older before they find a partner. The negativity is becoming overwhelming and something needs to done fast,  i pray for God's mercy and peace. What do you think?