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So over the years, they continue giving birth to kids without source of income. Even with all the birth control available they continue having kids. I just don't understand people.

The maid is wrong. You are living under their house, being paid, provided food stuff to cook and eat yet you want to refuse a kid from eating. That is the duty of the parents to discipline the kid. She should have reported to the parents.

If the kid physically attacked her, then she can report and quit the job. That was unprofessional of her.

Madam how do you know most men are afraid of successful women. How many men have you asked or seen saying they are afraid of successful women.

Most successful women treat people poorly because of ego.
Most successful women still want the man to pay for things so why should men care About a woman's wealth.
Most successful women don't listen to people's advice.
Most successful women want to do whatever they want even when in a relationship and don't care about the negativity that action will have on the relationship.
Most successful women will think of leaving a man they are earning more than because they believe they deserve better.
Most successful women will rub the wealth difference between her and her man the moment an argument comes up.

The list goes on so no man is afraid of a successful woman. The juice is just not worth the squeeze so men avoid engaging with a lady that earns more than them.

With the direction that Nigeria is moving, If you are not wealthy, you go suffer.

That's because the opening created to pump fat into the bum hasn't healed properly. One it fully heals, there won't be any smell. Fat mixed with chemical and dead tissue causes foul odor. It's safer than silicon in the long run but I would advice against both. It's just not worth it.

Isn't this old news. I remember reading something like this months ago.

All these loan apps self. They go just they create their own interests. That guy was ready for war

report to the police so that they can begin Investigaton. If the man is guilty, he should face justice and if your sister is falsely accusing someone, then she too should face justice.

A struggling citizen stole groundnut oil and got this treatment, yet politicians are stealing billions and people are hailing them. Africans and their mentality.

5starMan:
Daughters to 3 different parents actually nauw
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Although it's still possible the other way round
...Nah the discussion dey attract dem flies
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I know. Tenants discuss among themselves especially ladies. The ladies will also see the guy hanging out with each of them. Its the same compound. There is no way one of them didn't see him talking with another lady outside.

ADC is just full of the same corrupt politicians that made Nigeria bad however Tinubu is a disaster.

Being a non-virgin doesn't mean you are a bad marriage candidate. That shouldn't be enough to disqualify a lady in the dating pool.

PapaNnamdi:
Nyash na nyash





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Please take a moment to write a quality post with at least 40 characters.
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Bro you too like nyash. Wetin bring nyash come plumbing work. You won die on top nyash?

Power corrupts. Why do we keep hearing about soldiers and police violently disturbing citizens. Justice needs to be served with immediate effect.

Thats a very unfortunate situation. May God protect us all.

Men and women are different so our values on the dating pool will differ. I can't date a lady of that age because I prefer youth.

So the daughters all agreed to have sex with one guy. So they don't discuss among themselves or see the guy being close to one another. Tomorrow they will blame all men for their foolishness.

The guy self is foolish too because he just created unnecessary problem for himself because of sexual pleasure. How long does he plan to flee. They should find him and bring him back to face the consequences of his actions.

emperor4love:
Make una continue the marry mad men,u no see all the signs

Don't mind them. Later they will say female can read people.

Gracefulman:
That intimate act could bring in a sixth child he is not prepared for and his sacking of wife issue is wickedness of ill-tempered men, he is still a boy.

He shouldn't have kicked her out. It's very unjust and unethical.

papiSNEH:
what's the 1k for? is it for eba or is it for corn.... poor man and wokiriwo na 5&6

She agreed to marry him. 1k is small to you however it's big to a lot of people in Nigeria. They are both poor so don't single out the man as poor. They both shouldn't have that many kids to begin with.

Double0h7:
Example of why a poor man should never have an election 🥹

But poor women can? Or is it poor people should never have an election?

Probz:
Your diatribe says it all. In the meantime, take a chill-pill.

And again you can't bring up any reasonable point other than shaming tactics. Feminism has taught you well. Since you can't bring up anything reasonable to discuss, then no point continuing the discussion. Have a lovely day.

Probz:
You’ve let yourself be derailed to this extent over an instance of someone abusing an elderly person in a care-home. That says it all. Your tangential diatribe must be coming from a place of misogyny, however heretofore-internalised. It can’t be any other way.

This particular woman is despicable. But many more males have done the same. I’m sure you don’t victimise the male sex as a whole in those instances, and that’s just the bottom-line. You’re the one with double standards.

If you couldn't debunk what I said, then it means I speak the truth. You need to bring reasons not just accuse men of hating women. I'm always in a neutral stance and because women have been brainwashed to a high level, they never want to take accountability. In Nairaland, We criticize Men everytime if men do something wrong. Why is it now forbidden to do the same criticism for women.

Yesterday there was a post about a female cab driver attacked by Agberos. It's something that happens a lot to male cab drivers but all of a sudden, some people wanted to make it special by saying people should rally up. Male and women are both humans and deserve equal reaction not women receiving special treatment.

You said the post about the female caretaker was just to talk shit about women. So that lady doesn't deserve criticism for what she did? If she does then how is it misogyny? You are supposed to condemn her too but the feeling to defend the sisterhood is too deep. The old man died shortly after but the problem you see is men critizing the woman.

If it was a male caretaker that did that to a woman, will you complain if people criticized the man? Men are just treating women more towards equality since women killed chivalry. It is you that don't want to see it that way.

Stop seeing the world like men hate women. That is a propaganda pushed by feminism. If that old man was your father, you will not react this way.

https://www.nairaland.com/8465721/enugu-man-beats-own-mother look at this today's post. Men are critizing this male killer not praising him. Why can't women receive criticism too?

Probz:
But that initial post was made out of nothing other than pure misogyny. Always shitting on women.

Not entirely misogyny but I I can see why you will think of it as such. The reason men have started behaving this way can be due to the double standards women have when it comes to crime and some other things. Not only that but the feminism movement has soured a lot of things. I will give you some examples:

Promiscuous behavior has gone extremely high recently. Is it caused by feminism? Don't know and can't say but feminist wanted sexual liberation. Only they know what that even means.

Chanting and celebration of hating men. They blame men for everything even when men are victims. They always try to put everything bad towards men and it makes men very upset at women even if not all women do that.

Women can do no wrong mentality and this has made some women difficult to advice or associate with. Imagine how easy a woman can falsely accuse someone and that person is locked up.

There are many things but I'm sure it will bore. you.

Trump is working. It's unfair for men to enter women sports and strip away the chances of women winning. They know they have an advantage if not they would have entered male sports.

Feminism wanted to feminize men and it back fired on them. Now it's a man that feminist hate that is fighting for them. This life gets as it be.

Brenbentondiaz:
Lolz. Nigerians are so easy to manipulate. Anything that will remove this evil party? And that anything involves many individuals that left that "evil party" because they were schemed out of their share of the spoils. Nigerians are truly a very gullible people (obidense I'm looking at ya).

It's about the lesser evil. They are all politicians and to get to a certain level, you need to be very cunning. Obi is not a saint and I don't trust him but if I'm asked between Tinubu and Obi, I believe he might be better. Tinubu is callous and shows very little care about the citizens.

Obi even seems gentle for a tough country like Nigeria however i can't see the future. Tinubu came in and just threw everyone into severe hardship without care and now he wants to go for second term.

badaru911:
... All of them are evil.. Its like a kettle calling a pot black. Like a man posted above, no ideologies,aim is just to grab power to enrich themselves and their families, nothing else.. All politicians are just irritating me.

I know. I don't trust any politician. It's just that some are less destructive than others. Let the lesser evil take charge. Even Obi that people are praising isn't some saint but at least he seems less callous than Tinubu.

I support the coalition. Anything that will remove this evil party is welcomed.

The guy should go and take rabis injection. you can never be too sure.

Probz:
Men are far more likely to abuse the “weaker” person. The patriarchy props ir up.

It's not about men are far more likely but people in general. Both women and men exhibit such a behavior, but we always try to make it look like it's a male only thing. It has nothing to do with patriarchy because if i asked you how, you will most likely just say because men are in power. I can debunk the patriarchy mindset by saying lesbian relationship has the highest domestic violence if compared to heterosexual and gay relationships with gay relationships having the lowest. if you need proof, I can send you the link.

Men are stronger than women by biology and since women can't target men, they target old folks or kids. Men can target all because there aren't any weaker than men. These means that if women were stronger than men, women will do the same.

Is it today that it started. Men have complained about it Soo many times. Nothing special. Hustling is tough in Nigeria.

I told a lady some days ago that records show women are more likely to abuse weaker people, she thought I just disliked women.

Very soon some women will look for a way to justify her actions.