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Kobojunkie:
1. Fears and submits to which God naw? I ask because even that Khomeini guy wey dem kill yesterday swear say him too be man wey they pursue the mission and calling given him by his god even after him don murder about 32000 of his people in less than a month at that.

2. Yes, that is usually the external image we are given of such men as the one mentioned above, until you take a closer look and realize they are some of the vilest of creatures, as portrayed by his beliefs as presented in his book on Islamic Governance. 🥱🥱

3. Yet, history has shown us, time and time again, that most of these so-called men who fear God are some of the most corrupt and most wicked entities the world has ever had. How come?

First off, By God here I meant the thrice holy triune God and secondly, it's God that knows those who are truly His.

Kobojunkie:
What is a real man?

A real man is someone who fears God and submits to His will for his life. He is committed to discipline and order as he pursues the mission and calling God has given him. He is not intimidated or shaped by cultural or feminist gyno centric standards that seek to redefine manhood in ways that weaken, distort or neuter it.
He understands that if he becomes a husband and father, he is called to lead his family. That leadership carries both authority and responsibility. He must guide, protect, and provide for his household, directing it according to a clear vision grounded in obedience to God.

So in a simple short sentence: A real man fears God, governs himself, loves sacrificially, leads with authority and responsiblity, stands firm against corruption, and lives with integrity in private and public life.

Merry100:
Relax. I wasn't addressing your category. I was simply describing real men who naturally earn respect. You insecure ones who think having chromosomes entitles you to respect were simply just mentioned for contrast.

You won't even recognize what a "real man" is even if he was standing right besides you. What you just described is a form of a human being from your own imagination or fantasy.

Merry100:
Can you show me one real man who cries over gifts after a breakup? Only little boys think this way. When a relationship doesn't work out, secure men simply move on, because relationships are about connection, not transactions. That is why they walk away peacefully when the connection doesn't click or grow.

My brother, women are not dogs that you can cage with gifts. You better just get yourself a female bingo; with just treats, she would be following you up and down.

Even those real men offering to take women on several trips overseas, don't cage women. But you; just for a mere phone; you are already acting like means of survival. Personally, I just don't even allow guys to fund my trips when we travel together. I do this just to avoid any sense of sexual entitlement coming up.

There are 365 days in a year, some guys would go on two days dating in a year to an eatery with her lady and you would start feeling like means of survival.

All these real men this, real men that no longer works anymore, this is unsubmissive modern women ways of CONTROLLING men.
Men knows what to do when they see a woman who truly loves, reverence and submits to them, you as a women do not tell a man what he ought to do, afterall he is a leader in the relationship and ought to know the direction to stir it in according to his vision, the woman is there to help him in it and do all she can to bring it to fruition.

Merry100:
His lady is even better. My own future wedding checklist doesn't have anything like management on it. What is a wedding without hype? 🤣 Segun Johnson is even on my wedding checklist (Sho ma no wo yen tan? Sho ma no wo yen tan? Are you spending or not? Are you spending or not? 😄)

If my dream wedding is his red flag, then he is also my red flag. I can save for what I want, but I won't downsize my dreams just to please someone's ego. That day is specially for creating beautiful memories.

Typical of a modern woman. Always more interested in the wedding day itself than the marriage and how to properly build a home.

rickpat:
Good luck sha...dog when wan die no dey hear him owner voice again

This comment or should I say proverb got me laughing hard.

It's greed and not poverty. Even the examples you cited is as a result of greed and being materialistic.
While a few may go into prostitution due to poverty but a huge percent is due to lack of contentment, and to appear large.

I hope you'all know that's A.I right?